
So, when should a guy kiss a girl? Should he ask permission first or just go for it and hope for the best?

The only woman I asked to kiss was my first love, second girlfriend. I didn’t have a lot of experience with girls and I was still getting used to the idea of attractive girls wanting my company. I really liked her and wanted to kiss her but how much I liked her overrided with time being ok with losing her respect.
I asked her via text. She texted me yes. We kissed. It was passionate. Felt like a movie. Now that I think about it that kiss is probably the best one I’ve had. And I’ve kissed a lot of girls. But that moment specifically is the most “special”. She wasn’t just “some girl”. I think it’s the build up and her giving me the green light that makes it special because of the connection.
That’s not to say that all my other kisses weren’t special or the other girls I’ve been with weren’t special. But for some reason I remember her kiss vividly. I can tell you where we were, the time of day, season, month, etc. With the other girls I just went for it and while I ended up dating them and having relationships, none of them are as special or memorable. I think the difference was me being focused on respecting her and knowing I kissed her with her blessing vs. just going for it not knowing if I’ll get slapped or not.
I’ve never been slapped. You can usually tell if a girl wants you or is at least ok with being kissed by you. And sometimes you misread them and they just dodge you which at that point you need to back off.
So the verdict? Most girls will say “Ugh. Don’t ask. Just do it.” But that translates to “Be confident! I want a brave and strong man.” If you ask, make it the best kiss she’s ever had. Kiss her with confidence and show her, that even though you asked, it’s not because you’re “timid”. Show her a little bit of your inner bad boy. If you just go for it, go slow so she has a chance to dodge or tell you no. The girl I spoke about was the only girl I asked. So I don't know if most girls would be into being asked
These days you better not only get permission, but get it in writing and have a lawyer with you!
Seriously young men are so brainwashed, feminized and emasculated today. They're pussies. Women want a man, not a pussy.
You got that right, jack!
Your question is so one sided I cannot vote my option isn't there! No man is brave enough to touch let alone kiss me so if I don't make the first move I'll die waiting for that kiss. So its always been me making the first move. But I have to be sure so he must make it clear. I ain't looking stupid out here. If he isn't interested it's cool 🤷♀️I will take my kiss to the grave.
Yes, my question is written based upon the assumption that the guy will decide when to initiate the first kiss. That is how it happens for most first kisses but I understand that some girls take the initiative and go for the kiss. Why don't you post a question or poll to ask how often that happens?
Probably for the same reason you didn't include it as an option in your poll. You know there aren't many of us. Majority of the time your right it is in fact the guy who makes the first move. I am naturally aggressive it's just my nature. Men have said to me so many times with me he doesn't know weather he'll get a hug or a punch. So I remove the guess work. Life is to short.
I have never had a girl move in for the first kiss. I think I would have enjoyed that experience!
I've been on two dates where the women initiated the kiss.
One woman, after I walked her home after our first date, turned to me after she unlocked her door, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose on her tip toes, and gave me a kiss so soft and tender that my head swam. We dated a couple more times before she invited me into her rented house. I wound up practically living with her for over a year.
The other date was the first date with my future wife.
sigh. No. She wound up moving out of state. Years later, she connected with me on Facebook. We even talked a few times on the phone. Hearing her voice brought back all the memories and filled me with happiness. A few years after that, I heard that she passed away from a sudden medical problem. That news left a huge hole in my heart that will never heal. I will always be grateful for our time together. I'll always love her and will never forget her.
I'm sure you didn't anticipate that answer.
No, sir, I did not.
@Lliam I am sorry to hear about your first love and I am so happy you found your soulmate she sounds amazing and I hope you tell her so. She definitely get a high 5 from me. Thanks for sharing thats nice to know. Its difficult most women think it comes across desperate so wait for the guy. Its a lot of pressure on him and there is a higher chance things will go wrong it all being so one sided. All to save face. Your story is an inspiring one and proof that we all need to stop worrying what it makes us look like and just get on with it 👍
@ OlderAndWiser That's good to know! A it may still happen. Never say never
@LEETSBEREAL, I never thought of her as my first love because I had quite a few girlfriends in my life. I was deeply infatuated with them all for a time. But in actuality, she was the first women I loved everything about with my whole heart and soul. So I guess she WAS my first love. We got together when I was 37 years old or so.
The reasons why we broke up were complicated. But being without her felt like my guts had been kicked out to the point where I sometimes almost felt nauseous. It took me close to a year to pull myself back together. And that process made me into the person that my wife fell in love with. It's weird how we can learn from tragedy and become the better for it.
Asking is such a turnoff for women🙈 def. NOt
See, that is the conundrum for men. For you , asking is a turn off. I get that. The only time I ever asked was recently, due to the virus paranoia. But for other women, don't ask and it might be the last date with her. What's a guy suppose to do? It's not ALWAYS easier being a guy!
Maybe its a generational thing depending on said age of each different woman? And i can definatly understand the pandemic thing, but i feel like if you're already on a date, technically you would already be spreading germs to each other unless you're 6ft apart, so id think the kiss wouldn't make a difference.
Id say if you didn't ask and it was the last date, it had nothing to do with “kissing without asking”. It would be just general incompatibility, like said person already knew they didn't want a second date but felt obligated.
Trust me, I've been there and have friends of all ages. Thats def. something weve all done
If a girl does that to me, I probably wouldn't bother to ask for a second date!
@SexyAshh I don't think it is a "Generation" thing, but a modern thing! I know guys, where I work, that were written up, for simply saying "You look really Nice today" to a woman, who took it the wrong way and went to HR!!!
So if he is getting in trouble, just commenting on what she is wearing, what SANE GUY, knowing that would try to kiss a woman, WITHOUT ASKING FIRST?
The old days of spontaneous love, sensual and spontaneous passion are DEAD AND GONE!!
Women killed it, I think, not you, specifically, but all of these that claim to have been 'molested' or 'touched' by RICH, or FAMOUS guys, and 30 years later!!
@JackSmy, I don't know. That's like being afraid to hold a woman's hand without asking. A first kiss is usually like they show in movies. The two are talking, they make eye contact and move close. While searching each other's eyes, their bring their faces closer and closer, then kiss tenderly.
It's not like you grab her and give her a kiss. You take visual signals from each other which, as far as I'm concerned, are as good as verbal "permission".
Besides, what does asking accomplish? It can take away the mutual spontaneity of the moment and make things awkward. Plus, if she is a psycho and decides to accuse you later of sexual assault, where is the proof that you asked first. Do you need to get in writing first or take a video?
There's nothing wrong with asking, of course. But I'm not buying the idea that women are likely to claim to have been assaulted.
@Lliam I guess this is when you KNOW you are "OLD" when things that were expected, and common, like a man asking her out, paying for everything, maybe holding hands for a walk, liking one another, and then, maybe, if she really likes you, she lets you kiss her cheek, after you escort her to the door, and make sure she gets in, safely.
Sometimes, I'm not even sure if I should ask, as there are so many accused of 'sexual assault' and I just maybe want to hold her hand, and kiss her good night, but now?
@JackSmy I tend to agree with @Lliam on this issue. I think the media hypes this issue and tries to scare young guys and radicalize young women, but the truth is that girls are still looking for a strong guy to come in to their life and take charge. And they don't want him to ask. They want a guy to back them up against the wall and kiss them like he's trying to suck their tonsils out.
@OlderAndWiser and @Lliam Maybe with a CERTAIN one, maybe. . .
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I think asking would make it more awkward, less in the moment natural occurrence. But that's just me 🤷🏼♀️ or maybe tell her "Give me a kiss" verses "Can I kiss you"
What about him leaning in and saying, "I'm gonna kiss you unless you tell me not to."? Would that offend you or make you more excited about it?
I honestly don't know, I mean it wouldn't offend me if it's someone I'm into anyway, but would I want him to say it or just do it, I don't know me if I'm really into him If probably just kiss him to get him to stop talking about it and just do it already 😂
I generally don't ask. I just lean it and kiss her!
There you go, best way to go in my opinion 👍🙂
Ideal situations for me would be
1) if we reeeeaaaally develop an attraction and things go perfectly and I’m like “wow I really like this guy” for him to lean in to kiss me and obviously if I don’t retreat then go for it
2) him to wait, just in case, because that shows that he’s really into me enough to take it slow if we need to
I'm always down for a kiss so go right for it.💋💋💋💋
Well, aside from the fact that you are 41 years younger than me, you are also married, but if you were single and had "a thing" for younger guys. . . :) :) :)
Awhh @OlderAndWiser I'll give you emoji kiss😘😘
I think asking ruins the moment.
If you have to ask then I have to ask where the heck the chemistry is between the two people?
There should be signs.
Does she lean into you if sitting near you?
Does she brush against you as you are walking? Does she allow you to take her hand
Is she open to letting you touch her hair and most importantly does she let you brush it behind her ear and does she lean in as you do this?
Does she bite her bottom lip as she looks you Straight in the eyes then your lips?
Does she have foods (such as a strawberry icecream sweets a popsicle) linger near her mouth while she know you are looking?
Women drop hints
With me a man would never have to "Guess"
My eye contact willingness and openness to innocent touch and leaning or gently brushing against him would let him know I am ready.
Thank you for the tips!
One of my exes asked me if he could kiss me at the end of our first date. It was kinda sweet, but totally unnecessary. I knew he wanted to kiss me and I wanted to kiss him too. Unless he was a creep or the date a disaster and I clearly wasn’t interested, I was always fine with him going for it.
But how was he supposed to know that?
Most guys are horrible with those types of signs.
@perfectchaos Right! When they are giving us "hints," they may as well be speaking Martian.
Yes, and guys must walk a line somewhere between respectful and "all he wants is sex!"
Both genders walk a fine line of how to talk to each other.
Depends on the person. And depends on the body language, some people's body language is easy to read, others don't show much, and the rule i tend to fallow is if i can't tell if someone wants to kiss me, i won't make an attempt. It may not seem very heroic or brave, but I'd rather be considerate than pushy. A good way to go about asking permission would be to just bring it up while your chilling or laying around and just bring up that you'd like to but you want to make sure their comfortable, make it funny, Crack a joke, do whatever you have to do but make sure you let the person feel comfortable no matter their decision
Guys always asked “can i kiss you?” And its sweet but kinda ruins the moment because then i freak a bit and am like “not yet.” So maybe a sneak attack would be okay but if he gets hit upside the head then that means i didn't want it 😂
What a choice for a guy!
Lol wym
He's either gonna get a kiss or get knocked up side the head!
😂😂😂
You can thank #metoo for screwing this all up. I usually don’t ask BUT I’ve gotten more paranoid in the last few years. Just two years ago I had a woman get pissed off when I went for a kiss on a first date. This is after two hours of talking and we were silently making direct eye contact when I tried.
She cheeked and pulled back and said “whoa! That was aggressive.” Then I had to awkwardly apologize. I felt like complete shit. She was going to Uber back home with me. But 5 mins after that happened she excused herself to go you the bathroom. I knew exactly what she was doing. She was calling her friends complaining about me and think of a bs reason to leave. I just went along with it and was like “sorry about earlier. Later”‘
Ladies you can’t have your #metoo cake and eat it too. Get used to guys being more hesitant, asking for permission, etc. Quit expecting us to read your minds.
Feminists say don’t touch without permission.
If you ask you kill the mood.
Obviously you have to read her mind.
Except then every interaction is theb about her leading (in fact or in your imagination) and suddenly you’re not a man. You’re just a coward... which she’ll figure out eventually and reject you in favor of the guy who is “sexist”
That kind of feminist can go straight to Hell, do NOT pass GO, do NOT collect $200!
No... it is strange. It breaks the moment.
I think what is better is to ease into the kiss. It should not be a surprise. Ease into it slowly but steadily, so then the other people knows what you are doing and can respond: either leaning in to kiss you, not moving to receive your kiss, or backing away to not be kissed.
In either case you are informing the other person of your desires. So the risk for rejection is identical. Might as well go in for the kiss in the chance that it is wanted by the other. But once more: slow and steady. Should not be rushed. Should not be a surprise.
For me personally: if I went on a date right now and a girl just kissed me out of nowhere, unless I really liked her, I would be decently pissed. I think girls would likely feel grossed out (maybe?).
I wish i did, instead of sticking my tongue down his throat, not knowing what i was doing 😂 i was so embarrassed after.
Luckily he didn't know what he was doing either and were still together now and just laugh about it now. He said to me that i should have just asked but i didn't think it was very romantic to ask and 8 knew he was too shy to kiss me as was i. So i just want for it without thinking. Im also only 5ft so i literally had to jump him.
Very cute!
I vote to go for it. I think asking straight up would be awkward. The first time my guy kissed me, we lingered for a long time before saying goodbye. He kept getting closer and closer, and I knew he was going to go for it. It was adorably perfect. If I wasn't feeling it, I would've left a lot sooner lol.
I understand guy's hesitation though, and my guy admitted he's bad at reading signs. For the guys who are hesitant to just go in for a kiss, I think saying "I'd really like to kiss you right now" is a much better approach than asking.
A part of me feels like it would be nice to ask the girl. To seem like a gentleman, that you respect her. Which I feel being a gentleman is not so prevalent anymore. So to show that you are a rare breed goes in your favor. But if you don't want that type of image for yourself and your just looking for fuck around. Then just go for it without asking. I feel like you can just tell if the girl is down for a spontaneously kiss or not. If she reserved and quiet, you get that vibe that she's a good girl. Then it would be right to ask and show some respect. But if you get slut vibes, the train has left the station many times vibes. Shed honestly be down for anything.
I've never had to ask before... kissing usually mutually occurs naturally at least it has for me
But in current circumstances for some of you perhaps you should ask first especially if you think that you might be interested in public life you don't want to be accused 20 or 30 years later by one of your dates as having forced yourself on someone
Yeah, and you shouldn't write anything in somebody's yearbook!
If you both want to kiss, permission would never be necessary since you are both leaning in towards one another. Heck, my ex got up on her tippy toes with her arms around me our first time. She certainly did not ask nor did she need to. It was as natural as natural gets.
I agree, but some of these kids are trying to make it so damned complicated, like they want to get written consent in triplicate copies!
Yeah, not something that has ever been part of my world.
This is all situational and different for everyone. I think that if you are both spontaneous people, and a moment comes where it feels right and they seem interested, then maybe not. A lot of first kisses happen all of a sudden and in predicted. If you guys are still getting to know each other and you don’t know if they like you back, then maybe hold back. The whole asking to kiss them can be good at the end of a date where you guys are not in an intimate situation. Like if you’re saying goodbye. Then I think asking tO kiss the other is appropriate. But if it’s just in the moment and you see the other lean in or give an indicator, I think it’s ok not to. But asking never hurts.
Yes, according to some women, asking eliminates all spontaneity and spoils the moment.
Usually you can tell if there are signs, I’ve never asked but it could be cute asking, I had one that I could see she wasn’t receptive so I didn’t try or ask especially when she turned her head fast and went straight for a hug instead, that felt awkward and that was on a third date, turned out she just wanted a friendship instead
I'm sure it was disappointing to get through three dates or more before she explained that she was only looking for friendship.
No, asking makes you look indecisive and unable to read signals rather than respectful. I wouldn't kiss on the first or second date anyway unless her body language makes it clear she wants it. The reason for that is I'm trying to get to know her and to make it clear that I'm respectful and not just trying to get in her pants.
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why worry over something that both of you have already thought about as soon as the date was accepted... what would happen if as soon as I got there I took you gently into my arms and slowly kissed you and said "now that THAT'S out of the way we can a good time" or something similar would the date end or would it begin
Asking to kiss? Boy of boy, that's one effective way to turn off a girl and be labeled as weak. What you do is know what her body language says. If she is receptive, you go for it. If not, you don't go for it.
Yeah, this is one of those areas where PC thinking collides with the reality of human behavior.
In my opinion, a guy should just go for it. I mean, asking for permission is cool and all, but when their is a romantic mood and it was a good date, you can't spoil the mood with asking her permission. If you end up asking for permission, then even the girl would start thinking if he should kiss or not. And then the whole atmosphere for the kissing is gone. I say, look her straight in the eye, approach her closely and go for it.
Every time! At the moment, I ask her, and say, "I would really like to kiss you," leaving it hang.
Some smile, and seem to agree. A few have kissed me, and kind of jumped on me, and I am holding her, as we are kissing!! :) :)
I would never presume, especially today, that I could kiss her, without asking first!!
Okay, I accidentally pressed for vote A while reading.
Anyway, if he asked for the kiss I would not feel like kissing him at all.
It's about reading the moment and then slowly lean into the kiss. If she doesn't want to or feel it's too early, she will turn her head away or in another way reject the kiss (not necessarily the guy).
It's really all about reading the atmosphere.
I think you answered your own question It's all down to that moment If your both ready then it will happen naturally If it's obvious that she is hesitant then go for the cheek If nothing seems to be indicating or leading to a kiss then that is the time to ask
Go for it live in the moment I say if you're getting to the idea of kissing someone then I would think your at the point in your relation that concent is implied and if she is a fem bot that freaks the fuck out if I try, I don't wanna be around her anyways.
I think going for it is fine, since you're talking about a scenario where you're already together/dating. A kiss is just a kiss, if she doesn't want to do it she'll likely let you know. Or at the very least turn her head so that it lands on her cheek. Asking is fine only if you're not 100% sure about how she feels. Many girls will assume that asking something like that will make the guy look insecure and "unmanly" or whatever, but it's all about how you ask. Giving a little smirk and asking "how would you feel about me kissing you right now?" actually comes off as confident to me.
The fact that it's almost 50/50 is annoying.
Women will give off the body language if she wants to be kissed but it's hard to read or isn't clearly shown to all men.
If you are unsure if she is interested don't ask "can I kiss you" say "I want to kiss you" and get ready to kiss her after that it should be very clear if it's a yes or a no.
I've never asked a woman's permission to kiss her. There are cues. If you are sitting or standing close to her and your eyes meet, you can tell if she's receptive.
That's my experience, too.
If there is any connection whatsoever, I think the guy and gal will know when the time is right. If he takes it somewhat cautiously when she seems ready, I don't see the real necessity in asking permission, unless she's the Sergeant and he's the Corporal. (just kidding).
I personally don't think it's a big deal. If it happens naturally, great. If it doesn't and either of us want to ask, that's cool too.
If I’m going to kiss a lovely lady I’m going to live in the moment & just go for it & if I’m going to ask her anything I’ll ask her if she has the coronavirus before we lock lips & sparks fly.
New dating rules:
*Please bring STD free and Coronavirus free test results along on date 😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty We’ll call it DATING 101.2 & I like the new rules & I’ll order some test kits. With everything going on do people kiss anymore or do people just mask? If I go on a date should I ask a girl if she wants to mask? Now that I think of STD’s & Corona I may want to start asking. Safety First!
Mama called the doctor and the doctor said
"Take two antibiotics and call me in the morning"😂😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty No No No No No...
Momma called the doctor & the doctor said.
“Take two antibiotics or you’ll be dead.”
This could be your next G@G Question
(Momma Called The Doctor & The Doctor Said?)
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@Brainsbeforebeauty Ok I’ll go for it!
The question is up & I see you have your answer already.
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Just kidding 🤪🤗🤗
You shouldn't have to ask if you can read a person well and if you've been paying attention to her and her body language all night and the type of conversations you've had all Night. So in other words put your dam phone in your pocket or leave it in your car and pay attention to your date and if she stays on her phone and texts all night then I wouldn't worry about kissing her at the end of the night I would just take it as she was intrested in you
I intended to kiss my, now, girlfriend on her forehead before I knew she liked me. I obviously didn't ask. She wanted it in the lips, so she moved to make that happen. I figure a forehead kiss is okay even if you don't want to date the one who kissed your forehead.
Yes. It's better to ask me first. And before that, please make sure you are actually single and don't lie that you like me only to hookup with me.
Just gotta do what feeks right
There is no right or wrong answer in general
But people can be funny sometimes
Yeah, and I'm sure you don't mean hahaha, ROFLMAO funny.
I was raised to have manners. I believe that you should always ask permission before doing something. It's a sign of respect for the other person. It shows that you recognize their sovereignty.
I respect your attitude about acknowledging a woman's right to control what happens to her body (including her lips.) At least before corona times, many women - perhaps most - wanted a guy to take the initiative and NOT ask first; they said that spoiled the moment and robbed the spontaneity. Being a guy isn't always easy!
@OlderAndWiser I don't care about spontaneity. I care more about doing the right thing.
I understand doing the right thing. If a woman wants you to kiss her without asking, "the right thing" becomes ambiguous.
No; the right thing is still the right thing. This is why men are leaders. Without moral leadership, the entire society collapses.
But if she wanted me to kiss her without asking, and she told me that, then I would do so!
My boyfriend didn't ask first, he just took initiative and went for it, super hot when a man does that i love it, another date we took the elevator down and he pushed me up against the wall and kissed me.. mmm i loved that
On one hand it can spoil the moment. On the other hand it could lead to a very uncomfortable moment. Perhaps the median would be to ask maybe a few mins in advance. But in a casual and fun way.
I’ve always just read the signs and gone for it. It’s not like it’s super out-of-the-blue in most of those situations, we both know what we’re doing there. The kind of woman who’d want permission asked first probably wouldn’t accept a date with me in the first place, lmao, I’m assuming that’s like Mennonites or Amish chicks or something😂
Obligatory Wedding Crashers clip...
lols asking for sex, and kissing, lols, XD
oh yes yes, and see how that turns out, mood killer and boner killer right thier, sadly, fagots, and gold whores are fake calming and ruining mens lives, with there stupiedity, and now, we have to be asking,
fuck that,
a man takes with out permision, if he has to ask, then he is a boy or a woman
I’m a just do it kind of gal. If all the signals are there and i don’t back up or turn my head when his face nears mine, then don’t ruin the moment by asking.
I’d prefer if he asks first. I wouldn’t want him to misread the situation and think I’m ready to kiss him when I’m not.
I'll wait until she kisses me
far safer in the MeToo era
Why? Even if she knows you two are in "dating" territory.
It would all be in the contract
Let me know how that works out.
If it works as well as my going to bars with a wedding ring to get people to fuck off then it'll be grand
If I was asked for permission, I'd immediately sober up from the magical-butterflies-in-the-belly condition.
It’s situational and depends on the people involved. I know a lot of girls that are uncomfortable with being kissed without asked. I also know I wouldn’t care if I’m asked or if it’s taken. Depends
I'm think we're not just starting out... I'm not sure I think you need to ask permission these days... Which seems to me like it would take a lot of the magic out of it but I don't know...
Should a guy ask before kissing or just do it? I'm really curious as to what the best answer is.
Based on the poll results so far, it appears that almost half of all girls want you to ask first and many will be ticked off if you don't. The other half don't want you to ask first and many of them will be ticked off if you do ask.
I know that's not a great reality to deal with but that appears to be the answer.
I asked once, and only once. Her response. "Now its all awkward and the specialness is ruined. You should have just went for it."
It's just easier for her to turn her head away if she's not feeling it.
I don’t think so the girl anticipates it and the guy leans in nice and slowly and kisses her it makes it exciting and kind of adventurous. Let nature take it’s course. Beside you can tell if a girl wants to kiss you
No don’t ask for permission that completely ruins the moment.
just read the signs how and where she looks at you. What her lips are doing, body language, is it open? Is she leaning in? Etc.
Or just fuck it and go for it what’s the worst that could happen? She stops you?
Somewhere between D & E. I kiss a woman when get a clear sign. If I think she wants a kiss but he body language isn't clear I'll ask her.
"Would you like to share a kiss?"
Isn’t that considered sexual harassment or assault now?
Considered to be sexual harassment or assault by who?
1. Universities do not create the law but they can create rules that you are supposed to follow while a student at the school.
2. There are some reports of students being expelled for kissing another student.
3. This is the lunacy that the left has created for us.
In today’s culture it’s probably in my best interest to ask
Today's culture is AFU!
Just make sure you read the signs right!!! Or they can pull a me too on you and might end behind bars
Have you ever known someone who was prosecuted and sent to jail for trying to kiss a woman on a date?
And he went to jail? Yes or no?
Do you know anyone who has ever gone to jail for kissing a girl? I don't. And I've never read about someone going to jail for trying to kiss a girl with whom they were on a date.
With me and my first ex-girlfriend, everything just fell into place and we share a wonderful kiss together
I'm not too big on kissing so I usually let her do it first/make the move, which wasn't an option lol
I am curious to see what the answers will be! Hummm... I've never thought about this.
Its more exciting to just do it without permission. If you judge the situation right you shouldn't get slapped or arrested.
I think slowly lean into and give her time to approach you. This action will tell you whether they like you or not.
Absolutely not. You look into their eyes and you know.
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