Why is it so much easier to meet beautiful woman now than it was just 10 years ago?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

You’re older now. Many of these women are going for younger men. Look…. Age gap relationships can work. Sone women fall for a man genuinely whose older. Or younger for that matter.

But be aware. Most women who brag they like older men. Just want money and other such things. As well as it’s a fetish thing.

Most will cheat

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Women dont typically date younger. Fortunately you can control how much money you spend on your women so I wouldn't worry much about that if I were you.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve seen women date a few years younger. But a lot of younger women want a older man…. And then they want a younger one later down the toarn

[Summeroflove]

*road

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Thats called antedoctal evidence, generally women date older men and there's a ton of reasons for that. Regardless, you shouldn't worry about that as long as you do the work you should be able to attract younger women for the rest of your life.

[Summeroflove]

Well not all women are the same. Older men tend to be more financially stable…. And men in dead end relationships or divorced tend to be susceptible to manipulation even more then younger men are.

But these men get older…. They age and just like women become less attractive with age. So do men… yes some exceptions for men who take care of themselves.

Generally…. These women also feel like they’re missing something. They want to feel young again…. Desired and hot again. As well as the stamina from a younger man.

[Summeroflove]

So women dating older cheating with younger. Happens a lot more then one may think….

I have also seen women dump and divorce older men… to be dating a man half her age or less. I’ve seen that before…

It’s very common for women say 30s to 40s to be chasing men in their 30s even 20s.

[Summeroflove]

The other question you have to ask yourself. Why are you attracting women? And are you attracting the right ones?

Are you attracting women who genuinely are interested in you and want to form a bond and a relationship… or someone that has money and status. But once that’s gone so is she…

And people in relationships where there is little to no genuine attraction from one person or the other. Tends to end in affairs..:. Because they are seeking that deep down the inside.

So it a woman’s with you for the money and nothing else. You will probably be cheated on

[Summeroflove]

I’m sorry to bust bubbles. The average 85 year old isn’t attracting women in their 20s.

Maybe if they have money…. But that isn’t for the right reasons and a woman with someone old for that. Is liable to kill them for the insurance.

[Summeroflove]

A man whose 45 or 50…. Still in good shape and makes money. Yeah…. But much past that and you won’t find much. Not saying it never happens.

Shit. There are young men who date 65 year old women and older but not common

[Summeroflove]

You have to think of it this way… When a woman’s younger. If she’s not seeking a genuine bond.

She will see men who are financially stable. She’s young…. Probably doesn’t have a lot of money if her own to raise a family on. He’s also more mature. Has looks. Has it all…

But. Once he’s older. Men who are younger are fitter. Can…. Get it up if you know what I mean and tend to be better in the bedroom department and more fun. Then a sex life that’s gone stale in the marriage with a man who can barely make her finish anymore.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I've been woty 100's of women and can tell you they are all pretty much the same. Financially stability is one of the traits women look for in men. However typically younger men are more susceptible to manipulation because they have less experience with women.
A man's age isn't really relevant to his attractiveness while a women's age is tied directly to her attractiveness. Woman always have FOMO thats part of being a women, however most women aren't expecting sexual stamina from young men, partly because younger men rarely last as long because they have less experience. All of these are valid concerns, but I wouldn't be to worried if I were you because they aren't realistic. If a man does the work he can have younger women till the day he dies.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Thats not realistic. Most women aren't able to sport f**k like English. A 40 year old women isn't likely to get a 20 yro man for the simple fact that men value youth and beauty. If a man is successful and in his 20's he's going to want a younger woman. Thats why its much more common to see older men with younger women vs vice versa.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Lol, I think I see you're confusion. Remember you're a man. The right women simply needs to be be attractive and submissive. It's women that have a million requirements in men. As long as you make sure your value is high, you can easily replace a woman with a younger version.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove You're not bursting anyone's bubble, as that was never a talking point. However your fear of a women taking advantage of you for your money may be what's held you back. How many women have you been with?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove As long as a man takes care of himself he can have beautiful women for all of his life. It's much more difficult for women because they lose so much value as they age.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Women dont have much leverage when it comes to HV men. They may have it over someone like you, however once a man builds value he can dictate the type of women he wants to spend time with. As long as a man has options women aren't really that much of a challenge. in my opinion you should ignore these irrational fears of yours and just focus on building your value, then you can spend your time with as many hot women as you want.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah women who play submissive are the worlds biggest actors and I can’t believe men fall for it.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I dont want them to play submissive, they just actually need to be submissive. Why do you think you've struggled to find submissive women?

[Summeroflove]

Because most so called submissive behavior is fake and cringe and I can smell it a mile away.

The women who say they want a high value man are typically very superficial, materialistic, and narcissistic. Most will cheat and leave you at the drop of a hat.

[Summeroflove]

If someone really thinks they are the best someone can find. You’re wrong…. Someone will always be hotter then you. Stronger then you. Have more money then you….

If you don’t create a genuine bond between yourself and another person. That relationship isn’t going to last. Someone’s going to leave in the end almost every time. And there will be affairs along the way.

[Summeroflove]

Men loose value as they age too. Tell me men who are 80-100+ who have a beautiful woman?

Also, you’re just as bad if you divorce a woman because she ages. Men who do that deserve to be left and women who are like that they deserve one another is my point.

If you genuinely love your wife. You wouldn’t leave her when she gets older.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner Al Pacino, Larry Flynt, Anthony Quinn, could probably make a laundry list of men at that age that had beautiful women. However you'll never hear of an 80 yro woman attracting a successful man. Even the fact that you had to skip from 40 to 80 proves my point.
in my opinion men shouldn't be getting married to begin with as there's nothing in it for them. The fact you know a men leave because women age only validates my statement.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove in my opinion one of the things thats difficult for guys your age, is understanding that men and women are different, society has beaten into your head we are the same and you've naively fallen for it.
Women are valued for their beauty and looks, Men are valued for their accomplishments. Beauty fades, and always will, its just that in today's society because you guys have been told we're equal we dont want to admit flaws in females so coping mechanisms like you created come into play.

[Summeroflove]

You mean famous people? Men who have money?

[Summeroflove]

There are cougars too dating young men

[Summeroflove]

Well. What do men get out of a relationship if women are less then men?

Even in traditional theories men and women are equal…. In different ways.

[Summeroflove]

If women are less then men. Why would anyone want a relationship?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Now you're being disingenuous. I gave you tangible answers to refute your position. At no point did I say these were the only men who date younger women.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove They are an anomaly, and actually its much more likely they are being used for their money, why did you omit that favt?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Great question. The only thing most men get from relationships is sex. I require sex and submission. Lets be honest, if it wasn't for sexual access most men wouldn't deal with females at all. Most adults recognize this however your generation has been indoctrinated with this belief in equality, that it makes it uncomfortable for you to hear these truths.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Another great question. Women need relationships, most men can do w/out them, the issue becomes its difficult for most young men to get sex, so they're forced to try to enter into relationships. What they ans seemingly you dont understand is that of men do the work, they can attract women pretty much until the day they die.

[Summeroflove]

Well if someone’s with someone for money. That’s using someone for money…. Most people male or female aren’t genuinely romantically and sexually attracted to old people.

I’m not saying there isn’t a rare case or genuine love that’s not my place to judge. But it’s rare

[Summeroflove]

I’m just saying. Most people aren’t into old men or old women. Nothing against old people…. But most people aren’t in that sense

[Summeroflove]

Well if that’s all a man seeks is sex. That’s all he’s gonna get…. If you refuse to have any other boundaries or standards. Then why not just have casual sex? Why have a relationship.

Even traditional relationships were 50/50 when done right. It’s just men played one role as where women played another. And it worked because they worked equally hard in different roles.

Sex should be enjoyable by both people

[Summeroflove]

A lot of men are just driven and blinded by lust…. But there are women who have more to offer then just sex. That’s why so many men are in bad relationships…. All they cared about was sex and got with women who put out early on.

If a woman puts out early. Then… She’s probably promiscuous. Will probably cheat… and probably has a past

[Summeroflove]

Well. Nobody NEEDS a relationship… and a man shouldn’t be with a woman whose simply desperate for a relationship. Just like a woman shouldn’t be with a man who is.

Why? Because that isn’t genuine love. There’s a difference between being invested in a person and just needing a relationship.

It’s also not hard for young men to get sex if they’re attractive in FACT…. Getting sex is by far easier then long term relationships. Relationships are more work and investment. Getting someone to sleep with you is the easy part. Maintaining a relationship is harder

[Vegasrunner]

@simply more disingenuous rhetoric designed to make you feel better. The question ask why is it easier to attract beautiful women now. You introduced age and money, in an attempt to deflect from the question.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove "Old" is relative. Routinely people magazine has named men in their 50's as the world's sexiest man. They'll never name a woman that old as that. Also sounds like you're attempting to convince yourself of something false. If you're not old then why do you care if people are attracted to old people or not?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Again until you stop being disingenuous in your rhetoric you're not going to understand. No where did I say that all a man seeks in a relationship is sex and submission. You asked me what does a man get from it and I gave you an honest answer. Noticed when I asked you how many women you've been with you didn't respond. I also explained to you that men enter into relationships so they can have sex. You ignored this. If you seek to actually have a civilized conversation about this matter, then you need to be honest.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove All men are blinded by just. If they weren't there wouldn't be relationships which was my point. Why do you believe most men are in bad relationships?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove women need relationships, without them their value decreases. Women's value are directly tied to the caliber man they can retain.
Actually statistically its very difficult for you men to get sex, are you aware that about 33% of men under 30 are virgins or haven't had sex in a year?

[Summeroflove]

50s isn’t 70 or 80 or 90 or 100 or 110 or 120

[Summeroflove]

Let me tell you. There are a lot of amazing women out there who make good wives and mothers for children.

Just like there are deadbeat men who can reproduce and that’s it

[Summeroflove]

Well. The most bitter women are the lowest value and never get the kind of men they want.

But that’s not all that determines someone’s value as a human being.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove How would you know. You haven't been with many? Statistically single fathers raised more productive children than single moms. It's just that because of women's insecurities, society constantly has to do like you do and big them up.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Just depends on the type of man they can retain.

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the mom and dad…. Some men cry about wanting equal custody. But a lot of men who are single dads…. Don’t want much to do with their kids.

Men and women both…. Wanna have sex but don’t want the consequences

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Statistically thats not true. If a single father raises the child the child has a shot at a successful life. If a single mom raises a child that child most likely wil fail in life.

[Summeroflove]

Well. Some moms and dads are better then others. Most people just plopping babies aren’t the most responsible adults.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Statistically single dad's are better for a lot of obvious reasons. Sounds like you're letting things outside of your control effect you. in my opinion dont concern yourself with what men need to do to get laid or how bad single moms are, you should focus more on trying to build up your value so you can have options of women for the rest of your life.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I divorced at 50 and it was easier dating as a balding middle aged man with a dad bod than as an in shape competitive athlete at 18. I've never dated a single mom, or anyone over 35 and only dated beautiful women because it's easier. Guys are too intimidated to ask them out so they ask out average looking women get more and that's too competitive for me. I'm not going to chase average. By the time I was 50 I learned that I could talk to any woman in public without being creepy so approaching was easy and I had enough female friends that wanted to set me up with their much younger single friends. I was also working in an industry that attracted a lot of former models who "aged out" of modeling, were nearing 30 and single so there was a lot of opportunity.

[capriVib]

Wow, is that so? How come I didn't know.

[Vegasrunner]

@capriVib Im not sure, but remember in today's society its easier for people to complain about negative experiences vs embracing positive ones.

[WonderingManII]

It isn't you just getting more lucky.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Every night?

[WonderingManII]

Yep just luck.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Lol that would make me the luckiest man on earth. Why are you struggling to get women?

[WonderingManII]

I have problems.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Gotcha, well gl it could be your problems that are limiting you from getting women.

[WonderingManII]

They are, and they can't be fixed. Hell is real.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Nice, thats more for me.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe it is Tinder or socials