Would I be a sissy to quit a new job I think isn't a good fit for my personality/strengths/weaknesses?

[Bethany22]

Do you think I should just make the effort in order to do well at a job that uses skills that I'm really bad at,, instead of look weak and quit? Skills like high attention to detail and being interrupted by people asking random questions that I don't know how to answer but that I should know the answer to, as well as working at a really fast pace? I mean, I know that those are skills that all employers want, so I don't even know if a future job would be better anyway.

[SwellStroke]

Okay first how long have you been doing this?
Next, we were put here to learn new things daily. This may be just a stepping stone moving into bigger and better things down the road.
People are not always going to be able to pick up new skills right away. However, some are able to just have it click. Just watch and take mental notes see if there is connections in the process you might have over looked.
Then there is also the ability to step back and consider is there another way to perform said task? Something that works better for me that would be acceptable in this setting, maybe talk with your supervisor/manager on your idea, then that way everyone is on the same page.

This will also show them you are an asset to the company as you took the unitive in problem solving, and communication within the company.

If it still ends up that you are feeling the same after that, again talk to your Supervisor/Manager and let them know your reasons for this being so. This will also show them that you are an employee that cares for what you do and those that you are interacting with.

Also, it helps in regards to having more references for your resume should you choose to leave.

[IceCreamSandwich]

I would suggest giving it 1 month, and see how much easier it is at that point. If it's still very bad, and you don't want to be there, start looking for other jobs. But if things have improved a lot since you arrived, you may stick around for 1 more month and see if they continue to get better until you don't mind the job much at all.

I have almost quit jobs after the first week because it was terrible, but then adjusted and done fine at them after several months passed. We aren't the same people and you know how you handle things better than I do, so if you suspect this would only burn you out, use your better judgement. In my experience practice and familiarity helps a lot, but if the job really is just a bad fit then a little bit of time should make that clear.

[melanieeeB]

I personally think that nobody should stay in a Job, relationship, friendships ar any situation where they're unhappy.

Job based if you wanna quit, then quit. But as an advice only quit if you can afford to be unemployed for awhile or already search for something new and quit when you find something. Whatever works for you.
You could find a Job that's worse but you could also find the perfect place for you

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Well how bad of a fit is it? If it’s something you hate and you can get another option maybe that’s something to think about. If you’re just confused or scared or intimidated well it’s a new job that’s normal

[allthewronganswers]

If you think the job is not a good fit then it isn't.
If you feel you don't have the skill set to complete the job at hand you obviously won't do it well.
I do not know (or wish to know) your personal finances but did you take and the job for financial reasons?
If you merely took the job for the sake of it then you are doing yourself a disservice. You could potentially sully your employment record as you could get fired for not being up to the task. Quitting would be the best option if the above is the case & you wouldn't be a sissy for doing so.
If you took the job for financial needs but it doesn't suit your skill set, it would be in your interest to knuckle down, learn what it takes to do the job and get on with it until a more suitable job becomes available. This way you will have learned and gained invaluable experience and also added a positive to your employment record.

[Sparkie460]

If you haven't been there long it will take a little while to adjust. If you still don't like the job after a few months then look for another job but stay there until you find a better job.

[Googlemyahoo]

Sounds like every mid to late 20 year old I’ve met. They start working say its really great they love it. Few months later the petulant whining starts ohhh this isn’t for me. They find another job wash rinse repeat.

Reality is you’re probably NEVER going to find the job you WANT you’re going to get the job you need.

[AdmiralSirJohn]

If you know you're going to hate your job, why did you apply for it in the first place? The old "any job is better than none" attitude just doesn't fly with most people. For some, it actually makes them suicidal (I should know, I've spent time as a psychiatric inpatient after multiple suicide attempts because of it).

If you can't find a job you like, make one. The day I finished my second novel was the day I finally liked "working".

[heartofgold94]

You know your strengths and weaknesses, that's good! This job is an opportunity to turn your weakness into a strength. It may take some to get the hang of things but as time goes on you'll be adapted to the pace of the job and become a better worker overall.

[nawtee_me]

Okay, working at a fast pace is something you learn over time by doing the work. It also allows you to recognize things that are off (attention to details) and give you the ability to make necessary changes on the fly to save time. But you have to put in the effort and time it takes to grow your skills. I have faith in you, do not quit before the miracle happens... you are better than that...

[Pudsmucker]

That's a purpose of work probation. It means if you don't like working for the company. Or the company does not like working with you you both can part ways and nothing is to be reported. It's not being a sissy because you feel like you're not a comfortable fit. The company have the same feelings. It also depends upon who the people you are associating with in your new job. Do you feel comfortable being around your fellow new workers?

[Sixgunsound]

Apparently that's a new trend for young people to quit Quit within a year of working for a company if they don't feel like being there anymore. LinkedIn has articles about it if you're interested in quick quitting.

[DavidRaul]

If you don't want to do it. You should better quit because it will only make you miserable. People are different, some would take this as a challenge and still enjoy it and some what think we aren't a right for this job and do something they love.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I wouldn't quit, but look for another job and give this one a shot... at the same time. As you get better and know the answers, things will be easier.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A job is a job & a job is better than not having one at all & if you are thinking about quitting just make sure you have another job in hand before doing so.

[Jacobbbb]

To be real with you, quality of life and satisfaction in your work is way more important in the long term. If you don't think you're a good fit for the job, then don't do it

[NathanDavis]

quitting... or improving

one can lead to success, the other will lead you to nowhere much

[SnowedIn]

Not a sissy. A job must work for you and you've got to be a good fit for it. Nothing sissy about that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think everyone should be comfortable with the job that they do and if they're not happier than they should change their job to be happy.

[AngryCarl]

There's no reason you shouldn't look for another job. The worse thing would be getting stuck in a rut you don't enjoy.

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't quit. Tough it out for at least a year unless it's intolerable. You don't want to get a reputation as a job drifter/quitter.

[CubaPirate]

Nope you only get one life and your job is a big part of it so you shouldn't let it make you unhappy

[Travis37]

No but you should at least give the new job a chance b4 quitting

[pizzalovershouse]

Not till you have a new job lined up

[Guardian45]

There is nothing wrong in quitting a job you hate!

[Debbie14217]

no way not at all

[Sabretooth]

Look at it as an opportunity to improve.