I don’t know if I should take a gap year of college because they’re charging me up to 2,229 dollars plus textbooks a semester?

[xJayleenx]

And I have to save 10k by next year in order to move out with my boyfriend. I’m just scared that I won’t have enough to pay for college and save since I only make around 300-400 a week. Wanted to do doordash as a side job but my parents don’t want to let me I guess they don’t trust my driving. So I don’t really know what to do they want me to go back this summer too.

Updates

+1 y

I also calculated it and I spend about 500 a month in mostly gas and car insurance so I will be losing up to 6000 by next year

[AimeeKyle]

Although I personally have a college degree, everyone does need one and every job doesn’t require one. If you have no idea what you want to do and the classes you have taken thus far have not helped you increase focus on your path forward, I personally wouldn’t add more towards your debt.

Alternatively, if having a degree is a personal goal, then I would get it as quickly as possible. As you get older it will be much more difficult/challenging to obtain it later.

Good luck to you!

[AimeeKyle]

I meant to say everyone doesn’t need one (first sentence)

[Tyrael]

I'd go ahead and do the door dash anyway unless they're threatening to kick you out over it.

I'd also go to college and forget about moving out with your boyfriend because your future is more important than a relationship that may not last.

[xJayleenx]

We want to get married and travel. I’m going to college because my family wants me too I really don’t know what I want to do in life. And with my social skills I don’t know how likely I am to get any business job.

[xJayleenx]

I know that our relationship will last we’ve been together 3 years and our relationship is the thing I most have faith in

[jennifer_bloom]

But if you get a degree, you can upgrade your paycheque and earn your $10,000 twice as fast and it will pay you until you retire. If you are concerned about money, try being budget conscious with other things like leisure and take out food, I would continue with the education, it’s important, and many qualify for student loans too.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel overwhelmed by the financial pressure of paying for college and saving up to move out with your boyfriend. Here are some suggestions that may help you make a decision:

1. Consider your long-term goals: Think about your long-term goals and how taking a gap year would impact them. If obtaining a college degree is important to you and necessary for your chosen career path, it may be worth finding ways to pay for college and continuing your education.

2. Explore financial aid options: Look into financial aid options such as scholarships, grants, and student loans. Many colleges and universities offer financial assistance to students who demonstrate financial need.

3. Look for part-time work or other income sources: Consider looking for part-time work or other income sources to help pay for college and save up for your future goals. You could explore alternative part-time jobs or talk to your parents about why you feel Doordash may be a good option for you.

4. Talk to your parents about your concerns: Have an open and honest conversation with your parents about your concerns and financial situation. They may be able to offer support or guidance on how to manage your finances and make it possible for you to continue your education.

5. Consider other options: If paying for college is not feasible at this time, consider other options such as community college, vocational training, or certificate programs that may be more affordable and still help you achieve your career goals.

Ultimately, the decision to take a gap year or continue with college is a personal one that depends on your individual circumstances and goals. Consider all your options and make the decision that is best for you and your future.

[Sparkie460]

I personally think college is a waste of money. You'll have a college debt for years before you can pay it all back. Chances of getting a high paying job right out of college in the field of your studies is slim. Go to a trade school like for business. Women are getting into the construction trades more and more now.

[exitseven]

2200 dollars a semester is not very expensive. If you mangae your money good you can go to college and still pay the rent.

[exitseven]

RE Update - I did a gap year after high school. In those days it was not called a gap year. It just meant that you didn't have the money to go to college. I worked a crappy minimum wage job and saved about a thousand dollars if that after I paid for a car and gas and repairs. It was a complete waste of a year but there really was no alternative. I was 17 and too young to join the military.

[xJayleenx]

I have never had a gap year before but I’m supposed to have like 2+ years left. I’m thinking about just taking like two classes since they are charging me so much

[xJayleenx]

I’ll have to pay 1,425 just to take two classes in the summer

[Guardian45]

If student loans or bursaries are an option than you should consider it.

[xJayleenx]

I had a loan and now they’re not helping me anymore

[xJayleenx]

I tried to get a private one for 10k and I would owe like 24k 😭

[Guardian45]

Student Loans are onerous, but pay off

[TallAnon]

Do you need to buy them? Try to find them online as pdf.
I paid 0 for my books in the end.

[xJayleenx]

Im forced to pay like 200 just to be able to do hw online on top of the 1300-2229 that i have to pay every semester

[SawerBrown]

As long as it won't seriously affect your studies take year off to make some cash.

[Jamie05rhs]

I hate to say this, but I would prioritize my own education over a boyfriend.
I know it's a complicated topic, but that is just my opinion!

[EaterPeter]

Please don't take a break, finish it and get it over with.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Alex8736]

save your money. college isn't even worth it

[xJayleenx]

That was my concern especially with my extremely shy personality

[Alex8736]

not worth spending big bucks to say the sun is yellow without offending someone 😂

[QuietVerbena]

What does your boyfriend think?