I'm black and I like this white girl at my work an she is really hot and I started talking to her at work an she seems really cool but a friend of mind at my work is also black and he talks to her more and he told me that she don't date black guys and I said did she say she doesn't date black guys and he said well she didn't say it, she just said she doesn't really talk to black guys the way she talks to him and apparently she told him that he was the only black guy she really talks to. so what should I do I don't want to go up to her ask and say do you date black guys,how can you tell if a girl dates black guys?
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there's no such thing as a girl who does or doesn't date black guys. I'd only ever dated white guys until I met my current boyfriend, who is black, and I was instantly attracted to him.
i never considered myself as someone who did or did not date black men before, even though I never had. I just date whoever I want, which hasn't often happened to be black men. but my current boyfriend is black and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
so just because she hasn't dated black guys before, doesn't really mean anything. don't read too much into it and just be yourself and if she's attracted to you she's attracted to you!4