How can I save my relationship?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy 3 months ago whom I have fallen hard for. We met at the club and were inseparable for the first 24hrs of meeting. Not only is he a 6’6 god but he has the sweetest and kindest personality and the sex is amazing. He loves showing me off to his friends and you can just tell how proud he is to be with me. Everything was going well until a week ago. We were hanging out and he started asking me if I would date him and just generally hinting that he wants more. I told him I wanted more too. We had a few drinks and had sex and got into an argument after that. We were both pretty drunk so I can’t remember what we argued about but it was something really minor and stupid. I just remember leaving and going home in the middle of the night. I texted him the next morning to see if he’s ok and he left me on read. I decided to give him some space so I let a week pass. I texted him last night asking if we’re ever going to talk again. He said “After the way you acted last week hell nah”. I apologized for my behavior but also let him know he was rude too but I don’t want to argue and just move on from this. He responded “yeah ok”. So I asked him if we could speak on the phone which he agreed to. I went to the restroom before I called him just to see that he was calling me. He couldn’t wait 60 seconds for me to call him. He was being immature on phone giving me one word answers. He wasn’t mean or anything but he wasn’t trying to have a conversation either and kept telling me he is going to bed now. I send him a text after the call saying that I want him to know that I care about him and I apologize if upset him because I don’t like going apart in anger. He left me on read again. I think I’ve lost him for good now and it hurts so much. I don’t know what to do because this made me realize I actually do love him.

[spartan55]

Doesn't sound like an actual relationship, but a hookup. I notice you didn't mention what you said during that argument...

[Asker]

I know it wasn’t a relationship but I felt like we were heading there. The only thing I remember is that he got too drunk so I put him to bed and said I’m going home. Also made him aware I have to be somewhere at 9am and it’s an 1 1/2 drive there. He told if walk out the door he’ll never speak to me again and I told him will not let him “threaten me” and left

[spartan55]

So you drove home drunk... brilliant.

[Asker]

No I took a cab.

[spartan55]

Ahhh, good. So you don't remember anything? Something must have been said that pissed him off.

[Asker]

Yeah I think so too but he won’t tell me. I can tell he does not want to end it but I’ll just let it be and give him space. I know this sounds like a hook up but we were more than that.

[spartan55]

Sounds like he wanted to end it to me.

[Asker]

I guess I should just delete his number and delete him off of social media and move on huh?

[Anonymous]

It's not about anything you said. It's the fact that you left after the argument. He told you he'd never talk to you again if you walked out the door. He wanted you to stay despite the argument. Maybe he has a fear of abandonment.

[Asker]

What would you do in this situation?

[Opinion Owner]

Give him space. Maybe down the road, you can reconnect.

[VikingWarLord]

You're infatuated with him, not in love with him.
Move on, he did you a favor

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds like a fucked relationship already.

[CuriousMufuxka]

This is not a relationship. It was a hookup.

[Asker]

Yeah I know. From a guys perspective, do you think he will come around?

[CuriousMufuxka]

No. According to your description, you already threw yourself at him!

[PeterSmith1983]

Just be open and honest

[Yuuibtony]

U don't date people you hookup with