Can I save my relationship?

[Anonymous]

So, the gag is… I’ve been dating this guy for eight months. I like him loads, and we’ve even met each other’s parents (which was huge for me, since he’s the first guy I’ve ever introduced to my family). The issue is that he’s NM, and while that’s not a problem per se, the way he sleeps around is something I just can’t keep up with. This entire weekend he went AWOL. He told me he was going on a date Friday, then only texted me on Sunday. I ignored him (since he hadn’t texted me Friday) until yesterday. Today he texted me saying he misses me and pointing out our communication issues. I just wanted to let him know how all of that hurt me, but maybe I can’t. I’m terrified of realizing that maybe NM is not for me, but I can’t fathom being in a monogamous relationship either. What can I do?

[ohsheeT]

Wait a min. So your dating a guy. And its ok for him to date other girls at the same time...

Abd you have been a good girl and saving yourself. But you have been thinking about it and now your thinking you dont like the guy going out with other girls and having sex

So now your thinking about having sex with him to prove to him serious you are about him

Good down deep. You also know if you do that. He is probably still going to go out with these girls. So is this what I read

[BadApple69]

This is not a good relationship. This guy wants his cake and eat it too

[Anonymous]

Find someone who is compatible. This man is not what you need.

[Twalli]

So how can you not be monogamous nor non monogamous? It's one or the other.