If I’ve done it once will I do it again?

[Anonymous]

My first girlfriend at 27 was honestly 10/10 looking. Nice relationship but she turned out not to be a great girl. I did used to flex money, exotic cars and things which may have attracted the wrong attention. I would have stood out on instagram to her.

Me personally I do feel I have every gift a guy can have. I am good looking too, life together, motivated and I have been born lucky. I want to find a very beautiful girl that is also a good person. What’s the point in having so much luck in life if you can’t put it to use?

I have dating apps and I can get a lot of interest but nearly all from girls I’m just not that physically attracted to. Problem is that it’s so hard to find those unique looking girls. Also when you do, the chance they like you back or see you on those apps is often not in your favour.

If I’ve done it once will I do it again? It is shallow but I am just really into unique and very beautiful girls. I feel in my comfort around them and I feel like such a cool guy. I’m used to it now and I can’t imagine it any different. I feel like the man.

Any advice? Where I live it’s hard to meet new people in person.

You will probably find another very beautiful girl eventually

I’m not sure

It will be very hard / impossible

[HarveyLaw]

My first piece of advice is: do not show wealth—no flexing, no exotic cars, etc. Otherwise, you will only attract gold diggers and scammers. If you are serious about finding that special woman who has both a great personality and stunning looks, know that it is not the easiest task, but it is possible.

My second piece of advice is: care about the woman. Physical beauty naturally fades with age, but the beauty of a kind heart gets better as time passes. If you look for more than self-satisfaction and focus on loving and taking care of the person—yes, that stunning lady—I think it will be much more gratifying than anything else. Remember: the body follows the mind, and the mind follows the heart. Be stunning yourself, inside and out, and be ready to also be a gift to that special woman you seek.

Third and last of my ramblings: look for that special person in the right places. You can't catch a great white shark in a mountain lake. So, whatever beauty standards entice you the most, look for places where you are more likely to find women who meet them. Also, habits matter: party girls, club-goers, and promiscuous girls may not be the best for your goals; on the other hand, responsible, independent women—those who help others in need and focus on self-improvement—may be better options.

Good luck with your choices!

[canamlusciouslad73]

Since you're an affluent handsome lad, you'll almost surely find another hot lady.

[Anonymous]

Ever get tired of making new accounts to cry about being single bro?

[Nikki1989]

Here we go again. Yawn!

[Abbycado]

This same old sob story. 🙄

[canamlusciouslad73]

Stop saying "bro," and, hmmmm...