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Is it normal for guys to be too sexually driven and to be expressive about it?

I've been talking to this man for 7 months now. We broke up for 2 months within that period but he reached out and wanted us to continually talking. I told him that I wasn't sure if it's going anywhere but he seemed hopeful about it and wanted us to give it a try again. We're long distance. Our first call after the breakup was soft and serious, we talked for 4 hours about everything. Our second call tho I could hear that he was a little drunk and he was more flirty and playful. I'm not sure if I can say that we're dating, but he always says that he likes me and always calls me his girl. He said he doesn't date just to date but to marry and i like his seriousness and consistency despite being able to bang any girl he wants in his vicinity because he's attractive. I asked him why he would still choose me giving that I'm in another continent and he can literally date any woman he wants, and he said that he can do that but he likes ME, and then he started being vulgar and saying bedroom stuff to me. I told him that I'm giving him permission to fulfill his desires with another woman since I'm too far from him but he said that I'm the only girl that he wants to do those things to. He wasn't romantic in that moment, I tried to soften the atmosphere and be all vulnerable and express my feelings to him romantically but was only talking sexually. He used to being vulnerable with me before the breakup, and tells me that he loves me and that he'd put me first, we would also talk about our future together and having kids, but in that moment specifically I felt objectified. He told me that he fantasizes about me only because he likes me. So is it normal for guys to be like that sometimes with their girlfriends? I'm not really experienced at those things since I've never really had a boyfriend that loyal before so I just want to be sure about him and his intentions.
Ps: I didn't really feel uncomfortable when he was that expressive with me, just a little doubtful.
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7 mo
So we were on a call last night, we played chess, we talked for hours, made plans to meet each other in the future, talked about different topics, then we said goodnight and hung up. First thing I read in the morning is a crude, explicit, very sexual message. He's not used to be that sexual with me, and I hate the way I like it.
Is it normal for guys to be too sexually driven and to be expressive about it?
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