Ever since I was younger I wanted to be a mother. I’ve chosen names I’ve looked at doctors, schools. Whether I wanted a midwife or a Doula. Just about everything that had to do with becoming a mother.
Becoming a mother is actually very scary. They always talk about the joys of having a baby. But nobody really prepares you for the Darkside of it like postpartum depression, Ectopic pregnancy, and many more. Being unstable. Unmarried
So when learning about all of these things. all of the factors that goes into it I decided I wanted to wait until I’m 30. I figured I should be more stable I should be better prepared. it would be nice to be Married. if not I will still want to have my child. Overall just have my shit together.
I figured I should be more stable I should be better prepared. Overall just have my shit together.
The main thing is after I become a mother I don’t think it should stop me from working or doing more. Especially when you have someone to live for.and every time I bring it up into my community I can I get looked down upon for it.
Why is it such an issue?