Should you ask permission before kissing someone for the first time, or just go for the kiss?

[MoonFace2]

I’ve always been one to let the men initiate the kiss first, but I’m finding since the Me Too women’s rights stuff, men are a lot more cautious to flirt with women and initiate a kiss and they need more reassurance that you want them. Many of them (the interested ones) seem more paranoid that all women are evil and out to get them than they once were, before all that began and became a thing.

How should I navigate that on dates? Should I ask for a kiss myself? Do men prefer to give their consent first, or should I initiate? I’m not too shy to initiate, it’s just clear that just because I’m feeling sparks, it doesn’t mean every guy I meet that I feel them for feels them for me. Which is fair enough.

[es20490446e]

When I kissed with a woman, it was so obvious she wanted to be kissed.

Sometimes she asked straight away, other times she put her face extremely close to mine.

The only thing I did previous to that was making cheeky flirtatious jokes, have fun, and let her make up her mind.

I think this is the best way because the woman feels free to act as she wishes, when she wishes. It just feels more natural.

I think that, for both men an women, the most effective way to seduce someone is just to keep the interaction going. And sometimes add easygoing spice to it.

And if there is feeling, great, if not that's okay too. Not everyone is meant to be together.

But most of the time it works, flawlessly.

[MoonFace2]

Is it a good idea to seduce someone or try to, if you want something serious, or do guys get uncomfortable or think you’re a skanky hoe?

[MoonFace2]

Is it wiser to just confess your feelings and ask them out on a date?

[es20490446e]

Confessing my feelings have never worked out for me, cause the other person feels too pressured to decide too quickly.

Instead what has worked out is just getting together, and giving it time.

[Tarifa]

I think a lot of women expect the man to make the first move, but it doesn't have to be so. We're not very good at reading the signs a woman sends out. So we're normally left wondering what a woman really wants. We're as unsure - if not more - at the beginning stages as women are, when all that's happening is a casual date and some flirting.

I find that physical closeness will normally do the trick. If you're on a second or third date and you feel the chemistry, just move in closer while talking to him. Don't be afraid of eye contact or touch. Once that physical distance is overcome, things will normally go the way you want.

[Tarifa]

Thanks for the MHO

[bowenw]

Just do it in my opinion. Usually by the time you are feeling like kissing someone they are feeling the same way. If you aren't sure they want to be kissed, try leaning in halfway and see how they react.

[slatyb]

When I was dating I kissed women when they made it clear that wanted to be kissed by getting physically close.

If you want to be kissed there's nothing wrong with saying "Kiss me "

[EmmaMary]

Whilst it sounds and probably is respectful to ask, sometimes just the eye contact and movement is all that's needed.

[Anonymous]

Always ask. How dare u touch someone without their permission

[MoonFace2]

Uhhh, I haven’t, lol.

[Aurav22]

After few minutes talk I pull her closer from waist n kiss her n give her compliments. So I don't ask permission.

[jahaims]

95% of guy wouldn't care if you initiated the first kiss. Obviously read the room first.

[jahaims]

of guys*

[ehatsham_hussain]

Asking is respectful and moral..

[Strongballs38]

Just go for the kisses