Ending a toxic friendship! Damn that felt good.

[lanadelrey25]

I just ended the worst friendship I've had yet! It feels so good!

He tried to mold me into the kind of woman he wanted, but I'm to strong minded and independent for that shit. I had to walk on egg shells and gave him chance after chance, but this time I'm through and hot dog I'm happy!

Dear you know who you are, please seek help from a therapist. I don't think you're a psycho, but I do think you're a narcissistic and egotistical and no one has time for that, that's why you're 41 and still living with your brother in a small house with no partner.

To answer your questions, no you are not my hero, and no I will not miss you. And if you'd like to go on on believing that you are some sort of god that everyone should love, then go ahead keep believing that, after all, how could you be wrong?

Yeahhhh when you said you were glad I didn't have any friends, I should've known there.

Adieu mon cher!

And I want to say thank you to my REAL friends @Grond21 @iFarted @paulychicago10 @gwenhyfar <3 sorry if I missed any, luvs.

[Finchie40]

Was he just a friend or a boyfriend? It’s kind of weird if just a friend tried to mold you into something they wanted you to be , Bottom line it’s good to remove toxic people
From your life period , especially when you are in a relationship with someone , friends can be toxic to your relationship, why it’s best to remove those friends and make your partner your priority , most people don’t do that they usually side with their friends , a real friend will support your relationship with someone , not try to pull you away from them

[lanadelrey25]

He was just a friend who wanted to be more than friends when I came of age

[Finchie40]

Ok well that right there shows he wasn’t a friend he was trying to manipulate you and mold you into what he wanted for his own selfish reasons

[lanadelrey25]

Now he's trying to report my take even though i didn't mention his name

[Finchie40]

Yea some people can’t accept the truth , and realize they are a piece of shit

[Don-__-Don]

I'm glad you ended it.
People who try to mold others into what they want them to be are toxic and annoying.

[lanadelrey25]

YES I forgot to mention you!!!

[Don-__-Don]

Lol, it's okay. I know that you'll never forget about me in your heart🙃.

[lanadelrey25]

I luv u so much, I knew I was forgetting someone! ply I can't type your name well lmao

[DizzyDesii]

I love having associates only. I dont have to commit to hanging out with them or calling/texting them daily etc. After i let go of a lot of the people i used to be “besties” with, it made me feel so free and awesome. They were always tryna bring me down

[menina]

Well I don't know who are you talking about, but if he wasn't a good friend then you did what you had to do.
There's no point in keeping toxic people in your life, no one needs them.

[ArrowheadSW]

There have been a few people in the past who I had to quit being friends with because they were just toxic people. There was no point in continuing the friendship because their actions were so negative that they were just going to have to come to some realization eventually or they would have no friends left.

[bowenw]

Their loss. Good for you for doing what is right for you. Chalk it up to experience and move on. Stay healthy and safe. 🤗

[lanadelrey25]

Thanks, you too!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I can't deal with toxic people that is why I choose wisely who I pick as my friends as the old saying says, You can pick your friends but you can't pick your relatives glad you got the load off of your shoulders <3 xD

[Niya2006]

I have a feeling I know how ur about lol

well i'm glad that ur happy <3 <3 <3

Hope you stay that wayyyyyyy

[Niya2006]

Who ur talking about ****

[Grond21]

I'm really proud of you! It takes a lot of courage to do that. Lots of courage, especially from a narcissist. I know from experience how toxic those can be. So well done!

And you're definitely one of my friends too

[iFarted]

Keep on trucking girl, don't let anyone try to mold you for their satisfaction!

[Jjpayne]

I'm glad to hear you have a little extra freedom 😊

[JakeS00]

Glad you let that go, I was in the same boat but it was a narcissistic girl. I Felt damaged but felt so, so, good.

[JakeS00]

The damage didn’t feel good of course, the leaving the relationship did. Forgot to clarify. Sorry.

[TessCasie]

Happy for you.
I ended mine too year ago with my so called best friend.
I had enough.

[Mehzmeh]

I have done that soooo many time's okay 4 times. I use to some how draw toxic people to me. So, this makes me say congratulations on realizing it.

[AlexDeLarge]

It's very cleansing to remove toxic people from our lives. Good for you 👍.

[bannacookies]

Op. Hero gave it away. I think I know who it is.

[Niya2006]

sameeeee
but her saying that he was talking about her friends and that he was 41 was more of a giveaway for me lol

[lanadelrey25]

@Niya2006 lmao

[Niya2006]

Hmmmmm is it him?
the one u pmed me about

[Niya2006]

like a few days ago

[lanadelrey25]

@Niya2006 I'll pm you later

[Gwenhwyfar]

You did the right thing

[lanadelrey25]

I think your new profile pic is cute by the way

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thank you 😊

[lanadelrey25]

Ur welcome :)

[r_sha]

Ouch I feel bad for that guy just imagine how lonly he is.

[lanadelrey25]

He brought it upon himself

[grapefruit11]

You must have some issues yourself to automatically assume the guy is some kind of victim.

[r_sha]

@grapefruit11 I don't have any issues but think about it he is 41 and alone he is 41 and live with his brother he have no one to love how sad his life actually is and because of this he tried to mold her

[lanadelrey25]

It's ok, I have pity on him as well.

[smahala1991]

Au revoir I know who you're talking about lol

[Another_Old_Guy]

Good for you!

[lanadelrey25]

:) thank u

[Tunasub]

What in the actual fuck 🤷🏾‍♂️

[knight2468]

I want say bay bay to him too

[MsTaniaUncensored]

Good for you ♡

[LowSelfSteem03]

Good for you