Polls: Dating

since my high school days, all my male friends and relatives have been telling me that women who just want to fuck are never picky. that I should not worry about things like their personality, mental state, and many other things that you should worry about in dating because supposedly all they want to do is FUCK.

however not only does this sound too damn good to be true but I have met a lot of women who are completely the opposite of what I just said above. not only do so many women out there believe that sex is an automatic precursor to a relationship but. there are lots of women who do hookups but often times have ulterior motives. they will fuck all night with you but then want to cling on to you the following day and beyond. along the way, they will even feel entitled to get something out of you such as calling you nonstop whenever they feel needy all because you had sex with them. even worst they will even run to the authorities and file false rape alligations on you when they feel like you never met their demand.

till then I now double-check women twice or more before I ever get into a hookup thanks to what I've mentioned above. but I was wondering, am I still wrong? are my friends right?

I'm interested in this topic. I'm interested in the history of polygamous relationships. I'm interested in the differences between one man with multiple women and one woman with multiple men. It's fascinating to me how this type of relationship has existed all throughout history. Even today these types of relationships can be found all around the world. Sometimes these relationships can be established legally and other times they cannot be established legally. What are your thoughts on the pros and cons and nuances of poly relationships.

This is for the guys. Is it normal for me to just have this hatred for women? I've been led on and rejected so many times previously to where I can't trust women. Part of me has this feeling of hate for women now and I think that eventually it might get to the point where I won't be the nice guy that I typically am. I dont look bad physically. I've been told my personality has been outstanding. I have my own business, and I've always just wanted too settle down. Yes I'm aware of the high divorce rate but I never really worry about it. Now I'm thinking to myself this hatred that is like a small ember building, and getting hotter. Women are no longer women I've always said. They claim to be to busy. Some are just slutty and shameful. Some are racists (white women). It's all about self sophistication. I see it too much and I get tired of hearing how they can't find a good man, or that they're tired of trying. I'm almost 30 and I feel like its over for me when it comes to dating. They say let the person come to you. I find that to be BS. I find myself looking at different photos of women who I could've been with but it never would happen. It's not a mid life crisis, but I feel like it's something that no one would understand. Women say they all aren't the same. I have yet to find any cloud of proof over so many years (10 years). So my question is it normal too hate women. Is it normal to have this feeling of rejection turn into anger.

I mean i am the highest standard. Very rich, tall and handsome, big dick etc... good guy too.

But my dating experience is like an interview. All these high standard women I’ve met don’t have much to offer other than shaved legs.

All women do is size men up, in every aspect possible.
Fuck them, they can go to hell.

Guys sometimes feel intimidated by a pretty girl. Don’t think it’s the same the other way round?

I expect young, immature girls to make this dumb assumption sometimes. But I've seen much older women still think in this naive stupid way.

Truth is dating as an average is MUCH harder than the female counterpart who has everything equal (looks, money, status). The only exception would be for some BBW women. It's tougher for those girls when it comes to dating. It doesn't matter how funny or smart they are, they will have a tougher time than a funny fat guy. Just a FYI I always treat them nice unless they give me a reason not to.

During quarantine I matched via app with a girl who works at the same company I do. While we don't work in the same team, we used to see each other occasionally in the hall. To me it seemed like we both had a thing for each other.
After a bit of a chat, she says she's not comfortable with dating a coworker. I replied that I liked her from the first time I met her, but thought she had a boyfriend from calls she had and such... And yet still respected her decision.
While it really sucks, I guess she has somewhat of a point if things go bad.

What do you guys think? Would you be open to dating someone in that situation?

Hello! I'm 17 and about to turn 18 in 3 days. I've been thinking about joining the military and my parents know and they convinced me to do it. I thought about it and made the decision that if I don't like any of my college classes this upcoming quarter at community, I'm joining the military. I have pretty much no clue on what I want to do in life. When I told her my plan, she told me if I did join the military, she told me that I should buy a lot of condoms because supposedly women like military men. I thought it was full of shit and this might only be applied to gold diggers. Not only that, I thought that military men also have civilian clothes, so how do women even know that a man is in the military? Not only that, now I think women now are into Tik tok e-boys and stuff. By the way, I've been single for so long and never had a girlfriend and I've wanted one so bad for a while now. I've tried to slide in girls DM's and usually doesn't work out because they are already in a relationship. If girls do like military men, then I need some tips for me to pick up women.

What do these photos make you think?

I went alone, I found a picture of me in my tuxedo for it. Although the facial hair style might not have suited me that well, I definitely made the right choice on the tux, it looked amazing, I gotta say😂. I had a really great time even though I came in the same way I entered, and that's alone, but I was more than okay with that and really didn't make any efforts to change it as I felt that I was meant to do it alone. Did you go to prom?