A good guy rejected me and now I’m considering becoming a bimbo… where to start in this journey?

[Chelsdope0]

[Zack-Bann]

I’m tempted to say “you can start at my place”


But the reality is: you can’t “become” a bimbo


It’s an irrational reaction that hits people when at their lowest


If you’re taking the time to consider it that means you’re way more than a pretty face and an impressive rack.
You’re also very self aware and capable of reflecting on life and choices and so on.


The good guy you speak of, was also probably an an idiot for not seeing what was right in front of him


Unless you did something bad, like cheat.
In which case it’s back to my original offer ;)

[RHK36]

You should start your journey by improving your mental and then your physical. When you're single is when you should focus on improving yourself because you have the time and energy for it. When you have a partner you'll not have the same freedom or time to accomplish goals for yourself. The name of the game is accountability. Make yourself the best version will attract or at instill the confidence you need to find a partner. If you don't do none of that then don't complain. Life doesn't need to be overly complicated, we just complicate things to avoid acting right.

[emeraldsaphire]

First you need to find out what being a bimbo means to you. In my mind it's about putting a lot more focus into your appearance. Practice make up every day. Get a good skin care routine, work out. Where lot of pink. Start saving up for a boob job.

Stop watching the news and try not to think about stuff to much. Overtime you will get dumber. Use fewer bigger words, and just try to have more fun

[fishcake_buttie]

Thank you for telling her that... Her tits are huge by the way, going by her profile pic... No woman needs a boob job by the way, the most attractive thing about ANY tits, in my opinion, is the fact that even an A cup can change to produce enough breastmilk to feed a child and to decent men, that's all that counts. In the old days, mothers with big boobs were often surrogate feeders for women who had trouble feeding their own babes, for various reasons. I LOVE that fact... What an amazing thing you ladies can do, not to mention being able to grow another life inside of you, don't ruin yourselves with implants.

[Zionne]

Sounds like you’re trying to cope by flipping into a whole new identity, but that won’t really fix the hurt. If you just want to feel more confident or feminine, you can explore that without changing who you are. What part of the bimbo idea actually appeals to you?

[Chelsdope0]

All of it! You’re a fantasy for a lot of men

[Ironco]

When did a bimbo become a man's fantasy?

[Chelsdope0]

@Ironco not every man but some

[fishcake_buttie]

Yeah, scumbags, you are setting yourself for more hurting!

[Chelsdope0]

@fishcake_buttie not if I’m emotionally detached!

[Summeroflove]

Not everyone’s right for you….

[fishcake_buttie]

You should consider exactly why a good man rejected you, identify your faults and remove them and try again. We don't need any more bimbo's, or used up spinsters, we want women who have good values that we can respect. As men, we are willing to sacrifice our lives for good women and our children, we reject women who don't have good values.

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve been a good girl my whole life. I’m turning uglier. I don’t want a good man anymore because they just didn’t see me as valuable

[fishcake_buttie]

Are you aiming too high? Looks are important, you aren't ugly yet but you will be if you become a slag. You'll feel used, you'll abuse yourself, you'll become obese and then you'll hit forty and wish you could go back 12 years and snap out of it. You can improve your looks by hitting the gym and eating healthily, giving up any vices along the way... You'll be happier in yourself and it will show, the light in the eyes and smile over-rides most undesirable features a person has.

You sound more like you are depressed and that will make you believe things about yourself that aren't true, will make you low-energy, will make you ignore actual bad things about yourself that you can actually change.

Here's the big scary question people dare not ask... What racial background do you have? I can't tell from your profile pic.

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve been a good girl my whole life… still not wanted by anyone. Some women just aren’t good enough. My mom was good enough she had everything I wanted. I’ve hated how I looked since I was 17. I was always the ugly girl

I don’t want to be that. I want validation and attention and money not love or affection

[fishcake_buttie]

Your attitude is BY FAR, your ugliest feature. Many girls think they are ugly in their teens, it's time for you to grow up!

[Chelsdope0]

Ugly in my teens and adulthood. I just don’t think you understand the importance of your looks when you’re a woman pushing 30

[fishcake_buttie]

30 is nothing... Being ugly is optional, nothing is uglier than a bad attitude and so fuckin' what if you don't look like a Disney princess. I'm not exactly a 10/10 catch myself, I also believed I was unnattractive in my teens and twenties but that was all in my head. You just have to believe in what I am telling you...

You can either put some effort into yourself or become uglier than you even think, just because of your attitude, MY ATTITUDE was the ugliest thing about myself, that is what put people off, not my looks!

So you want to be a little slut, do ya? How about this then, I take you out, feed you with liquor, go back to your place and pull out my bag of goodies and while you are out of your head, do you so hard the next day you will be unable to walk and talk for three days AT THE LEAST, then while you are passed out on your bed, I steal your money and valuables and you wake up the next day and realise how I used you so badly you'd be wishing you'd become a nun? I could never do that to someone, but there are guys that would and if you don't SNAP THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR MINDSET, that is what you are risking. You'll hate yourself even more, you'll get older and wish you could go back in time and put more effort into your fitness and health.

I might sound really harsh but in reality I just want you to realise that it's only your attitude that sucks AND YOU CAN do something about it, right now while reading this and then you can start with a beginners workout on Youtube, learning what a good diet is along the way, your hormones will balance out and you'll feel better and someone will notice this and take a shine to you.

[fishcake_buttie]

I swear to you... I know a woman called Lisa... You go look at a picture of a British Bulldog, that's almost what she looks like and she knows it. She is also a butcher and in good shape for someone hurtling towards 50! She knows she isn't total babe material but she does have a nice smile and smily eyes and a shiny personality, she is also married and is a mother and everybody loves her... She wasn't always like that and YOU are ONLY 28... Do yourself a big favour and go read "The Very First Bible 144AD", it's free as a PDF and then slap those hands together and pray to the ONE who can help you to change yourself, who becomes that voice in your head telling you to not despair and will encourage you to do exactly what I have been saying to you.

[DJB72]

It's one way to make sure all the good guys reject you I guess...

So find a random guy and offer anal. If you're going to slut yourself up you may as well go the whole hog.

Alternatively - and what I'd actually recommend - recognise the guy who rejected you blew a chance at someone special and find another decent guy. There's more Jordan Petersen types than there are Andrew Tate ones.

[jazzy34]

Why is him rejecting you tied to you wanting to make such a drastic lifestyle change? Is your self esteem that low?

[Chelsdope0]

Yep I guess so. I’m not enough for a decent guy then I’m not a valuable woman in the first place… time has shown me that

[melssvdv]

You are already beautiful enough. Bimbo is just a downgrade.

[DryGermanGuy]

Start at your local clothing department. Ask specifically for „bimbo-style“ clothes. 🧐

[WonderingManII]

If a man does not like you for who you are, then He is not the right man for you.

[Chelsdope0]

No I have to change my self to be enough for once

[WonderingManII]

Let's say hypothetically we were to date. 1) I would need to like your personality. 2) I would need to like how you look. The thing is you can pretend to be someone you are not, but the person you are on the inside, will always be that person no matter how you dress, or how you choose to behave. The problem is, sooner or later the person you are dating will learn who you are on the inside. If they don't like it, then they will breakup with you. That is why I say, the man who does not like you for who you are, is not the right man for you! I think look nice and be nice, and that is all you can do.

[Chelsdope0]

I’m not changing my looks for love tho. I’m done trying to chase love and be enough. I’m just not. So I really just want validation and money

[WonderingManII]

I think everyone feels a desire to be loved, and if they can't get it, then sometimes they turn to things like money to try and fill that hole. It won't work, because it is a denial of human nature. Whenever someone does that, it just messes them up.

[Chelsdope0]

There’s no love in nature. Love is not something I need

[WonderingManII]

Human Nature, and Nature is two different things.

[genericname85]

so someone rejected you so now you become less likable so you can get rejected more? xD is that the logic here?

[Staximus]

You shouldn't stop valuing yourself just because somebody doesn't value you

Read that again

[Staximus]

Then read it again

[ChicoFromThe305]

I thought you already started 😂

[Chelsdope0]

No I don’t know where to start

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe that's for your own good lol

[Chelsdope0]

Nooooooo

[Chelsdope0]

Why would that be for my own good

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause why would you wanna be a dumbass😂

[Chelsdope0]

It’s about looks and money honey

[ChicoFromThe305]

I know, my statement stands 😂

[Nice222]

I have loved a few Bimbos in my day.

[Anonymous]

You... can't become a bimbo.

[Jmmmfi4]

Diy your hair blonde

[Drumlin2001]

What's 3 3?

[Chelsdope0]

What?

[Drumlin2001]

Ah, seems GaG dropped the plus sign.
What's 3 plus 3?

[beenherebefore]

What is a bimbo?

[DryGermanGuy]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grupo_Bimbo

[Nice222]

@DryGermanGuy exactly!!