How can you tell if a girl is into black guys?

[Anonymous]

I'm black and I like this white girl at my work an she is really hot and I started talking to her at work an she seems really cool but a friend of mind at my work is also black and he talks to her more and he told me that she don't date black guys and I said did she say she doesn't date black guys and he said well she didn't say it, she just said she doesn't really talk to black guys the way she talks to him and apparently she told him that he was the only black guy she really talks to. so what should I do I don't want to go up to her ask and say do you date black guys,how can you tell if a girl dates black guys?

[Anonymous]

there's no such thing as a girl who does or doesn't date black guys. I'd only ever dated white guys until I met my current boyfriend, who is black, and I was instantly attracted to him.

i never considered myself as someone who did or did not date black men before, even though I never had. I just date whoever I want, which hasn't often happened to be black men. but my current boyfriend is black and I'm the happiest I've ever been.

so just because she hasn't dated black guys before, doesn't really mean anything. don't read too much into it and just be yourself and if she's attracted to you she's attracted to you!

[Asker]

thanks alot

[Wowireaditt]

Bro just clear your mind and stop all the nonsense we get what we want just like they do the eventually become acustomed your passion and contribute back if they smile make eye contact. And so on just act like YOU BRO! Im black my self well half and i dont want anything i just know i could get any of them SHOW CONFIDENCE. Frist fridged step searing pain of defience in what you say is what makes it worth being said! Oh yeah 🖕🏽trump!

[Anonymous]

You really can't tell since it varies from person to person so much. For some girls it doesn't matter what type of guy it is, others just aren't attracted to specific types. You can't approach her with race in mind though, that will kill any chances you have right there. For example, in general I've noticed I'm not usually attracted to black guys, don't know why since race doesn't really matter to me and I'm into Asians for instance, but every once in a while I encounter an individual who charms me with their personality. There's no trick to it really, your chemistry just needs to match.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Never ask a girl "do you date black guys". I think all girls dislike being asked this. Also, don't really trust what another guy tells you about a girl. He sees you as competition.Think about it...she doesn't like black guys, yet your black friend is wasting all this time talking to her for no reason? Hmmmmmmm interesante` You need to forget about the racial barrier and go for her like you'd go for anyone else.

[Asker]

thx but how would I know if she does date black guys I don't want to try and get to know her if she doesn't date black guys

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Try and get to know her. Let's say she does date black guys but she doesn't like you personally. It'd be the same thing. Plus girls hate that. It's annoying when a guy of a different race asks you if you date his race or not. The question is, "will she date YOU?"

[Asker]

yea your right

[MCSchubs]

The question is, has he dated his other black, Asian, and latin women before?

[Phoenix52]

Don't worry about whether or not she dates black guys. If you want to try dating her, get her number so you can hang out outside of work if she's willing to do so.

The point here is that you TRY. Give yourself a shot. Don't get jealous over the fact that she's talking to the other black guy. For all we know, this other black guy could be lying to you about that statement because he's inadvertently trying to c0ck-block you so he can get her.

Do what you want to do and don't let anything bother you about it.

[Anonymous]

attraction isn't a choice so, don't stress yourelf off of something you have no control over. If you like her then make your move. don't be afraid to hear no. everybody has heard it before. if any one tell you they didn't then they are lying. so man up

[sundrop28]

Dont bring attention to it, the more attention you bring to that situation, the more it will be prevalent. I honestly don't think it matters at all. You can capture her heart if you can show her what a great guy you are. For example, I used to put certain standards on guys I would date; like they couldn't be shorter than me...until I met this guy who was so genuinely nice and such a gentleman to me that him being shorter than me didn't even cross my mind or bother me. I ended up really liking him and I didn't care if he was short or tall. Now I don't put standards on guys I would date. Show that girl who you are! Good luck!

[Anonymous]

If she really likes you it won't matter to her if you are black.

If she doesn't really like you then maybe the blackness will be an excuse for not dating you.

Forget everything your guy friend is saying. He is trying to psyche you out man.

[sundrop28]

Yeah don't listen to that guy...he seems to just want to get you out of the situation so he can go in for it.

[Asker]

he said he would go for it he said he would date her but he already has a girlfriend and plus she gotta kid

[prettymuscle]

your over thinking it, white girls perfer black guys anyway

[hughmathews]

as a white guy, even i know this is true lmao

[britannny]

I think that guy is probably full of sh*t.

There isn't really a way.

[hughmathews]

the only way you could tell is if maybe she had a queen of spades tattoo. besides that, not many.

[Anonymous]

She's usually white, chubby, and feels rejected by white men yet feeds off of the attention self-hating black men may give her.

[Asker]

um so what are you trying to say

[Opinion Owner]

I'm saying you're a self hating negro and the type of white girl who tends to love black men is a fat one with a loose p**** who feels rejected by white guys.

[Asker]

listen Racist well anonymous guy racist I'm not self hating myself for liking a woman and that's bull I have a lot of black friend swho have beautiful white girlfriends and also have white guy friends who have beautiful black women or any woman for that matter

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not racist lmao and I'm not a guy.

Most black guys who go after white girls have self hate issues. They don't choose black women beacuse of their features, features that they have themself. You calling me racist as a very weak attempt at an insult doesn't change the truth.

[Asker]

the truth my ass mabe to your pathetic logic but there are people who just fall in love with the person just because a black guy dates a white girl does not mean he hates himself or black woman it could be because he just fell in love with her did you ever think of that I'm not even gonna ask what you think about homosexual people you will pro say girls date girls because they hate themeselves and men and same with guys so I'm not even gonna ask your sh*t logic on that

[Opinion Owner]

even though there are people like that, you haven't fallen in love lol You, like most black men, are going out there seeking nothing but white women because deep down, you hate black features that you have. You don't fall in love and then date so that makes your claim invalid. You are the typical self hating, African American who bullsh*ts his way through the reality if his disgusting ways.

[Asker]

not at all I'm love myself and who I am and I'm not talking about me I'm speaking in general becaus eu said when a black guy only dates white women he hates himself and black women which is bull sh*t its called PREFERENCE look it up and I also didn't recall saying I only date white women I said I like one now yes but I did not say those are the only kinds of women I date and I'm not African American I'm not from africa I don't give a sh*t if black people are call that's I'm a black man not no African ame

[Asker]

African America.

[Opinion Owner]

He does hate himself. Black men are among the most disgraceful ethnic group of men on this planet. They are constantly doing things that make them an embarassment to black people, including breeding out of their race by exclusively dating non-black women. They do it because they feel that non-black women are prizes; THEY HATE THEMSELVES. They don't like black features that they possess themselves. It's pathetic.

[Asker]

yeah you are a Racist and arrogant acting like you know it all you don't know what its like to be a black man what the hell do you kno anyways your sh*t logic isn't gonna change a dam thing and I'm assuming you have something against black people because you probably wouldn't mind an Asian man dating a white women or any other kind of man of ethnicity but like I said it doesn't matter you ain't nobody your words ain't gonna change the world you might as well join the fukin KKK and go out an protest against

[Asker]

protest against interracial dating and any other race besides white but its as I said your words aren't gonna change a single dam thing there a lot of people all around the world that interracial date and that's there business there happiness who the hell are you to tell people what they can or can't be you don't decide sh*t for anybody if you don't interracial date then all power to you good for you but don't go saying sh*t like black men are the root of all disgracefulness in the world

[Asker]

just because a few bad apples are bad does not mean the whole batch is. but I guess in your eyes white people are perfect they have never killed anybody or rape anybody or steal or cheat hell even white people interracial date not just black every race interracial dates get your facts straight and every race does bad and good things there good black people just like there are bad white people we are all human we all make mistakes,people like you need to open your eyes

[Opinion Owner]

lol, I'm not racist; I'm just calling you out on being a self hating negro. "I ain't nobody"? LOL, just because you say that doesn't mean it's true. I need to join the KKK because I'm telling you the truth about you being ANOTHER self hating black man who's up the ass of white females?

I didn't protest against interraical dating, I called your over-sensitive, over-talkative ass. I obviously struck a nerve with all that talking you are doing acting like you are tough but really just making

[Opinion Owner]

yourself look like ghetto trash.

I didn't say white people are innocent of anything negative lmao you really shouldn't ASSume, it's making you look like a dumb ass. You need to just accept the truth; You are a self hating black man who's obsessed with non-black females.

[Asker]

i date girls the color of there skin does not matter do you see in my question were I said I only date white girls NO all I said is that I like this white girl and you said all this sh*t like I'm just another negro who hates himself for liking a white girl so I wonder what you have said if I said I liked this Asian girl you probably would say self hating negro who only dates Asians like your so fukin stupid just because I like a girl who isn't black I'm considered a self hating negro WOOOOW lol really

[Asker]

lol you might as well say to every self hating person who dates outside there race 'YOUR A DISGRACE TO YOUR RACE'' YOUR A TRAITOR'' YOU DATE OUTSIDE YOUR RACE SO THERE FOR YOU HATE YOURSELF lol y,know I'm actually gonna make another question to get peoples opions on this I'm gonna say if you date outside your race are you considered to hate yourself and who you are oh well and I hope you see it too so a bunch of people can shame you

[Asker]

yeah I made the question and all kinds of people disagree with your sh*t logic they all shamed you

[Opinion Owner]

God damn, you talk way too f***ing much. CONDENSE your sentences. SUMMARIZE. It is not difficult!

Yes, Asian men are known for obsessing over white females too. Asian men and Black men are the worse for obsessing over Eurocentric looks. Some Arab and Indian guys are pretty bad too.

Stop putting words in my mouth with your dramatic, lame replies. I didn't say you're a traitor; I said you're another self hating negro which you are. It's about BLACK AND ASIAN people and MINORITIES who date outside

[Opinion Owner]

SPECIFICALLY dating WHITE WOMEN and obsessing over them. Not dating outside of your ethnic group in general duh dumb ass. You've altered the whole discussion and made the question sound very "duhhh, common sense" like to dismiss the validity.

I don't have sh*t logic; you just don't like being called out as ANOTHER self hating, tacky black man. Your illterate ass didn't phrase the question properly. You left out DETAILS so that the answers would be in your favor, dumb ass.

[Asker]

no I put plenty of detail in it you called me a self hating negro girl just because I liked this GIRL who happened to be white which is bull sh*t yet again your acting like white people don't pursue black people or any other type of race to date I have white guy friends who have dated black girls any kind of girl so it ain't just black people or Asian people who pursue other races and I liked this girl for who she is not because she is WHITE

[Opinion Owner]

It wasn't detail, it was dramatic, whiny ranting with a bit of made up failed insults.

I didn't say anything about white people not pursuing black people *there you go again making sh*t up*

Point blank; you are another self hating black man and it's disgusting.

[Asker]

well go ahead then answer on my question and let people see how you think I'm self hating just because I like this girl who happens to be white

[Opinion Owner]

I don't even know what question you're talking about lol.

You are a self hating negro and you are so pissy because this struck something in you.

[Asker]

are you friggin blind or just stupid the question about I posted about how you called me self hating because I like someone of a different race. and your just another racist redneck who doesn't approve of interracial dating but I don't give f*** the way you view it isn't changing anybody so you wanna go an think people who date or like someone who is not there race then go ahead it inst changing anything you shouldn't even care anyway what people do its there life not yours calling someone self hati.

[Asker]

self hating just because they like someone who is not there race wooow its so ignorant that its laughable

[Opinion Owner]

Self hating negro, you talk too much.

I'm not even white lol! You and your ASSumptions are making you look very stupid. Go get your white girl so you can feel better about your self hate issues.

[Asker]

i don't care if your white black, purple, green, your still racist for saying I'm self hating just because I like a girl who happened to be not my ethnicity which is complete bull sh*t you should go tell people you know who date outside there race the same thing that there self hating

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not racist simply for calling you out on your self hate.

It's not about people who date outside of their race in general; it's about minorities who tend to hate themselves and date outside of their race due to their self-hate. Most commonly Asian females and black males.

[Asker]

like I said laughable because white people Mexican people etc. people ALL date outside there race too but since there not a minority they are not considered self hated to you WOOOOW lol that's funny such a bad stereotype

[Opinion Owner]

that's not what I said dumb ass.

you dumb f***ing idiot, you are so stupid. You can't keep up with the most simple concept. I never said nor implied that other people from ethnic groups are incapable of self hate. You're so stupid, why the f*** would she want such a dumb, self hating negro?

[Asker]

well for the record she asked for my number at work and we have been haning out ever sense so shut up bich swallow and got take a bbc in your mouth or a wbc in your mouth

[MCSchubs]

The question is, has he dated black, Asian, and latina women before?

[Wowireaditt]

Your probably such a cunt that got used by the shitty precentile of black men look how you degrade yourself by making it seem as if he's self hating 😂 You must be mad you can't get good dick from your own kind or in general!😅😅😂😂😂😂

[krisntina]

Usually you will see me staring or taking a double take.

[Anonymous]

Stop talking to white girls.