Is it normal for a guy to invite me abroad after only two dates?

Question

I almost dont know anythinf about him, we only met twice... I thought he was interested in a relationship and gettint to know me.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not really , but it depends on how well you both got to know each other before hand , were you both talking on the phone for quite sometime before going on a date or did you both just jump to going on a date together? you did say you don’t know him that well, so my advice to you is for you not to go , if you don’t feel comfortable with him. Usually when a guy or girl tries rushing into a relationship with someone , they are desperate and not thinking clearly , they usually fantasize about how they want things to go hoping you will be on the same page as them , but the reality of it all , is just infatuation , , because it takes a lot more time to really get to know each other and to see the big picture. So again you are best to not go with him and tell him the truth that you need more time to get to know him , if you are still talking to him? Rushing into things with someone is stupid to do especially if you both don’t truly know each other personally, So you will be dodging a bullet by not going with him , his intentions is to probably try to have sex with you on that so called trip

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It is unconventional and a potential yellow flag. While he might simply be spontaneous, a beginner to dating boundaries, or swept up in early infatuation, traveling abroad requires high trust and removes your safety net

An overseas trip naturally implies intimacy. He might have expectations for the relationship that don't align with where you currently are.

You will be in a foreign environment. If you realize he is controlling, incompatible, or makes you feel unsafe, you cannot easily go home.

Stay protected.

leannegrayson · Accepted Answer

Whenever I sense a man pressing his sweating thumb against a phone to send his carnal filth into the ether, and invite me abroad, I simply focus my mind on his camera lens. In an instant, the glass violently shatters inward, driving white-hot, jagged splinters directly into his greedy eyes, blinding him permanently so he may never gaze upon his own sickening vanity again. Just ask the wretched boy @smart_monk what happens when you try to pollute the world with such digital filth. I merely focused on the lithium in his device, and the battery instantly erupted into a screaming pillar of unquenchable sulfur, melting the flesh straight from his texting hand until only blackened bone remained to beg for a mercy he will never receive.

Taurus_Woman · Accepted Answer

It’s not very normal or grounded for someone to invite you to go abroad with them after only two dates. A healthy relationship usually develops gradually: getting to know each other, building trust, meeting in normal settings, and seeing consistency over time. If someone is serious, they won’t rush you into big life decisions or travel plans early on, they will give you time to feel safe and certain.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

NOWADAYS there is NO NORMAL however if a guy invites you abroad only after two dates either he really likes you, wants to drop your panties or he’s a CEREAL KILLER.

Lesbologist · Answer

I mean I'd never goon that hard for anyone, but I also can't judge others by my own standards.

I mean if you're some Instagram girl and this guy is from some Arabic country inviting you to his yacht... isn't that business as usual? I lack that kind of info though right?

Lliam · Answer

If you aren't in a relationship with him, barely know him, and you two haven't even had sex, I would say no. Definitely not. It could be very risky.
It sounds like he is trying to lure you into the sack quickly and using an expensive holiday as bait. That's pretty creepy.
What if things didn't go to his liking on the trip? He could dump you and leave you stranded.

LiamS95 · Answer

No it's not normal at all. What happens after he gets you away to a place you can't call any friends for help?

Jersey2 · Answer

I would ask such a thing but I live to travel and would think little of it. As a woman though be very careful. It could be dangerous. You would be safe with me but with some guys it could be deadly. For me it would just be casual fun, not even showing off as some would think. It is just part of my life, travel that is.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not really normal. Not uncommon either.

Purpleronnie · Answer

What’s normal got to do with it?  This reads like a low key brag rather than an actual legitimate question 🤣 If your hesitant about it , don’t go 🤷‍♂️

EveryDayIsPretzelDay · Answer

Was he by any chance going to take you to Slovakia?

Zack-Bann · Answer

Leading with his wallet because he doesn’t have much else to offer  Take that however you will Either enjoy the free ticket or focus on finding someone worth your time

molonski2 · Answer

Depends where " abroad " is? And why he is making the trip himself? And who is paying? All this changes things a lot , his age does also.. More info required..

slatyb · Answer

No, it is not. "I almost don't know anything..." His behavior is very odd. Which country is he inviting you to visit? Who is paying? Where would you stay?

goaded · Answer

From where to where? A trip from England or Germany to Paris would be a romantic escape. To Kabul is another kettle of fish! Even so, as a third date, it sounds a bit excessive.

Alex-Snow · Answer

That seems kind of quick. What does your gut and heart tell you? Are you sexually involved with him yet?

Inreallifenfc · Answer

Why are you leaving? Why isn't he coming to you? He's not a gentleman.

spartan55 · Answer

I wouldn't say so. Traveling together is a pretty intimate experience.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

If you could trust him but can you after two dates? I'd be careful and certain countries I would be careful about going alone.

MrChinaski · Answer

Am guilty of doing so. Make of that what you will.

genericname85 · Answer

hell no. that's like red lights blinking all over the place.

msc545 · Answer

He simply wants to have sex with you and figures that taking you abroad is a convenient way of convincing you to do that.

QuietRunner · Answer

you need to think about it It is not normal

Anonymous · Answer

No. It is pretty fast. Maybe he already paid for everything.

samael_kmarty · Answer

It's normal if he is rich,  Had pre paid trip and someone said no.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not normal and probably dangerous. Where does he want to take you? What are the laws there?

billyboy197747 · Answer

After two dates hah, I never heard of that before. So can't say if it's normal or abnormal.

Anonymous · Answer

Better think hard about it You get over there he dumps you. How you going get home   BAD DECISION DON'T GO

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Run, Forrest, run!

Account · Answer

Nope.

NoDecision · Answer

I feel a death is about to happen.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not normal at all!

exitseven · Answer

That is weird. I would be careful with this guy

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nah. At least, I sure as hell wouldn’t.

Jen_oic · Answer

That would be a big RED flag 🚩 for me

Mike_Hum · Answer

lol what? was he serious?

Anonymous · Answer

It's a bit too soon.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, if he wants sex

Anonymous · Answer

Is he muslim?

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Dont

In_Trance · Answer

That's sus

Staximus · Answer

Not normal

Bykurs10 · Answer

Ofc not normal

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