How can you save a relationship if he wants to break up?

[abby1980]

Is there any possiblity to keep the relationship going under this condition?

[boomerang]

If he's thinking of calling it quits, first thing is to truly listen to him, try to get where he's coming from. Have an honest chat about your feelings and what you both see down the line. Sometimes, taking a bit of space can actually clear things up. In that time, work on yourself; it's a sign you're willing to make things better. If he's not into trying, forcing it won't do any good. Sometimes, letting go is the toughest yet bravest move. Whatever happens, focusing on growing yourself is always the right call.

[naartjie]

You don’t. You leave. Especially if it’s the man who wants things to end.
What u can say to do is just move on, no contact. Don’t argue with him or beg him. Don’t even block him off things. If he says, “I don’t want this anymore”, you reply with “I don’t either”. If he says, “I think we should break up and see other people”, you then say, “yes I think we should”
Don’t give him the satisfaction. I’ve done this and I can tell you right now, they end up being so confused and constantly check up on you via stalking or messaging how you’re so fine with it. You still don’t reply. Hit of the ego for them.

[bobalife]

infamous opinion here, it isn't harmful to ask, "I do care about you, is there anything we can do to resolve it?" or open-ended resolution prompts if there is still any hope. At the sametime, we must also respect our s/o's choice to break up if that's truly what they want and let them go because you also deserve someone who is willing to make it work, stay, and choose to love you.

[RHK36]

You could, but he'll just break your heart even more later. Don't force it and be appreciative that he's trying to do the right thing and end it now. If you can't accept it, know that he recognizes he dodged a bullet. Not being able to accept and move on is a sign of immaturity. You'll both move on and meet new people. Appreciate what you had and look forward to your future. Take some time being single. Grow, have fun and do things that you couldn't when you were in a relationship. It'll make you a better person and heal you for your next relationship.

Sorry for the essay, I'm high 😂

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic tale of trying to keep the romance burning when the other person is ready to douse the flames. It's like trying to cook a gourmet meal but your kitchen's on fire – tricky, but not necessarily impossible. First off, let's understand one thing – if he's vocalizing a desire to break up, there's a big red flag waving in your relationship's gentle breeze.

Now, here's the twist in the tale – communication, my friend. It's the key to possibly turning things around. Have an open, honest, and heart-to-heart chat about what's driving this breakup train. Sometimes, it's a misunderstanding, or maybe the relationship has hit a plateau, and it's easier to jump off than to climb higher.

Keep in mind though, transforming 'I want to break up' into 'Let's work this out' is a delicate dance. Respect his feelings – it's crucial. See if there's room for compromise or if specific issues can be addressed. However, remember, love shouldn't feel like a hostage negotiation. If the desire to split is firm, consider it a sign that it's time to focus on self-growth and move forward gracefully.

Engage in some serious self-reflection too. What do you want? What are you willing to change or compromise on? And remember, if this love story doesn't get its sequel, it's not the end. Sometimes, the exit of one person makes room for someone even more amazing to walk in.

Feeling like navigating these stormy relationship seas together? Slide into the chat, and let's dish out some love wisdom! 🌹

[OlderAndWiser]

1. No. One person, acting alone, cannot keep a relationship alive.

2. Why would you want to spend more time with someone who has announced that he doesn't want to spend any time with you?

[sage2021]

Like my brother says "Don't leave scratch marks". Meaning don't try to hold onto him. Let him go, cause that's where he wants to be. Fine! He just better not darken your doorway again after hurting you.

[BCA6010]

The exact context here is unclear, but the short version is that a relationship won't last when the effort put into it is one-sided. If he's ready to leave, then it's effectively over.

[dustybiker2]

Why do you want to stay with someone who doesn't want you? Respect yourself and find someone who does.

[rosemilk]

if he wants to break up, it's what he'll do and there's no changing someones mind and if you try, then you are only prolonging the inevitable.

[IslaTheWitch]

Learn why he wants to break up. If it is something you can work on, solve it together... go for it

[melnc]

I don't know how long you guys have been together but I suggest talking to him first about it. If it doesn't work, let him go without hesitation.

[SweetDripp]

Why would you want to stay with someone who wants to break up with you?

[Yannae]

You find out why he wants to break up and see if that problem can be solved.

[laly520]

mostly no
if one calls it off then no point in forcing it

[Nikki1989]

You don't. You just accept it and move on.

[KrakenAttackin]

You can't talk your way out of being dumped. Every man knows this.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to? If someone wants to leave your life just let them go.

[DextroShade]

You have to ask him what he wants and then SUBMIT!

[sheikalana]

Let him go.