I sent a guy from my past this and I received no reply… why do I not matter to him?

[Anonymous]

My cousin went behind my back to talk a man I told her hurt me but I still had feelings for… and it hurt because he treated me like crap to get rid of me in the past. He rejected me

I sent him this…

“It doesn’t cost anything to be kind, especially to someone who trusted you and was honest about their struggles from day one. You made an already painful situation so much worse than it ever needed to be. I trusted you to at least treat my feelings with basic decency, even if you thought less of me. I reacted out of hurt and anger because I felt dehumanized and disposable, and the closure you gave was empty and careless. At the end of the day you both deserve eachother “

“You make me hate living “

[Finchie40]

Unfortunately some people just move on and put the past behind them and close the door on it and never open it again. so unfortunately he isn’t responding because you are his past that he moved on from you , so whatever happened back then with you and him didn’t sit with him well , so he closed the door on you. I know you want answers but unfortunately we don’t always get the answers we are looking for , just accept the fact that you are no longer an importance to him and move on yourself. Sometimes people are removed from our lives for a reason , so just look at it that way and move on the best ya can

[Asker]

Him and my cousin conspired against me about my mental health and they are both treating me the same way… I was really hurt by my cousin because she had been lying to me about talking to the guy I confided in her about and made me feel like the problem and deflected instead of just being honest. I guess she likes him now and wants me to move on and go away on top of him also avoiding me.. like wow I was already depressed over him and now she is secretly talking to him

[Finchie40]

Well your cousin sounds like a disrespectful POS if she is doing that behind your back , so remove yourself from her as well and act like they no longer exist to you period

[Greatful]

Sometimes rejection is Gods protection it hurts sometimes however you saw his true colors consider it a blessing its happen to all of us at sometime its never easy dont worry about reflect heal move on stronger wiser

[wkhan_87]

Life isn't perfect for everyone

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[wkhan_87]

Means we can't find everything we want

[In_Trance]

Stop it...