How to deal with a cold and unapproachable boss?

[Anonymous]

So I work at this job of 5 years. I've been there a really long time. I've also recently picked up a second job Christmas casual elsewhere to boost work hours. I also struggle with mental illness diagnoses and I receive treatment twice a week for it with a psychologist. I had a breakdown at my job of 5 years a few weeks ago and my boss just made me feel awful and I was a sobbing mess. Hin and his son now no longer talk to me as they did and for weeks they just cold shoulder me and my boss even made the comment I should consider living in a medical facility of clinic. I'm fit to work but I do struggle with mental illness quite heavily. My other job is just temp sadly but I am seeking new work ongoing and cannot afford to leave my workplace of 5 years where all the toxicity is. How can I handle this? My boss made me feel awful and tore shreds off of me and now I'm not worthy of acknowledgement and I am so scared, too scared to be around him. It's like he wants that. His son is 24, very religious and his dad gave him a higher up role here and they both just make me feel terrible and thus it affects my mental stability.

[NewgodX]

Well no disrespect to your mental disease and I hope you get better soon,
Nut normal people can handle cold bosses easily they should just let their work do the talking If the boss can't complain about your work he has nothing to say at all,

Since you have a condition which I don't know the exact details of so it's hard to give a good plan of action, but I think you need to take into account work conditions for your work since you need to fit psychologically in your workplace more than you need physically

[Asker]

Borderline Personality Disorder and I am in treatment for it with a psychologist and DBT course already. Highly stigmatised mental illness.

[TrueConfection]

Have you talked to your mental health professional about the incident? If you became unreasonable, your boss' cold shoulder might be his way of avoiding another incident with you.

[Asker]

I have spoken to them about it yes.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Just quit

[Asker]

Not always financially viable to do that.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Is it your dream job?