I took a class over the summer, which ended a month ago. A few nights ago, a guy from that class that I talked to here and there found me thanks to social media. He gave me his # and asked if I would meet him for a drink. He invited me out a few nights later, all the while texting me, saying very nice things.
About 20 min before the date, he texted me saying he ran some errands with his grandmother and wouldn't be able to make it. I was upset as I had just left my house, he cancelled and it was via text (no call). I told him "that's too bad, but thanks for the heads up" to which he asked if we could meet up after my softball games (I told him ahead of time that I was playing that night). Knowing I'd be gross, sweaty and out late, I said "i won't be able to, but thanks anyway" to which he said "Oh, ok." I ended with "maybe another time" since I knew I sounded like a bitch. This was two days ago and I have yet to hear from him.
I'm just wondering if I should initiate convo with him? Is he even into me to cancel 20 min before without updating me throughout the day? I had no idea he was busy during the day. He initiated everything, so I'm surprised he hasn't reconnected. Was I too harsh in my response and that's why he's kept himself at bay?
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Things come up and people unfortunately do have to cancel at the last minute sometimes. He asked if he could make it up to you after one of your games, so yes that means he is still into you. You should call him and tell him you want to meet up again. You may have sounded a little harsh, but if you initiate a conversation with him, it will probably put him a little more at ease. If you text, add a smiley.1