Ok so to sum it all up: I met this girl playing basketball, we played for a while together, grabbed a smoothie afterward (even though she had to get to dinner...she went with me to the place and talked for a while first), and I got her number. Sent her a quick "hey it's me just so you have my number" text and she responded asking for my last name. Couple days later I text her, she responds, I send another text but she didn't respond. A few days later I call her. She answered, but for some reason she seemed short on the phone. She was busy studying when I called and maybe she was nervous to talk on the phone...or maybe she isn't interested. Anyway, I asked if she wanted to get dinner that night but she said she was busy. She just seemed like she really didn't want to be on the phone :/ Then a couple min of minorly awkward conversation later I asked what she had going on Thursday because I don't have any classes or work and she just said that she doesn't know yet. So my response there was saying that I would text her later to figure out thurs for sure.
So what do I do now? I don't want to push anything too fast since she doesn't seem super interested at all... but should I stick to my work and text her tomorrow? Or should I just let it slide and text her over the weekend?
If she's not interetsed, giving her more time between contacts would be good. But if she is interested, she might be upset I didn't text her on Thursday (tomorrow). What should I do though?
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The last name thing probably isn't important. Some people like having that to keep names organized on the phone. Or maybe she was a little interested and wanted to Facebook stalk you.
But I think you came on a little too strong. While calling her is a bit forward, it could be understandable. But you kept talking even though you knew she was busy studying, and kept bugging her about Thursday. So maybe she's a little freaked out. See if she responds on Thursday. If she doesn't, let it slide. But I think it's fine to text her over the weekend and casually ask about Thursday, and if she seems genuinely apologetic or says she was waiting for your text, then plan something next Thursday. If she brushes you off with a lame excuse, then let it go. She's probably not into you.0