A friend I once had is now turning everyone against me?

[tangiblestar]

I had this friend who decided to turn against me last year for something that wasn't my fault and that she never even talked to me about. Instead, I heard she was talking about me behind my back to everyone. So now it looks like she's turning everyone else against me and I can see the difference in how they treat me now than from before. I really don't know what she is saying but it's been working. It hurts so much but I don't know what to do. I've already forgiven her (we haven't spoken in months but it was more for myself than for her) and I try not to talk badly about her with anyone. I've lost a lot of friends and see her all the time (unfortunately we work together for the next few months) and she's been horrible. Any advice on how to deal with this would be appreciated.

[coolbreeze]

That must really suck that you have to work with her. I also think it sucks that your friends sided with her and I felt they should had stayed out of it and stayed neutral. I know that was hard to forgive her and now you have to see around which sucks as well. I think the best thing to do is just ignore her and pretend she is non existent if you see her or run into her. Which you have been doing so far. I think eventually she will get bad luck for what she did. And hopefully maybe when the truth shines the light you can get some of your friends you lost back. I felt what your friends did was so wrong on so many levels. They should had stayed out of it and mind their own buisness.

[GalacticNova]

You are stronger than this, OK? Just do your best at ignoring her. Ignore ALL of them. Walk through the hallways and pretend you don't give a shit about them, no matter how much you do. I've gone through the same problems before and even though me and that girl aren't exactly "friends" anymore, we still threw away all the hate and pretended that part of our life never existed. You should do the same too, alright? You should make sure her actions are not hurting you in any way and try to mend your relationship while you still can.