Why do people try to convince you to live a life without love?

Question

They try to tell you, that you can be happy without love and a partner, but that is just plain wrong! And I WANT TO FIND LOVE!!

HollyK21 · Answer

The only time I’ve tried doing that is when the person is just overly fixated with finding a partner, it’s what their world revolves around and they simply aren’t happy being single. I believe that relationships are meant to be an extension of an otherwise fulfilling life, and if you need a relationship to feel whole then you’ve got some personal work to do first.

There_Is_Rehab · Answer

Hey i just posted an opinion elsewhere that i think you might relate to, knowing some of your background. You had another account here 2015-2026 didn't you?

So here is an opinion i just posted seconds ago:

I had fucked up body tension all my life, i wouldn't say my posture was bad. The opposite. Most helpless losers walk around shrugging all the time but i walked around with my shoulders down and a billion years spent stretching exercising would not change it. Why? Because my dad was a cowardly violent fuck whom i feared. Only 1 day in my life i was relaxed not knowing why, i critiqued myself for being so relaxed that day. It was on a free field trip into the capital city in 5th grade where we had small groups guided by student's dads. Well, i was around men who care and protect. Not who exploit. I thiught so many times. Why the hell was my posture unwinded that day. But 99% of my life i am on guard ready to fight. No matter what i do. And i did absolutely everything. Except this: imagine a perfect flawless father figure. I have a real protective father figure. And it saddens me who easy relaxation is. I can feel safe and no longer dig a million conspiracy theories. My shit childhood "house owner" was not my dad. He's just a demonic sick child. My real dad is flawless and not bald.

melnc · Answer

I think they're just sharing what they went through, their bad experiences. And unfortunately, they make you see the dark side of the story. But do what you want and live your life. You'll definitely learn over time and have your own experience. Who knows... it could be positive or negative. I mean you have the right to feel that for yourself. My advice? Don't go all in, love with balance. Keep some for yourself, so if things go south, you walk away with the least damage.

PolarPoint · Answer

Because you dont want a love you want to enter into trade. And love sholdnt use as a trade. It should be sincere

shoeboxcerealcard · Answer

You can be happy but you'll never be anywhere near as happy as you could be in a healthy relationship.

Kassandra1994 · Answer

Love is painful simple. Please you are young just enjoy life. I speak from experiance.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Trying to help you by showing you that you can still be happy even when you don't have a partner...

Badtobad · Answer

I never heard that but your profile pic is so cute it makes me wanna cry

Anonymous · Answer

You know what's worse than being alone? Being in a relationship and still being alone. Marinate a little bit on that. There are worse things than being single.

Why do people try to convince you to live a life without love?

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How come people like to waste years of their life being with you if they don't even love you?

Why do people try to convince you to live a life without love?

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How come people like to waste years of their life being with you if they don't even love you?

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