Is being a maid something to be ashamed of?

[cinderella1993]

Is being a maid something to be ashamed of I really enjoy cleaning but I feel really embarrassed when I tell other people that I work as a maid 😔☹️

[MrOracle]

No honest work is ever something to be ashamed of. Living off of other people by choice when you have the ability to support yourself is what is shameful.

There are tens of millions of people in the service industry, whether they bring you your food, fix your car, build your house, mow your grass, or make your bed. Virtually every famous actor you know - and many that you will eventually know but haven't yet gotten their big break - have been or are currently in the service industry.

I wouldn't suggest it as a lifelong career - you could probably do more with your life - but there is absolutely no reason not to do something you are good at and enjoy doing, especially if you can make a living at it.

And anyone who says otherwise can kiss my ass right in the crack.

[cinderella1993]

Your response is hilarious you made my day 😂😂

[lord_chilled]

No, we have had maids in our parents home, when my grandma was alive and we needed help.

We were always respectful, and they were nice.

I think the only reason some people think of it as "low" is because there are a few instances where some maids have stolen items/money and even rarer instances where it was found out some were engaging in sex with the man of the house, for a little extra (this is particularly bad in the eyes of other women, since they see themselves as the gf/wife being cheated on).

I think those things are very rare tough, so its very biased to male assumptions. Most maids i have seen are respectable. It all depends on how you own it 😊

[cinderella1993]

I would never do anything like that I’m very shy and reserved

[lord_chilled]

I would assume you wouldn't, most people dont do such things.
You dont habe anything to be ashamed of. Be proud of your work. If anyone asks, tell them you are a maid, with a smail. If you sense any smugness or superiority from anyone , dont talk to them. Dont waste time with people who lool down on you.
I haven't had a job , but i have been in that situation where i wad looked around because of some things i have done, or who i ised to be and most pften for the company/friends i ised to have.
I always defended my friends, and asked what the problem was. They usually dont have much to say when you call them out on it. And of they act smug, f*ck them. Dont talk to them, even of they try talking to you.

[lord_chilled]

Wow, i have no idea how i made that many typos/errors 😥😂😂
*smile, not smail 😂😂
**looked down, not around 😁

[cinderella1993]

It’s okay I understood everything you said 😂 and thanks I’ll try not to feel embarrassed about it but sometimes I can’t help it

[lord_chilled]

Lol, okay.
Well, be proud of yourself. Everyone else's opinion doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

my sisiter in law work as a house keeping for the St. Regis... nothing wrong with it.

i know one couple who is older... she ditched the guy, becasue she couldn't suport herself and the guy, doesn't have a retirment to support her, so she broke up wiht him...

has notihing to do with being a maid... she happened to be one and i would say.. bad character.. him better off w/o her

[LifeEqualsLove]

I can see why it can sound embarrassing to some. Its more of a looked down position.

However, if thats what you love then thats great - become like a manager or supervisor of your department!

[Annoracken]

Why should you be ashamed for having a job that you enjoy. And you are making a living of it to. That is just great. Don't be ashamed or emberresed. If you are so will they. Embrace it instead.

[Paris13]

Nowadays, Having a job should be a Big Thing, and Not... What one, hun, Is called.
Public Servant, the Next time someone asks "What do you do?"xx

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Good Luck. xx

[cinderella1993]

Thanks

[Paris13]

Welcome, and put on both glass slippers. xx

[Paris13]

Thank you for the Like. xx

[cinderella1993]

You’re welcome 😂 and I will don’t worry

[Paris13]

Good for you. xx

[damog1971]

Don't be ashamed of any job

[Parisgirl30]

no absolutely not! Be proud and hold you head up high

[cinderella1993]

Thanks ❤️

[Paris13]

Hey, meet Paris13, the master. xxoo

[EmpatheticLady]

Nah, if it helps pay the bills, clean away.

[GoodManDave]

Not to me. I would probably ask about 30 questions... but I would think you know, work is work. I respect hardworking people, especially if they’re doing something they like. And if you enjoy it, and earn enough for a simple lifestyle, that’s awesome.

I’m a bit messy, myself. I like cleaning some rooms of the house, but if I ever make good money, I think I’d hire an organizer, and then a cleaner/maid so that I could be more organized Without all the work; if I cleaned as much as I should, in addition to having my current work and social life, I’d never sleep.

[NearlyNapping]

You are working, and doing what you can to make a living. That's called being responsible. Not something to be ashamed of.

My ex used to be a maid. She worked for a few different maid services. She was about the same age as you at the time, maybe a little older. She ended up doing pretty well in life.

[Shadow44]

I wouldn't care what the woman I was dating was doing. She's working and making a living for herself. You shouldn't feel embarrassed or ashamed of that. Any guy who judges you for it isn't worth your time.

[cinderella1993]

Okay thanks.

[Shadow44]

No problem

[Anonymous]

why should you be embarrassed? it's not like you're working as a stripper or porn star or hooker. work is work, sometimes you just don't get to pick and choose when there are limited positions and options available in your area and because you need to be able to support yourself and/or your family.

[GoodManDave]

Or even more embarrassing than that, the Stripper pornstar hookers.

[kentlevi]

Don't tell people you're a maid. Just say you really enjoy cleaning as part of a healthy lifestyle, so people pay you for it.

[cinderella1993]

Okay so you think it’s shameful

[kentlevi]

Not shameful, just lack of respect for yourself.

[kentlevi]

I mean, if you're asking this question to begin with, it means there's something in your that yearns for more. You can love cleaning, however you would turn that into something, like inventing a cleaning product, or starting a franchise cleaning company, etc

[cinderella1993]

Okay I understand what you mean

[OlderAndWiser]

In August and September, I dated a girl who was a house cleaner, It didn't bother me to have her attend social events with professional colleagues. It's honest work, she is a nice lady, and attractive, too! We broke up, but not because of her work!

[noBodySpecial209]

You should never feel ashamed of who you are. I know its easier said then done, but there's nothing weong with being a maid. Its a job that most couldnt do. And do you have the french maid costume option if i hire you for services?

[noBodySpecial209]

Wrong*

[cinderella1993]

Okay thanks and no I don’t have that option 😂

[maestrodematimaticas]

Not if you own your own business. Even if you don't, the only thing to be ashamed of is getting a check from the government because you can't feed yourself or your kids.

[cinderella1993]

No I sadly don’t own my own business

[maestrodematimaticas]

My friend started doing it a few years ago and makes 6 figures a year. Doesn't take much capital investment to start out. Advertising is free.

[cinderella1993]

Your friend is very lucky 🍀

[Caaarl]

To be honest it's not something I'd mention. I'd rather say I was unemployed than a maid. I think it's better to be working then not doing anything at all but at the same time I'd just keep it to myself to avoid judgy people.

[Chaz269]

Anything that brings you satisfaction or joy should be completely free of shame, as long as you're not hurting someone. If someone else has a problem with what you do, or how or why, they're not worth your time. To thine own self be true, always.

[markscott]

Honest work is never something to be ashamed of. If you enjoy your work, you are better off than the large majority of Americans.

[qwert1234]

Why would it be?
No. It's a job. Much better - it's a legal job.

It pays the bills, brings food to the table.
Don't let other entitled people tell you otherwise.

[Sunburst223]

Not at all. It's a job that needs doing, and if you're happy doing it there's nothing wrong with that.

[taleswapper]

Nope. Any job worth doing is worth doing well. I've met gravediggers who were proud of their ability to do a good job. The real question is, why are you ashamed of it?

[clayway]

Work is work and money is money nothing to be ashamed of

[sagark123]

It's okay. Don't be ashamed. No job is big or small. It's just how people see it.
Just enjoy your work and your life. Don't listen to people.

[SlavicAmericanGuy]

Of course not! Your job is a honoured job as much as any other. Only gross people look down upon honest jobs.

Cheer up!

[Chanel1981]

I don't think you should be ashamed of your profession, you're simply providing a service :)

[Tittyboyswag]

If you were born in a country that had free education and you weren't having any struggles, and you had oppurtunity to go college or uni that would be very embarrassing

[abond008]

Noooo, it is Linda cute. Be high and proud. Just Try to read and be cultured too. But no nothing to be ashamed off.

[Cannuk22]

Not at all. I dislike people that put an opinion on someone because of their job. Everyone should be proud of what they do. There are a lot of people that just live off of the system. Those people should be embarrassed not you

[WickedIsGood]

No. Its a job that puts food on the table, and a roof over ur head.

[MiamiMadness]

Not at all, that's an honest living. Never be ashamed of that.

[jack1130252]

You shouldn't be ashamed of what you do. All that matters is what makes YOU happy. Continue to do what you enjoy doing, don't let others dictate your emotions.

[Anonymous]

enjoying cleaning is the weirder thing, i dont enjoy cleaning, i dk why you do

[cinderella1993]

it makes me feel calm and it’s relaxing

[utterlyconfusedlol]

the only job i won't do that i would be ashamed of is picking cotton. anything else is respectable in my opinion

[Caaarl]

What about a sex worker, a garbage man, a janitor, a strip club owner, I don't know there are a lot of jobs I wouldn't want people to know I had.

[utterlyconfusedlol]

@Caaarl yeah you make a good point i wouldn't be a sex worker either but the others... strip club owner too i wouldn't want that but the rest id do

[taleswapper]

@Caaarl There's a difference between having a job that's illegal and being ashamed of it. I was a sex worker for a while, but I certainly didn't tell my parents! ;) It's not shame; just a desire to stay out of jail and avoid the arguments.

[Caaarl]

I never said they were illegal. They're just shameful jobs. I wouldn't tell my friends or family about them.

[taleswapper]

@Caaarl Exactly. ;)

[Coconut_Man]

Not at all. I always have respect for people making an honest living doing something they love.

[byusuri]

Never be ashamed of what you do especially if you enjoy it.

[coolbreeze2]

nope I work with domestic cleaners all day every day, its a job

[fetishtony]

None of the jobs is embarrassing. Always be proud of yourself

[undos]

It is depending who you tell

[cinderella1993]

What do you mean?

[undos]

Girl you know what I mean telling people who work respectable jobs and even strangers.

[cinderella1993]

Okay so you think I should lie or people will look down on me

[undos]

Do what you want to do nena. I did but I was younger.

[victorm]

Not at all. A job is a job

[t70mme]

No way. Do you have the outfit 😜

[cinderella1993]

Yeah but it’s not like a sexy frenchmaid outfit 😂

[t70mme]

Bet you look sexy it. At the end of the day it's a job

[cinderella1993]

Thanks 😂

[t70mme]

You on kik

[cinderella1993]

No I don’t

[t70mme]

Shame anything else

[hasrett]

Working is never something to be ashamed of. :)

[es20490446e]

Tell them that you like to get dirty.

[Roskin523]

No, nothing shameful about honest work.

[LegateLanius]

Nothing to be ashamed about.

[HamAndCheese]

Nope. It's perfectly honest work.

[kaskas19]

Of course not!

[xZoeyx]

nope

[pizzabandit]

Absolutely not.

[Tohru]

no...

[thegr8lion]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No it is not.