I'm confused- how are women being "hurt" by feminism? Seems like the people that are living in their parents' basement are the ones getting hurt. And by feminism? Why not laziness?
@sr1307 When we hit 30, men will have no desire to have children instinctively. Women will have it. If all guys even , the qualified ones I know lots of handsome, smart guys in this case, live in their basement or apartment, you will have no baby and it will hurt you. Mother nature put that desire for women, but men will not be willing to have a family and children. That is the fruit of feminism. I hope you enjoy it.
@Bugsbunnysghost What the heck are you talking about? Why does the fact that I want equal rights for my gender mean that guys are suddenly sitting around in their parents' basement? It sounds like you're blaming these people's laziness on our desire for equal representation, pay, and rights. Second of all, who are you to say whether I want a baby or not? Personally I don't find the idea of children appealing. Also, I know lots of guys that want kids. Even if it turns out I do want kids and there is no guy willing to raise a family with me, I can adopt and raise the child on my own. It seems like you're trying to drag feminism into a topic where it really doesn't belong.
@sr1307 nope, it is feminism, not equalism. If I become a androginist. It means I favour men's right. You are barely teen. I guess people in your age must be very indecisive.
@Bugsbunnysghost You seem to have a talent for dragging irrelevant things into the conversation. Just because I am younger than you does not automatically make my opinion invalid. You have no right to blame women for the fact that some guys are too lazy to go get a job. Please explain to me the connection between men not going to college and the movement to make women equal to men.
@sr1307 nope I'm a waiter in the summers. I study mechanical engineering and I have scholarship not my family's money. You made a silly generalization. Not all men against feminism, are rednecks.
@Bugsbunnysghost I was not at all referring to all men. When I said 'men' I meant whatever percentage of men actually don't try to educate themselves or get a job. My intention was not to generalize. What I object to here is your illogical correlation between this behavior and feminism, which I am still waiting for you to explain.
@sr1307 I don't like loud feminist women. They think all men are raper, horny guys and women are angels. Also, some feminists want all females to be lesbian. My mother is an old school feminist too. We have always have sweet quarrels with her. If there would be an equality, it's name must be neutral. Not feminism nor masculism. Otherwise, guys believing gender equality, will feel submissive and won't support your feminism like how I don't.
@sr1307 well tbh, without females' need for us, which is due to feminism, men will go single mostly. And women will be upset too, believe me even the most robotic, career minded women want a family and baby. They will start to say "oh, where are those descent guy?" But, we will think that, you have feminism, why do you need for us? I think the person matters not gender, but I will never call myself a feminist. It polarises genders.
@Bugsbunnysghost I think you're misunderstanding feminism. Just because I believe that women should be equal to men doesn't mean I don't want a man in my life someday when I'm ready. But it also means that I can be independent, I don't need a man, and I can also be happy without a man, just like men can be happy without a woman. All I want is equality. However, you can't get in a woman's mind and say that every woman wants a family. It doesn't work like that. We all want different things in life- you can't shove us into the same category.
@AssJacket has a good point. @Opinion Owner, are you going to give me a valid argument for your opinion or keep calling me names? It seems like even you don't understand what you're trying to say.
So she's a "little pussy" because you can't argue your way against her? It's very clear why you're not a feminist, now. It's because you're not actually for equal rights. "All women want children" is an invalid argument, just like @sr1307 said, and it proves your stance on women.
That, and the fact that you have to make fun of a well-articulated person because of their age and gender should speak for itself. You're the one who's being sexist.
@JerichoStorm Thank you. I hope you can see my position now, it's hard to have a valid debate when people don't understand their own opinion and then just start hurling insults around. His response to you showcases this.
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I think it's rude for you to judge people you don't even know.
Why oh why did you go anon when you have nothing but words of wisdom?
what i want is completely different from what anyone else wants here
trust me
what i want requires a take over
.. of an ice-cream factory? Cool, I'll go with you.
You will begin to see more and more women writing this because they realize who badly feminism is hurting them. Well its too late.
I'm confused- how are women being "hurt" by feminism? Seems like the people that are living in their parents' basement are the ones getting hurt. And by feminism? Why not laziness?
@sr1307 When we hit 30, men will have no desire to have children instinctively. Women will have it. If all guys even , the qualified ones I know lots of handsome, smart guys in this case, live in their basement or apartment, you will have no baby and it will hurt you. Mother nature put that desire for women, but men will not be willing to have a family and children. That is the fruit of feminism. I hope you enjoy it.
@Bugsbunnysghost What the heck are you talking about? Why does the fact that I want equal rights for my gender mean that guys are suddenly sitting around in their parents' basement? It sounds like you're blaming these people's laziness on our desire for equal representation, pay, and rights. Second of all, who are you to say whether I want a baby or not? Personally I don't find the idea of children appealing. Also, I know lots of guys that want kids. Even if it turns out I do want kids and there is no guy willing to raise a family with me, I can adopt and raise the child on my own. It seems like you're trying to drag feminism into a topic where it really doesn't belong.
@sr1307 nope, it is feminism, not equalism. If I become a androginist. It means I favour men's right. You are barely teen. I guess people in your age must be very indecisive.
@Bugsbunnysghost You seem to have a talent for dragging irrelevant things into the conversation. Just because I am younger than you does not automatically make my opinion invalid. You have no right to blame women for the fact that some guys are too lazy to go get a job. Please explain to me the connection between men not going to college and the movement to make women equal to men.
@sr1307 nope I'm a waiter in the summers. I study mechanical engineering and I have scholarship not my family's money. You made a silly generalization. Not all men against feminism, are rednecks.
@Bugsbunnysghost I was not at all referring to all men. When I said 'men' I meant whatever percentage of men actually don't try to educate themselves or get a job. My intention was not to generalize. What I object to here is your illogical correlation between this behavior and feminism, which I am still waiting for you to explain.
@sr1307 I don't like loud feminist women. They think all men are raper, horny guys and women are angels. Also, some feminists want all females to be lesbian. My mother is an old school feminist too. We have always have sweet quarrels with her. If there would be an equality, it's name must be neutral. Not feminism nor masculism. Otherwise, guys believing gender equality, will feel submissive and won't support your feminism like how I don't.
@Bugsbunnysghost While I'd love to discuss some of the inaccurate things you have said, I'm still waiting for that explanation.
@sr1307 well tbh, without females' need for us, which is due to feminism, men will go single mostly. And women will be upset too, believe me even the most robotic, career minded women want a family and baby. They will start to say "oh, where are those descent guy?"
But, we will think that, you have feminism, why do you need for us? I think the person matters not gender, but I will never call myself a feminist. It polarises genders.
@Bugsbunnysghost I think you're misunderstanding feminism. Just because I believe that women should be equal to men doesn't mean I don't want a man in my life someday when I'm ready. But it also means that I can be independent, I don't need a man, and I can also be happy without a man, just like men can be happy without a woman. All I want is equality. However, you can't get in a woman's mind and say that every woman wants a family. It doesn't work like that. We all want different things in life- you can't shove us into the same category.
@sr1307 She's right - you don't seem to understand feminism very well. It's commonly misunderstood, mainly because it benefits people to do so.
@sr1307 Sorry cupcake, not going to waste my time on little pussies
I don't think name-calling is a very sophisticated way to express your disagreement with my opinion.
@sr1307 Sure thing cupcake, is you little pussy happy
Thus the argument boils down to a dude that can't justify his beliefs so he just starts calling people names. Slow clap.
@AssJacket Who the fuck is talking to you
@AssJacket has a good point. @Opinion Owner, are you going to give me a valid argument for your opinion or keep calling me names? It seems like even you don't understand what you're trying to say.
lol the feminists, dude. It's all their fault. Anyhoo, you're still failing at the whole "making a logical point thing". Try again, little man.
@sr1307 I still the little pussy is still at it today, keep going... this is quite entertaining
So she's a "little pussy" because you can't argue your way against her? It's very clear why you're not a feminist, now. It's because you're not actually for equal rights. "All women want children" is an invalid argument, just like @sr1307 said, and it proves your stance on women.
That, and the fact that you have to make fun of a well-articulated person because of their age and gender should speak for itself. You're the one who's being sexist.
@JerichoStorm fuck you
@JerichoStorm Thank you. I hope you can see my position now, it's hard to have a valid debate when people don't understand their own opinion and then just start hurling insults around. His response to you showcases this.
@sr1307 Ooh, the little pussy is still at it, cool
Heh, you said "little pussy". Did your husband teach you that?
#AssJacket No, your mother told me, just before i made her pregnant
Thank you for writing this! This is one of my pet peeves.
Porn is the biggest problem in our lives, it creates false imagery fallacies which we obtained and gives us a loss sense of reality.
Such a hypocrite you yourself are.
Great take!
Red pill...