Pretend your someone else looking at you. Would you date yourself? How’d you rate yourself from 1-10?

Question

10 the highest!  I’d definitely date myself! I’m a 10 in my eyes 😂!  Come on now, don’t be humble!  How about you?

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

This is hard to answer, because if I was a woman, I'd be shallow AF (like most of them are), so my criteria as a male isn't the same as my criteria as a female.

Rating myself as a male (pretend I'm a gay dude rating myself from a distance), I'd give my face a 6, and my height/body a 4. As a woman, any guy less than an 8 is a "0" in their eyes. Women don't really do the "1 to 10" scale, to be honest. You're either attractive in their eyes, or a zero.

Pretend your someone else looking at you. Would you date yourself? How’d you rate yourself from 1-10?

As far as personality goes, I'm an 8. The only "flaw" I have, at least according to women, is that I'm not prideful/cocky. If I had confidence, the most important trait women look for in men, then I'd be a 9.5 in personality, at least in their eyes. In fact, women have told me personality wise, "all [I] need is confidence."

The thing is, I don't want to be an arrogant douche. I have too many flaws to act like I'm some hot piece of male perfection or something. I hate pride in other people. Just be normal.

So a 4 in height/body, 6 in face, and 8 in personality, with potential as a 9.5 with "confidence." If I was a gay guy, I'd say I'm very dateable, albeit short, chubby, and un-handsome. If I was a woman, I wouldn't date me just on the height alone, cause women be like that.

Charliefretz329 · Accepted Answer

I’m a 8-9 and yeah, I’d fuck me… lol

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

5-5.5
I'd consider myself average at best: nothing (superficial wise) that stands out to where I'd date myself. I'd have to talk and get to know myself before thinking, "Oh, she's different! I might give her a chance..."

But that's based off personality more than looks 😶
I know, my self esteem and confidence is atrocious.

PinkCloud7 · Accepted Answer

Ooh... 8-9 :) I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but I am certainly my own cup. 🎉💃❤

BadRepresentative · Answer

No. 5/10. Whether I'm attractive or not, I can't tell, so I would have to rely on personality.

As for my personality, I have emotional needs I am not sure if I'm capable of meeting properly in another person. My brain would function the same, so I would be boring to myself. No new ideas or challenges. Some of my stimming might grate on me if it was input instead of output. Also, high chances that I would forget to eat if I was dating myself.

In other words, I am incompatible with me.

Now, if I truly was someone else and did not think the same, I would still not date me. I think I'd take a lot of effort to deal with.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I consider myself a solid 6, 7 at best. No way am I ranking higher than that, for appearance. My commitment, honesty, and knowledge are strengths. I may not radiate alpha energy like women want, but I'm not a total pushover either.

I'm patient, until the other party truly crosses the red line. Then, they tend to lack perspective on how cold I can get. Think they can keep getting away with it, but they can't. But you'll usually know exactly why, if you have crossed a line. I don't like to leave anyone guessing.

I have some C-PTSD and PTED. I realize this may make me a challenge.

HighValue · Answer

Based on me being 6' tall, 7" for those that need that information, strong, good looking face, excellent past, no kids, wanting kids, no past drug use and no alcohol use, no criminal record, being good with kids, loyal and trustworthy, affectionate, good job, and things like that, I am a 9.5. Most people rating themselves that high or a 10 are nowhere near as good as I am and don't even match half of the stuff I just mentioned. Just from the things I mentioned I am at the top of the majority of women's ideal long term mate.

Mess96 · Answer

I don't know but I don’t have much self confidence and I do need to continue working on myself. But I’m selectively social, very shy/nervous and I’ve been through a lot which means I have to heal from a lot. It seems like my whole life since birth has been based off of trauma. Trying to get counseling for that and working on myself

VistasV2 · Answer

Um given myself?

my check list?

6’3

Extremely athletic build

6-7/10 face (?) if im being generous Same for body (?) maybe more as a fitness freak I have BDD (body dysmorphia in the sense of I view myself as too fat, too thin/small, too etc) so I’m not sure on that. I do like my broad shoulders.

if I say the female version of me, shiz yeah I’d date me because she’d probably have the same interests, the same concerns that I know how to comfort, the same like in and outside the bedroom, and she’d want a lot of kids? Say less dawg say less! 6’3 woman and man making some giant athletic bbs together say less!

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't assign numbers to people. You're a either a person worthy of my full effort or i wish you the best of luck finding happiness because it isn't with me. And I would HOPE she'd feel the same about me.

I will say this, confidence can be attractive. But cockiness is not.

ethanallen · Answer

I am very handsome ( i know that sounds arrogant but it's rather accurate ). I have a face that is 8/10. Unfortunately, i have a body that is 5/10. Part of the reason for my lower body score is that I don't look "masculine" enough because I am intersex. I have an extra X sex chromosome so instead of being XY, I am XXY. I have a slight curvy body and am very smooth (almost no body hair). I don't have much muscle mass in my shoulders and extremities. Fortunately, I have had no problems finding girlfriends all my life. I think I make up for deficits in my body shape with strengths in other areas.

MuddyMole · Answer

Think I'm more of an acquired taste, or at least somewhat niche.
I guess most people gravitate towards their own kind though - I'm sure any of those fake insta model types would run a mile, whereas hopefully those natural-alternative-vegan-hipster-outdoorsy-surfer-girl types might see more of a kindred spirit...

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Answer

I'm above a ten. Men of all races always tell me I'm the most beautiful and most feminine girl they have ever seen. Women especially blacks women are so jealous of me and wish they were as beautiful as me. Black women especially get jealous when they see me with my very dark sexy black husband and black kids.

Greergr · Answer

I would give myself a six. To call myself a ten would mean I was better looking than 90% of the world, which is ridiculous. I think I'm better looking than probably half of the world, but not better looking than 40% of it. However, studies show that scientifically uglier people rank themselves higher than attractive ones. So who knows what I am, in all honesty.

GoodManDave · Answer

I would probably rate me at about a five to seven, depending on what we’re looking at. I think if I were to judge myself as most women seem to view me, and if I were being “kind,” I would say maybe one or two. And I think if I was eating based on rumor speculation and how women seem to talk, I’d be on negative numbers.

2facedfa1ry · Answer

I'm just about a 6 face wise :(, overall maybe a 6.5-7 if you also count the body. If i was a dude or a lesbian i could date myself if were just talking about looks, but i feel like i'd think i could do much better and unless my personality was my type i'd probably not really consider myself as a potential girlfriend

NathanDavis · Answer

if I am not your type nor what you're looking for... then I'm a solid 8

but if I am your type, then I'm a 14... lol

but no, I would no date myself or someone like myself... I want different not more of the same

loveslongnails · Answer

Hmmm... I disagree. Rating yourself an overall 10 is pretty damn cocky. It says " I'm really flawless, and compared to everyone else, I'm the best you can find". How is that NOT cocky?

I rate myself about a 7.5 - I'm "not" eye candy and I know it, but some find me attractive, and some like my mind and spirit as well.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

I don’t date men, so I guess the answer is no.

I once told a friend what I was looking for in a woman and described myself…doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t use drugs, well educated, preferably a master’s degree.

She told me my standards were way too high and I’d never find anyone like that.

Wade12345 · Answer

I'm in better shape than a LOT of women in my home state. Morbid obesity is rampant in this state.

dustybiker · Answer

Other people see me better than I see myself. I’ll give myself a ten. 🤓😁

Zolly99999 · Answer

Yes I would absolutely date myself.

I have a great personality which I think is the most important attribute of a person.

I have a pretty decent body.. which is good to look and touch.

I may be unattractive but my other 2 qualities more then make up for it.

melanieeeB · Answer

For me I'm a 10 too haha I would not just date but marry myself lmao

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

Wouldn't date myself, off the sole reason that I'm not looking to date. Beside that, I wouldn't mind. I haven't been able to work on myself so I would rate myself a 4/10 if not lower.

Guy13 · Answer

Eye Candy: 9+ My personality and modern principles dissolution to 7 full package for most.. A 60 plus conservative soul does not help in this day and times.

daph_neo · Answer

I’d break the scale lol! In all honesty though, I’ve learnt over the years to love my self. 😊

Wubs3000 · Answer

Im a 6.5 maybe average or slightly above.  I wouldn't date myself I would find myself extremely boring. I listen more and talk less and with less inflection, so having two of me wouldn't help that.

Still-alive · Answer

eh like a 6 lol. i feel like i got some work to do with my body --particularly my weight-- and i definitely intend to work on it.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I'd definitely date myself lol and I'm a 10 according to me. I would kiss myself passionately if I could lol.

Knoxmandz19 · Answer

I'd date myself, I have a great personality and my eyes are amazing. I'm funny & dont take myself too seriously.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I think I can be a 6 or 7 on a good day with relatively clear skin, a haircut, and wearing the good clothes, but I still wouldn’t date me. I do however look in the mirror like “damn, I’m relatively cute today🥰”

Dinklex3 · Answer

10.! Good food, massages, cuddles, cute af, adventures, considerate. Hell yeah, I'd date myself.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I think honestly, if I was my woman self, I would not dare my actual male me, because I’d find my male me too short, shy and insecure.

Blackcosmo · Answer

If I was a whole other guy sure I wouldn't mind dating a copy of my female self.  I can't rate myself.

normalice · Answer

I'd suck my dick a couple times a day but no i wouldn't date me. That'd be gay.

Lucy68 · Answer

6  Maybe for a couple of dates

Guardian45 · Answer

I'm a STEAL!! I would date me in a HEARTBEAT! I would rate myself a 12!

Putriz · Answer

Of course, I’m fucking hot. I’d date, fuck, marry then adopt children even with myself. I’m just perfect you know.

Rania05 · Answer

I rate myself a 7, because I'd abandon the extrovert trait I'm demanding from my partner

Sour-rose · Answer

8. :I Not sayin' i'm not hot buuuut i'm growing

RoulOB · Answer

8.5 I couldn't help but fall into my personality

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

About -30  avoid at all costs. Far to damaged.

Dalisay409 · Answer

Is like to think I'm a solid 9. Gotta leave myself a little room for improvement.

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm like 6-7. I'd maybe date myself based on looks

Bluemax · Answer

I'm a 15! Just look how shiny and blue I am!

Haha456 · Answer

if someone were to be interested in me, I'd question their intentions.

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

Probably not.  I'm definitely a solid two though.

chicosuave · Answer

No I'm a - 10. Like I'm ugly as fuck. I'm not from this planet

RavVid · Answer

I'm told I am a good looking guy so I guess I am a 7 or 8.

AviatorTom · Answer

Of course I would date myself. 15/10 rating.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Probably not honestly by just looks alone but if I could have a conversation then maybe.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I think I would date me. I would say maybe I’m a 8. I took 2 away bc I’m kinda of annoying as a partner 😂

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I wouldn't date a dude, lol. I honestly have no idea what I look like to other people. Positive or negative, don't get much feedback.

fonduegirl · Answer

I'm an 8. I'd reject me for being a mess. If I let me suck these nipples, I'd happily do so.

YollyM · Answer

I'm a solid 9😎. I won't say 10 because, my mom taught me to be humble 🤭

Monah4billion · Answer

5/10 I would consider dating my self , depending on who am approached by lol.

Coldblooded · Answer

I'd give myself a 6 at worst and 8 at best... girls somehow never stop staring at me... maybe because of my dark features and sexy eyes... would I date myself? Knowing myself... I'm caring, loyal and a good talker... So maybe I would

Tztop2006 · Answer

well im a bit on the chubby side so id say 6-7, i got the chubby and red beard dad bod some girls like.

Emilymaybebabyss · Answer

I'd say my face is a 7/10 My body is 9/10 And my personality is 7/10

fatcat700592 · Answer

Body 5, face, 6, personality 8, conversation 2 All together about 5/10

bigpauly · Answer

I’m not exactly my type but throw a wig on and we’re talking..

sweeeetestt · Answer

I wouldn’t date myself because I’m straight.  Some days I feel about a 7 or 8 and other days I feel about a 4 or 5

beautifullyflawed · Answer

8-9 I’d date myself. I am a good woman and do what I need to. I’m selfless I like to do for my partner. Then myself. Only downside to some is I play video games. And like to be dominated.

smilelots · Answer

yes if your looking for kind fun friendly and honest people then yes.

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