I’m F and I’m seeing this guy M for the past year. We got into an exclusive relationship when we started seeing each other, but later on i found out he’s on dating apps and is probably talking to other women. I confronted him and he gave an excuse that he doesn’t use those apps anymore. Now it’s been more than a year and I want something serious. Prolonged exclusiveness is bothering me because it’s not normal. I explicitly told him that I’m gonna try to find a man who will commit to me and be in a serious relationship. He got mad. For him, it’s only sex I believe. I blatantly said I want a commitment and you’re not committing to me so what do you expect me to do? I’m not wrong in trying to have a stable relationship. And he said yeah I’m not wrong. But still won’t say a word about committing to me. I was transparent and honest about my feelings and kept my stance. I’m looking for other men now while he pretends that everything is normal between us and still wants to pursue just a sexual relationship with me, I’m like okay we can do that till I get a boyfriend and once I have one you’re out.
he knows I’m the marriage type, I’m loyal. I was loyal the whole time and never looked at any other guy except for him. He knows that. I don’t know what’s stopping him from committing to me, my friends say “he’s not that into you or just sees you as a sex toy”
but when I ask him what are you looking for he says no situationships. I’m confused. I want out and I want him to regret, it’s already hard to find a good partner who’s loyal honest and trustworthy and I know I am that. I just want him to realise what he’s missing out, I don’t want to take revenge for not fulfilling my expectations or wasting my time. My question is do men really regret losing a good woman? Even if they were in a situationship?
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Actual good people wouldn't be in a "situationship" in the first place. That is just for immoral low quality people.
Damn! I’ve never been in a situationship before and this is my first time. Never experienced this. Guess I made a fool of myself
How many times has this guy taken you out to dinner?
Max 4 times in the whole year. Not even dinner, coffee dates.
If this guy has never taken you out for dinner then he's not serious about you at all. Going and getting coffee is not a real date.
How many times has this guy taken you out on a proper date like out to dinner to go do something fun like go to a museum, concert, walk on the beach, lunch and a movie, anything
No proper date. Never.
I don't know why you even wasted your time with this guy
If you were exclusive, he cheated on you.
He definitely did
You probably should end all ties. Clearly he doesn't value or respect you.