10 the highest!
I’d definitely date myself! I’m a 10 in my eyes 😂!
Come on now, don’t be humble!
How about you?
10 the highest!
I’d definitely date myself! I’m a 10 in my eyes 😂!
Come on now, don’t be humble!
How about you?
This is hard to answer, because if I was a woman, I'd be shallow AF (like most of them are), so my criteria as a male isn't the same as my criteria as a female.
Rating myself as a male (pretend I'm a gay dude rating myself from a distance), I'd give my face a 6, and my height/body a 4. As a woman, any guy less than an 8 is a "0" in their eyes. Women don't really do the "1 to 10" scale, to be honest. You're either attractive in their eyes, or a zero.
As far as personality goes, I'm an 8. The only "flaw" I have, at least according to women, is that I'm not prideful/cocky. If I had confidence, the most important trait women look for in men, then I'd be a 9.5 in personality, at least in their eyes. In fact, women have told me personality wise, "all [I] need is confidence."
The thing is, I don't want to be an arrogant douche. I have too many flaws to act like I'm some hot piece of male perfection or something. I hate pride in other people. Just be normal.
So a 4 in height/body, 6 in face, and 8 in personality, with potential as a 9.5 with "confidence." If I was a gay guy, I'd say I'm very dateable, albeit short, chubby, and un-handsome. If I was a woman, I wouldn't date me just on the height alone, cause women be like that.
I’m a 8-9 and yeah, I’d fuck me… lol
Hell yeah!!!
Thanks!!!
5-5.5
I'd consider myself average at best: nothing (superficial wise) that stands out to where I'd date myself. I'd have to talk and get to know myself before thinking, "Oh, she's different! I might give her a chance..."
But that's based off personality more than looks 😶
I know, my self esteem and confidence is atrocious.
Ooh... 8-9 :) I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but I am certainly my own cup. 🎉💃❤
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No. 5/10. Whether I'm attractive or not, I can't tell, so I would have to rely on personality.
As for my personality, I have emotional needs I am not sure if I'm capable of meeting properly in another person. My brain would function the same, so I would be boring to myself. No new ideas or challenges. Some of my stimming might grate on me if it was input instead of output. Also, high chances that I would forget to eat if I was dating myself.
In other words, I am incompatible with me.
Now, if I truly was someone else and did not think the same, I would still not date me. I think I'd take a lot of effort to deal with.
I consider myself a solid 6, 7 at best. No way am I ranking higher than that, for appearance. My commitment, honesty, and knowledge are strengths. I may not radiate alpha energy like women want, but I'm not a total pushover either.
I'm patient, until the other party truly crosses the red line. Then, they tend to lack perspective on how cold I can get. Think they can keep getting away with it, but they can't. But you'll usually know exactly why, if you have crossed a line. I don't like to leave anyone guessing.
I have some C-PTSD and PTED. I realize this may make me a challenge.
Based on me being 6' tall, 7" for those that need that information, strong, good looking face, excellent past, no kids, wanting kids, no past drug use and no alcohol use, no criminal record, being good with kids, loyal and trustworthy, affectionate, good job, and things like that, I am a 9.5. Most people rating themselves that high or a 10 are nowhere near as good as I am and don't even match half of the stuff I just mentioned. Just from the things I mentioned I am at the top of the majority of women's ideal long term mate.
I match most of what you said, except for being a foot shorter. No drugs, no alcohol might even count against you…or us. Men who don’t drink or use drugs are unlikely to provide them.
I don't know but I don’t have much self confidence and I do need to continue working on myself. But I’m selectively social, very shy/nervous and I’ve been through a lot which means I have to heal from a lot. It seems like my whole life since birth has been based off of trauma. Trying to get counseling for that and working on myself
Um given myself?
my check list?
6’3
Extremely athletic build
6-7/10 face (?) if im being generous Same for body (?) maybe more as a fitness freak I have BDD (body dysmorphia in the sense of I view myself as too fat, too thin/small, too etc) so I’m not sure on that. I do like my broad shoulders.
if I say the female version of me, shiz yeah I’d date me because she’d probably have the same interests, the same concerns that I know how to comfort, the same like in and outside the bedroom, and she’d want a lot of kids? Say less dawg say less! 6’3 woman and man making some giant athletic bbs together say less!
I don't assign numbers to people. You're a either a person worthy of my full effort or i wish you the best of luck finding happiness because it isn't with me. And I would HOPE she'd feel the same about me.
I will say this, confidence can be attractive. But cockiness is not.
Hey I'm glad you consider yourself a 10. You're clearly very attractive. But I don't see the point in assigning a number to one's self. One person may consider me an 8 another a 3. But I'm me regardless what someone else thinks of me. My value doesn't change. The people who i love and love me think well of me and that's all I concern myself with.
Sorry I don't like hearing anyone rating themselves. I'm a firm believer in just trying to be the you you can be.
I am very handsome ( i know that sounds arrogant but it's rather accurate ). I have a face that is 8/10. Unfortunately, i have a body that is 5/10. Part of the reason for my lower body score is that I don't look "masculine" enough because I am intersex. I have an extra X sex chromosome so instead of being XY, I am XXY. I have a slight curvy body and am very smooth (almost no body hair). I don't have much muscle mass in my shoulders and extremities. Fortunately, I have had no problems finding girlfriends all my life. I think I make up for deficits in my body shape with strengths in other areas.
Think I'm more of an acquired taste, or at least somewhat niche.
I guess most people gravitate towards their own kind though - I'm sure any of those fake insta model types would run a mile, whereas hopefully those natural-alternative-vegan-hipster-outdoorsy-surfer-girl types might see more of a kindred spirit...
I'm above a ten. Men of all races always tell me I'm the most beautiful and most feminine girl they have ever seen. Women especially blacks women are so jealous of me and wish they were as beautiful as me. Black women especially get jealous when they see me with my very dark sexy black husband and black kids.
Bruh.. are you a bot?💀
I would give myself a six. To call myself a ten would mean I was better looking than 90% of the world, which is ridiculous. I think I'm better looking than probably half of the world, but not better looking than 40% of it. However, studies show that scientifically uglier people rank themselves higher than attractive ones. So who knows what I am, in all honesty.
I would probably rate me at about a five to seven, depending on what we’re looking at. I think if I were to judge myself as most women seem to view me, and if I were being “kind,” I would say maybe one or two. And I think if I was eating based on rumor speculation and how women seem to talk, I’d be on negative numbers.
I'm just about a 6 face wise :(, overall maybe a 6.5-7 if you also count the body. If i was a dude or a lesbian i could date myself if were just talking about looks, but i feel like i'd think i could do much better and unless my personality was my type i'd probably not really consider myself as a potential girlfriend
if I am not your type nor what you're looking for... then I'm a solid 8
but if I am your type, then I'm a 14... lol
but no, I would no date myself or someone like myself... I want different not more of the same
Hmmm... I disagree. Rating yourself an overall 10 is pretty damn cocky. It says " I'm really flawless, and compared to everyone else, I'm the best you can find". How is that NOT cocky?
I rate myself about a 7.5 - I'm "not" eye candy and I know it, but some find me attractive, and some like my mind and spirit as well.
I don’t date men, so I guess the answer is no.
I once told a friend what I was looking for in a woman and described myself…doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t use drugs, well educated, preferably a master’s degree.
She told me my standards were way too high and I’d never find anyone like that.
I want the same things in a woman although I'd be happy with a woman who graduated from University in the hard sciences. No alcohol, no drugs, no smoking. Your friend is right though. Just get on an internet dating site and start out with no restrictions and see the number of matches. Then add in your restrictions and see the number shrink to nearly nothing. If you add that you don't want a woman with kids, you can count on dating your right hand or paying for sex.
@ethanallen I was told that restriction was too picky, too. Alaska had the highest out-of-wedlock and teen pregnancy rates when I lived there in the ‘90’s. When I was 34, I went out with a 19-year-old a couple of times and used to tease her about being the oldest woman I could find with no kids.
I'm in better shape than a LOT of women in my home state. Morbid obesity is rampant in this state.
Other people see me better than I see myself. I’ll give myself a ten. 🤓😁
Majority rules. Give yourself a 15
@sirderpsalot123 Fine. 15 it is.
@dustybiker Now you get a like.
@sirderpsalot123 Almost earned that like. Thank you for walking me through it. Feel so much better about myself now.
You're being sarcastic but you are welcome 😎
Yes I would absolutely date myself.
I have a great personality which I think is the most important attribute of a person.
I have a pretty decent body.. which is good to look and touch.
I may be unattractive but my other 2 qualities more then make up for it.
For me I'm a 10 too haha I would not just date but marry myself lmao
Wouldn't date myself, off the sole reason that I'm not looking to date. Beside that, I wouldn't mind. I haven't been able to work on myself so I would rate myself a 4/10 if not lower.
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