Imagine you're on a third date and everything is going well. What's a quirky or slightly weird question you'd ask to see their true personality?

[HawkPerception]

[Zack-Bann]

Never got to the third date without already having had at least 3 hours of post-sex pillow talk


People are more honest when naked and satiated


So the third date is just about setting a pace to the relationship


If you have to plan out date 3 like you did date 1 you’re doing something wrong

[HawkPerception]

Damn you act fast lol. 3 dates never gets me sex 😂

[Zack-Bann]

It’s not about speed
It’s about purpose

I try to make the first date as romantic as naturally possible

If it’s not working then it’s not working.
No harm no foul

But either we end up having sex on the first date
Or we just agree to meet up later for our second date as some home activity that’s just an excuse for both of us to just have sex

If date 1 doesn’t go that way and date 2 is not even more romantic then we never go on date 3

Best to avoid the endless of hours of chit chat and expensive dinners

Those can come after you establish a foundation for the relationship not before

[HawkPerception]

They must see you as an absolute stud lol

[Zack-Bann]

Thanks I suppose

But I think most of all they see me as honest and direct.
I don’t mince words and play around like a child

When they feel both safe and attracted at the same time it’s an easy decision to make

[HawkPerception]

I'd like to think I'm the same in that aspect (honest, direct, and respectful).

I think they just think you're a stud bud haha. Having those qualities alone doesn't do it

[Zack-Bann]

I appreciate that.

But are you implying that you’re not a stud yourself? That’s why you need 3 platonic dates?

Tell me what you do on a first date
What’s your plan usually and how does it end?

[HawkPerception]

Ha, I'm the farthest thing from a stud. But there are other issues holding me back at this point in life, that I'm aware matter a lot to women... mostly financial security and independence at my mature age. Pretty sure I'll be just fine once I get that sorted. But still not sex after 3 dates 😂

[Zack-Bann]

You’re 31 mate not 50
Im only 3 years younger than you and I would say I’m not financially secure either

But it’s ok

No one really expects us to be but ourselves

Unless you’re broke and couch surfing I think you’re selling yourself short

I had the most sex in my life in my early twenties with not a penny to my name

It’s all about what you project not what you actually have

[HawkPerception]

Alright just proving you're a stud haha 😂

[queenofcardio]

Something so incredibly stupid so that I can guage his response to it. Some people can be so serious and don't know how to be imaginative.

[queenofcardio]

@Zack-Bann sorry wrong response. I was trying to respond on my own opinion 😅😂😂

[Zack-Bann]

No worries

Besides I like the way you think

Narrow minded people who take everything seriously are a pain to deal with

[queenofcardio]

@Zack-Bann I agree being direct is the best approach. 👌

[queenofcardio]

@Zack-Bann your view is so interesting. If a guy invites me back to his place after the first date or even plans the second date at his place, I know what to expect so I need to decide before accepting the date if that's something that I would want

[Zack-Bann]

@queenofcardio I don’t typically invite a girl over out of the blue

Usually when the first date goes well that means we already got close

Ideally at least we kissed and had an open heart to heart about things such as sex

So when I invite her over it feels natural not forced

It’s as though she expected it already after we parted ways the first time

But it’s as you said, it gives her the opportunity to decide before accepting what she wants to do

Although she can still come over and change her mind anytime
I would never pressure someone with preset expectations

If it’s right it’ll happen on its own

[Summeroflove]

On a third date if I still am not sure I would give it some time.

[DishLady]

I wouldn’t ask anything. My natural blooper reel would come out and I’d see their reaction to it.

[queenofcardio]

A stupid would you rather question 😅

[HawkPerception]

That sounds fun to me lol

[queenofcardio]

Something so incredibly stupid so that I can guage his response to it. Some people can be so serious and don't know how to be imaginative

[HawkPerception]

Lol even better

[HighValue]

Ask who they voted for in the last presidential election, if they took the poison vax, if they support BLM, the alphabet people, and what are their long term intentions when dating.

[ABC1x1x]

Would you take a golf club to babies head if so. eone with a gun told you to?

[HawkPerception]

Damn that's actually a good question though

[ABC1x1x]

I dont it for fun, then I take the club to the person asking you their head

[guesswhereivebeen]

Ask her if she’s ever fucked a black guy