The little pervert

[Inkweaver2]

I used to be good friends with a little boy a few years younger then me when I was in elementary school. Our moms were best friends.

Well, out parents just met up again and I went to hang out with them. He is about 12 now. We hung out in his room while our moms talked down stairs. He started confessing to me about watching porn. I can’t shut someone up when I feel like they are confiding in me.

He asked if he was freaking me out, and at first he wasn’t, but the more he talked the worse it got. It eventually got to the point where he was talking about how he wanted violent sex and beating a water bottle with this horrid look on his face. He was scary. (I also learned his masturbated on the floor I was sitting on)

My mom didn’t take me home until about 1 in the morning. His mom was trying to get us to spend the night! (not a good idea!)

Well, I told my boyfriend about it. (including more of the things the twerp said. He said a lot more stuff then I wrote) I had mentioned it to him before but it got brought up with more detail. What my boyfriend didn’t understand before was the violent part. Now he hates the thought of me being anywhere near him and has asked permission to beat the crap out of him if they ever meet.

It isn’t like I hate the kid, I just don’t want to be left alone with him again. I told my parents and that is probably why my mom hasn’t visited his mom since. (they still talk) and I know it is why we didn’t go on a week long trip with them to Alaska.

I don’t want my boyfriend to worry and I don’t want to get in the way of my moms friendship. I don’t even mind hanging out with him as long as I’m not alone in his room with him again. (I forgot to mention he said the lights were hurting his eyes and turned them off so only one little lap lit the room. That was a little scary.)

Does anyone know anything I could do? I’m not going to put up with listening to that again though, don’t worry.

This isn’t a pressing problem. It happened awhile ago, but I’m sure at some point it will roll back around and I’d like some advice on how to handle it. Thank you. ^-^

[joeschmoe23]

It seems like you've done all the right things already, especially telling your parents about it. Very mature for someone your age. Do you think your mom told this to his mom? Sometimes, kids can be angels with their parents around, but devils when they are gone. I just wonder if his parents even discipline him, since he seems to have a dark side. I would say, as long as you are not alone with him, you should be fine. However, it doesn't hurt to have some kind of backup plan (maybe have your boyfriend on speed dial, or carry a can of mace, etc.) just to be safe.

[Inkweaver2]

My mom told me she wouldn't tell his. Besides, his mom knows about what kind of boy he is. I own some mace. I'll take it with me if I have to go back. Thanks!

[Toshytosee]

What I want you to do is when you are alone with him again, I want you to raise your hand and whack him with it on his face a hard as you can.

[Inkweaver2]

Now that is an idea I like!

[desperado]

That's some phyco shilt, I don't think you should ever talk to this creep. I mean he could develop feelings towards you and do something crazy to you, not to scare you. But I would never want to be alone with him again either. I mean I wouldn't get to cose and friendly with him. It doesn't matter if this ruins the family relationship, don't feel bad, your moms just doing what she feels is best for you. He's only 12, imagine when he's older.

[Inkweaver2]

Yikes, scary. Thanks for the advice.

[Evolution86]

Don't be alone with him if it makes you uncomfortable. The kid is a little twisted (or a lot twisted) and if you stay with other people (ie. your mums) then it should be all good. Or, if that is totally out of the question, stay somewhere within earshot of your mums (living room if they're in the kitchen).

[Anonymous]

He thinks your sexy

Thats kinds not a bad thing you know