If physical attraction is subjective, is personality subjective as well?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Masie]

Absolutely. What I look for in someone's personality may be completely different than another person's desire in a personality.

I will give an example that I find simple which is a leader and a follower. Some want one or the other. Another person might be lookijg for more similar and they both lead or are equals.

So, I completely agree with your statement.

[Asker]

Why do people tell men though that struggle with dating that they need to develop a personality when it's so subjective?

[Masie]

I personally feel like you need to find the right pair for your personality. No one is perfect in my eyes. It is about being able to accept flaws and take the good points of someone with the bad.

[Anonymous]

Sort of. First off beauty really isn't subjective. I know women like to say that. But if that were true the world would not have SUPERMODELS. Now to a LESSER extent subjective exists and that is where things like personality comes in. And really all that is is personal preference. Some women may like a quiwt guy, some may like a loud, brash guy. Get what i'm saying?

Just be you! Because unless you're a complete a**hole, you're not wrong in who you are and how you act. And ironically some women do like complete a**holes. Those women are generally toxic sociopaths. But that wasn't your question.😆

[NathanDavis]

yeah... it also depends on our perception of what's attractive or good, or better or not so much...

different people are into different things...

[Calyptomaniac]

Of course, there is no type of look or personality that everyone enjoys. Everyone's preferences vary.

[Asker]

Then why do people tell men who are lonely or have trouble attracting women that they need to work on their personality when it's such a broad statement because after all personality is subjective

[Calyptomaniac]

Some personalities don't appeal to as many people as others, just like some looks don't appeal to as many as others do, but it doesn't mean there's no one. You just haven't found the right one, but sometimes the lonely types can be on the bitter side about their loneliness and that is a trait that appeals to virtually no one, not saying that applies to you, but that's one reason people say that.

[Asker]

Just world fallacy

[Nikki1989]

Yes, what makes a personality "good" depends entirely on who is looking at it.

[Ogolem]

Yes of course. Have you ever had a friend whose girlfriend is annoying? There's the answer

[Billybob46]

Yes, others find my girlfriend annoying but I don't.

[lilBigPotato]

Yes of course.

[jahaims]

No way you are that stupid

[Asker]

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[arianna1414]

for sure yes