What does it take to have stability?

[Anonymous]

I was terminated from my job on Wednesday.

I have held at least 25 jobs since I started working at age 15. I am turning 30 in a matter of months. The longest job I held in my lifetime was 11 consecutive months.

I have been involuntarily hospitalized at least 6 times since age 18. I have been committed a total of at least 8 times since age 18.

I have been arrested once. I have 2 misdemeanor convictions dating back from 2016.

I was expelled from a university. I was kicked out of a community college. I have attempted college numerous times but it didn't work out.

I was also caught up in a sting operation, and while I didn't face charges, my face and info is plastered for people to see.

I am really trying to turn my life around. I am trying to gain stability in life, but despite my efforts, I am struggling.

I feel like my world is about to collapse.

[Anonymous]

1. Work hard. For YOURSELF, not for other people.

2. Save and invest

3. Live below your means.

4. Know who your friends are. You can not afford those who are not.

Build up to a 100k nest egg. After that, it gets considerably easier. I promise you as you'll be able to make bigger money moves that poor people are unable to make. Having money is mindset, and a lot of people will always be poor because they never stop "thinking poor".

If you do it right and catch a little luck (luck plays a bigger part than most rich people will admit), you can retire as early as your mid 40's. I did, and I was virtually flat broke at 26.

Good luck, man!

[Asker]

Thank you. Although, to make money, I need a job or a stable source of income. I cannot hold down a job long enough and when I get fired with long unemployment gaps, I feel I cannot get ahead.

[jennifer_bloom]

You expect us to believe your photo was posted in relation to a sting operation when you were never convicted or the charges were not proven in court or withdrawn? Media sites are not scared of lawsuits? It's obvious to me you have brain damage and nobody believes your lies.

[Asker]

It was these vigilantes that wanted to take matters into their own hands. They ended up facing legal battles afterwards anyways.

[Sasquach]

You need dependability. Create systems that allow you to fulfill expectations and over time you build trust and stability