Guys, Is he just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

I was talking with this guy i met in person and majority of the time l feel like l lead the conversations and he sometimes asks questions like if l dont talk he doesn't either and if l want to text him l need to message which is annoying at this point so l stopped. He did mention l can ask him anything and he will respond the best he can. In person there's more chemistry and attraction but i havnt seen him since September and when l saw him it was becasue l ran into him at a concert. Recently, l feel like this back and forth is more friend than romantic vibes as he's not showing he's interested in pursuing but just replying and not asking to see me. So l decided to test his interest and asked him if he's going to this concert on Friday next week and he replied saying - Hey, not sure yet havnt decided will probs decide last minute. Is this no interest whatsoever with how he replied? i honestly feel like moving on

[Summeroflove]

All men are different but generally when two people are really interested the conversations are give and take one person isn’t doing all the talking, asking, and initiating. This seems like he’s being nice he’s replying when you message him.

Also, if the conversations are small talk and generally trivial when you try to have deeper discussions it gets awkward or he changes the subject back to something more mundane. Yeah probably just being nice…

It’s also normal I’m sensing based on what you’ve said that there was initial attraction. But somewhere along the way he’s lost it. Maybe he’s keeping you as a backup or maybe he thinks you’re cool but not someone he would date. Not being honest about it. Seems like neither of you seem one another in a whole and that right there is enough time for someone to move on.

Be direct and ask. But just be prepared. He’s probably lost interest and/or has found someone else. That’s just the truth. The way he’s taking doesn’t seem like he’s wanting to make a effort to see you or get to know you more at all

[live2dance25]

If you don’t think he is serious and just being friendly, might be time to move on. But, things may turn around and he may show interest down the road. It’s hard to predict the future!