What is the reason why so many people are still single today?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, it's because everyone has high standards and expectations.

[capriVib]

Bro, dating is too expensive these days. You gotta give her attention, spend money, and constantly try to impress her. Then you get married, end up divorced, pay alimony, and poof, there goes your money what's the point? Time is valuable. No wonder more guys are going their own way.

[Asker]

well you need to take chances if you want good things in life. if you never want to spend money to take girl out on date, you might as well never get to find true love.

[capriVib]

There was someone who loved me, but I think I've already used up my luck with true love lol.

I'm just not ready for it right now.

[Kaneki05]

Everyone stays in their own circle and many have little circles. Therefore it's a lack of interaction, which stems from problems of sticking to what you enjoy and unless what you enjoy is highly social with randoms you won't find someone. Because people don't randomly show up in your life when you aren't doing that.

[TonyMetal___1986]

What you have said is true, add to it the financial difficulties, feminism and the fear of divorce since the couple in today's world lacks faith, real love and what a real marriage means!

[Asker]

I think a big part of male bitterness has to do with going for girls who don't want you. Go for girls who want you, all your problems will be solved.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Nope not at all!
Maybe for others yes but not for me if you're pointing at me, i was hurt from girls who were ready to die for me at some point but later on they have changed, they lied and they broke their promises!

Only a moron will pursue a girl who isn't interested in him...

[Asker]

they hurt you cuz they don't want you, simple as that.
if she truly wanted you, she wouldn't have hurt you.
go for a less attractive girl or a fat girl who barely has any options, she will never cheat on you. cuz she has basically no one to cheat on you with

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well i'm not a psychic, plus i'm not so desperate, i'll enjoy my single life until i find the one, if i ever find her 😄

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

but the truth is... if every single girl you come across doesn't want you or eventually doesn't want you after a few months... there is usually a reason for it. Maybe people just don't like you. Maybe you are just a crappy person which is why every girl you come across hates you or cheats on you for someone else.

by this point, you will just need to find someone who would be willing to settle for you. And this usually means a girl who is equally just as low value.

not saying this as a way to be mean. but just the truth.

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're speaking so much personal about me, while i'm speaking in general...

I understand what you mean, no need to make it sound lower, you're making me appear that i'm so low and desperate in my life, also that nobody likes me... bla bla bla, you don't even have a clue about who i am 😂😂

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

yea but i sense a lotta pain from the stuff you write about on here. Loneliness is a form of suffering. Especially as you get older, dating doesn't get any better, it just gets worse. So it's better to just get someone while you still look somewhat decent than to try to do it later when you're old and ugly.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks for your concern, don't worry about me when i become older and very ugly 😂 you won't be the one who has to accept me or not...

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

I see myself as a very long sighted person. I see things many others don't see. Just trying to always help others. Good luck!

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well you have surely helped me a lot, especially when you told me that i have to accept the scum cause the scum mignt not accept me, or also becoming old and uglier, also that no one wants me and on and on and on...😂

You surely have a long sight about me and helped me a lot, thanks queen for giving me a high boost of hope 🤣

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

yea... the short sightedness on here is just astounding... everyone always talking about how they are waiting for the right person to come along... as if waiting is the ultimate solution. You're all getting older and uglier by the year. how much longer are you all gonna wait? and what makes you all think that more people will be chasing you at 50 or 60 than right now? the stupidity is astounding.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I'm waiting for no one and i have never said that i'm seeking for anything, i'm just living my life, day by day, if something happens, than why not and if not than i won't be so sad...

Idc if i turn uglier or more handsome, idc about looks, i never said that i'll find the right person, actually i always have stated that i have my doubts that i'll ever find the right one, actually i have stated many times that i'm hesitated to ever love again or be in a relationship... etc

Sooo, i really don't know what you're talking about, find someome else to blast them with your wisdom 😒

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

Way too many people on here saf and desperate for someone to fill their lives but love acting as if they are ok being completely alone

Forcing yourself to like an unfulfilled life, will give you just that: an unfulfilled life

Humans are not meant to be alone.

[Asker]

China has a same issue of huge populations of young men single and unmarried. But in their country, they are willing to admit they are desperate and need someone. In America, it just seems the culture is to avoid admitting they need anyone. They just force themselves to like an unfulfilled life

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well i'm not chinese nor American, plus i only represent myself 😌

[Asker]

@tonymetal___1986

Just be true to yourself and don't lie to yourself. trying to like a life that you hate.

thats all.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I never lie, i was cleae all the time about myself, why don't you stop making wrong assumptions about me!

This convo is over, i'm out!

[Nikki1989]

So many?

Where are these people?

[Asker]

marriage is at it's all time lows and birth rates at all times lows too. google it

[Anonymous]

Because when women and men don’t need each other anymore for financial, practical or social reasons the only reason they would enter a relationship is if they actually want each other and well, clearly we don’t want each other.

[Anonymous]

For me it's trauma and seeing other women still going through the same thing and worse makes me not want to look

[TonyMetal___1986]

It's a trauma for you to see what happened to other women but not a trauma to see what other women did to men 😏

[Opinion Owner]

No it's trauma I experienced myself from men and also seeing that it's still happening to other women...
Im not dating women. The only woman I can control is myself, and I choose to stay away from men.
What's your point? That's it's not fair for me not to pursue any men?

[TonyMetal___1986]

What kind of a trauma have you experienced from men?

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

I've endured a lot of trauma from men too. but mostly from online dating. online dating was a mistake. all the shitty guys go there

[TonyMetal___1986]

Maybe you fell for liars, online dating is a place where a lot of guys doesn't shows their real side, they only want sex but in order to receive what they want, they know better that a woman will rarely pick them if they only mention sex, so they act by faking things up in order to appear a man whom any woman would dream of, so a lot of women would fall in their traps and ends up hurt and disappointed!

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

online is a place for mostly people who can't get dates in real life. I was associating myself with bottom of the barrel scum

[TonyMetal___1986]

I think so yes...
I'm someone who has never used a dating site and i have barely dated in my whole life 😄

[Anonymous]

They don't know how to communicate properly with people.

[Iron_Man]

Everybody wants to be in control and wants power

[Anonymous]

Women want to be in a committed relationship but dont want to belong to that man, the relationship and potential family.

[Anonymous]

Guys don’t want to commit

[TonyMetal___1986]

And why guys don't want to commit? Talking like girls are made from gold while men are just scraps 😏

[Danny_dan92]

The internet

[FrodoVader007]

Cultural decay.