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Polls: Dating

Girls, are most men these days losers?

Consider an average boy (Mr Average) born somewhere between 1990 and 2005. May have a post-high school degree (college or even bachelors degree). Does not have a car or bicycle. Works full time. Makes somewhere between...
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Consider an average boy (Mr Average) born somewhere between 1990 and 2005. May have a post-high school degree (college or even bachelors degree). Does not have a car or bicycle. Works Show More
yes
no
maybe
other
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Do you think that African Americans, and Native Americans are generally disrespected, when it comes to desirability, and dating?

I am both races, and a lot of times, it seems like Caucasians are often considered the most attractive race, and a lot of non-racist caucasians, prefer their own race, but there's always been the dumb narratives that...
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I am both races, and a lot of times, it seems like Caucasians are often considered the most attractive race, and a lot of non-racist caucasians, prefer their own race, but there's Show More
Yes, they very much so are disrespected
To an extent, they are
I think one of those races is more disrespected than the other, but still agree
No, I'm not racist, but for whatever reason, I don't find a lot of people from those ethnicities all that appealing
Yes, especially the women of those races
Other answer (explain)
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Should I give up on this very shy guy I like?

Hii there! I need your help! There is a very shy boy in my college that I like. We are both 21 years old. I thought he might like me as he seemed quite nervous when he was talking to me, he didn't ask me a you, he kept...
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Hii there! I need your help! There is a very shy boy in my college that I like. We are both 21 years old. I thought he might like me as he seemed quite nervous when he was talking to Show More
He is interested in me!
He isn't interested in me!
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What are your thoughts?

Is sleeping with someone when dating someone else but your not official cheating?
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Is sleeping with someone when dating someone else but your not official cheating?
Absolutely Not!
Absolutely yes!
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Girls, age 26 and older: if you turn down a guy's request for a first date, what is the usual explanation?

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and you turn down the request, what is the...
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I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and Show More
I think we wouldn't have enough similar interests to sustain a relationship
He is too young or too old
He isn't tall enough
He isn't handsome
He's actually ugly
He doesn't have a car/doesn't have a cool car
He doesn't have a job/doesn't have enough money
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Girls, age 19-25: if you turn down a guy's request for a first date, what is the usual explanation?

I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and you turn down the request, what is the...
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I think what guys assume when they get rejected is quite different from what women think when rejecting a guy, so let's get it out in the open. If a guy asks you for a first date and Show More
I think we wouldn't have enough similar interests to sustain a relationship
He is too young or too old
He isn't tall enough
He isn't handsome
He's actually ugly
He doesn't have a car/doesn't have a cool car
He doesn't have a job/doesn't have enough money
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Does it make sense I have a lot of resentment towards women?

There’s so many pretty women that I’ve matched and messaged and they just ignore me. Like I’m trash. The only girls that are really nice to me on apps usually are mehh or fat/uglier I am meant to be a good looking...
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There’s so many pretty women that I’ve matched and messaged and they just ignore me. Like I’m trash. The only girls that are really nice to me on apps usually are mehh or Show More
Makes sense your resentment
No it doesn’t
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YUP for sure
No that can't be true
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It does
It doesn't
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Is it unlikely she’s single?

If a pretty girl has 300 likes on her posts, 2k followers and pretty. She’s probably not single?
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If a pretty girl has 300 likes on her posts, 2k followers and pretty. She’s probably not single? Show More
Unlikely she’s single
No i disagree
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Should I send this?

I follow a girl on insta. She appears single. She liked a couple of my posts. She went to my university + same course. I feel like causally DMing her on Instagram about how she found getting work in the city. Then get to...
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I follow a girl on insta. She appears single. She liked a couple of my posts. She went to my university + same course. I feel like causally DMing her on Instagram about how she found Show More
Yes do it
No don’t
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💍Should assets merge in marriage?

Assets should never join. I’m an empowered feminist ☺️. So I believe women can do anything men can do, assets should NEVER join. Marriage is a title, not a financial agreement. After all, women want equal rights 😗 Why...
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Assets should never join. I’m an empowered feminist ☺️. So I believe women can do anything men can do, assets should NEVER join. Marriage is a title, not a financial agreement. After Show More
Assets shouldn’t merge 👏
I disagree 😮
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Is weight really a problem to most guys in finding a girlfriend?

It isn't for me, i dont mind my girlfriend's weight to be more than mine frankly i really prefer my girlfriend to eat anything shed like so she's not starving herself. but I wonder if most guys actually don't prefer the...
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It isn't for me, i dont mind my girlfriend's weight to be more than mine frankly i really prefer my girlfriend to eat anything shed like so she's not starving herself. but I wonder if most guys actually don't prefer the small and petite woman body type or do they?
Her weight/size doesn't matter to me
I prefer her weight to be less than mine
I prefer her weight to be more or equal to mine
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How do I figure out if my crush is single or not?

There's this cute girl in my class and I want to ask her out, but I don't know if she's single... and I don't want to make it uncomfortable for either of us. I provided options below that I consider doing
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There's this cute girl in my class and I want to ask her out, but I don't know if she's single... and I don't want to make it uncomfortable for either of us. I provided options below Show More
Just ask her out. No risk no fun
Text her on social media first
Ask other class mates if they know
Other (comment below)
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How do I message a random girl on insta?

I’m so desperate to find a girlfriend here where the girls are so mesmerisingly stunning. I found a girl that’s studied from my uni. Shall I message her and be like, hi I’m ‘’my name’ did you graduate from x uni? Oh me...
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I’m so desperate to find a girlfriend here where the girls are so mesmerisingly stunning. I found a girl that’s studied from my uni. Shall I message her and be like, hi I’m ‘’my name’ Show More
Sounds good
Don’t
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Yeah, this statement is absolutely true
No, this isn't true (explain)
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Is a kiss a big deal for you in terms of intimacy?

I've always felt like a kiss was a big step in my relationships and what kinda helped seal the deal. I've only ever kissed my girlfriends, but I've heard so many girls say "It's just a kiss. It's not a big deal."
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I've always felt like a kiss was a big step in my relationships and what kinda helped seal the deal. I've only ever kissed my girlfriends, but I've heard so many girls say "It's just a Show More
Kisses are a big deal for me
No, it's just a kiss
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In the beginning, while dating, which is MORE important to you? The person's personality or the person's lifestyle?

An example of a person's personality would be how nice / kind they are vs how mean they are when treating you. An example of a person's lifestyle would be like a person working a normal 40 hour work week, can have a...
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An example of a person's personality would be how nice / kind they are vs how mean they are when treating you. An example of a person's lifestyle would be like a person working a Show More
The Person's Personality
The Person's Lifestyle
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Would you be ok with dating someone who can only spend time together once a month for at least 3 months, (not forever)?

So to me it’s not a big deal because people typically spend a couple of hours together once a week when they date, and in this case rather than say three hours once a week you can spend 3-12 hours for one day a month. The...
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So to me it’s not a big deal because people typically spend a couple of hours together once a week when they date, and in this case rather than say three hours once a week you can Show More
Depends on how interested I was in the person.
Sure no problem.
No way.
Other.
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Yeah, but I really like them so I just accepted it
Yeah, it really bothered me. I talked about it but nothing changed so I left.
No, I’d never date someone like that
Yeah, but we’re both like that so it’s no problem
Yes, but we talked it over and things changed so we stayed together
Other
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