How would you feel if a girl you’re meeting in person for the first time brought you something she baked from scratch?

[Anonymous]

So I’m going to meet this guy I met on tinder in person this week and he told me he lived in Ukraine for a while. When I heard that I told him I can bake piroshkis and he got really excited. Would it be too much if I baked some piroshkis to give to him the first time we meet?

[HawkPerception]

It might come off a bit too strong early on. You're on a first date, and you're already bringing wifey material traits. A first date is just about getting to know the person and seeing if they're a good fit for you.

As much as the home baked good would be appreciated (especially piroshkis), my advice is to just relax and take it easy. Don't put in that much effort at the start. Because if the date goes extremely poorly, you could end up regretting putting that effort into it.

Only bring those bonuses when you're actually in a relationship with someone.

[FreakInTheBedroom]

Well i like to eat so id say if it was good food then you just showed him that you come with more to offer then just that deal between your legs and thats a plus these for sure because most women think all they need to bring to the table is theyre pussy and that a man should take care of them and and work hard so she can be lazy and probably fuck guys on his bed when he isn't home

[Piercejeans1]

Sad, but a lot of truth there. He will think you are old fashioned too. If he wants that kind of girl. And sounds like someone got burned by unfaithful partners. Yeah... it happens and in this day and age I would say half of the marriage partners are willing to cheat. I like to talk this stuff up up front and get this out of the way. Because I am a monogamous guy, and if you are up for cheating on me... no matter how far in we are to a relationship... we are done. No backsies.

[HollyK21]

Maybe arrange for a second date to be picnic themed and bring them there. The gesture is nice but then he’d have to keep up with the dish for the entire time you guys are having your date, and that’s not much fun.

[FreyaRed]

Men love meat, make him roasted veal with lovage leaves if you want ensnare his heart. With premium homemade cheesecake piece the pact with the hell will be sealed and his soul belongs to you.

[Finchie40]

Not at all , I am sure he will love it and be grateful you made it for him ,

[RedTiefling]

Love! I would love it!

If this is who you are, then be who you are so you attract someone who will appreciate it.

I remember a girl i started dating would bring me peanut butter and banana sandwiches.

[Lliam]

I would be absolutely charmed that she went to the effort to do something like that to impress me on our first date. And it would say a lot about her personality - baking and home making skills, thoughtfulness and desire to nurture.

[inhahe]

I would feel really charmed and enamored. It's such a warm, wholesome and rare thing. And I'd feel like she really values me and also wants something out of the relationship more authentic and mutually beneficial/generous than the usual transactional crap. And actually putting such effort and investment into the first date bodes well for the relationship. All things branch out from their beginnings almost as if the beginning was a container for the whole thing.

[Anonymous]

Well if there's no story behind it I'd be suspicious a bit. And a little scared to eat it. But since you added the backstory that changes everything. Nah, I think that'd a thoughtful thing to do. And it's an automatic icebreaker ya know what I mean. Any guy that wouldn't appreciate that effort isn't worth having.

[OneViewpoint]

I think that would be a thoughtful kind gesture without being over the top on a first date. It’ll be a conversation starter and demonstrate effort on your part.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

I’d see it as a sweet and thoughtful gesture.

Effort always says something about a person, and I appreciate that kind of sincerity.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

In my language we have a saying "love pass throw stomac", so you are doing a nice gesture.
At last you get some pirochkis to share with somebody.

[SoccerPlayer99]

Like she was trying to marry me from the onset. But I associate baking/cooking for someone with more intimacy than should be present on a first date. I'm weird.

[midnightmoon05]

Do that in a second date if the first goes well…

fir me… first date is an interview.

[Coden7]

If a woman did that for me, that would almost guarantee me asking her out again

[RxR0954]

It’s sweet to do that. Personally i’ve received fun brownies on the first date lol

[MannMitAntworten]

No. I had a girl bring me something she baked once. I just thought it really cool. Go for it.

[itsannalee]

You already told him you can bake him, some people don’t like with a little change,

[Alex-Snow]

I think that is way fun and a great gesture. Good idea!

[Iron_Man]

I would love it. I appreciate homemade food

[NervousIndividual]

I am not sure. I would feel awkward, baffled, feel appreciated, and not be capable of registering and expressing the amount of gratitude I would feel for another human, to whom I have never met, to bring a baked dish to me.

[Staximus]

You better make sure he's worth the effort first and that he's a guy you want around

[Sal_Monella]

While I would prefer baklava, I would be very flattered anyway.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I would be impressed and instantly be more attracted to her.

[voreguy1]

I’d genuinely fall in love. Little things like that ❤️

[BonzoInBitburg]

I would love that.

[WhitneySnow]

I think that’s a fantastic idea!

[exitseven]

cool , I would like that.

[Summeroflove]

That would be sweet

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Really happy. She baked for me.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I 'd want to club her !!!

[noohair]

I don't eat carbs but you sound sweet.

[Nice222]

She is trying to poison me.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Don’t do it

[shortster]

Happy

[Jmmmfi4]

Go for it