So I dated this guy for 7-8 months and he really persuaded me to be with him for quite some time before ( had a crush). A few months later I told him I did like him a lot. This other chick who has a track record of being a player (I don’t think he knows) was texting and talking to him in the meanwhile hanging out and also making sure he wasn’t giving attention to any other girls but also telling him she’s not interested in dating. Once he did move on with me, she came right back into texting him and getting him to meet up with her. We are polar opposites in the sense she’s a huge extrovert and has a habit of crying about all her problems to one guy making him feel special and repeating it with others. She obviously couldn’t handle the fact that he moved on and kept texting him everyday. There was a point I was angry but trusted him and didn’t want to come off as controlling. We were still getting to know eachother and me being shy takes a while for me to open up (I mentioned this to him ). I was going to leave to college and we talked about it and ok with ldr. The week before I left he told me he couldn’t be with me anymore but lied about the reason. She makes sure he follows her around while also saying she won’t date him and tells everyone how he won’t leave her alone. She supposedly even told him when we were together things like so ‘you won’t meet me now that you’ve got a girlfriend’ or ‘I miss you sooo much’ ‘I’m not over you and will take me a while’ ‘ I wanna go to a concert and spend time with you’ . All this while we were together in order to make him go back which honestly did work. I feel bad for him but also myself over the fact that I cried so much cause of this chick. I found out he blocked her recently and hopefully knows the truth. It’s either that or he loves her. He reached out a few times after that but as I said with his ego I’m not sure what’s going on in his head.
Will he realise his mistake?
