So I ended up going back to my ex who hurt me. It was a really bad idea and yes I regret it. I've learned now that I deserve way better. My question is to girls or guys: why do you or why do you think people go back to people who hurt them?
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Never accept any guy telling you that you don't deserve someone better. He is not respecting you and if he can say that, I don't think he ever will. You deserve to be with someone who will respect and honor you. This respectful new boyfriend should also be able to tell you when you are doing something that is disrespectful or out of line and explain it without turning into an argument. You should both be able to communicate and talk about issues and then decide to compromise and become better together without feeling ashamed or pressured.
I think people sometime lose themselves to a stronger partner who wants to control them. Unfortunately women can find the strength and intensity an attractive trait. Think more highly of yourself and leave someone who puts you down in the dust. You will then be open to finding someone who knows how to treat you better.0