My boyfriend went to Vegas for a guy's weekend and took 2 condoms with him. (Page 2)

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We have only been living together for 3 months, and I even moved across country to be with him, as we were long distance for a year and a half.  So the morning he left, I walked the bedroom and heard him at the drawer with the box of condoms, and then saw his hands in his pockets.  I put it together, and figured it out.  When he returned, the 2 condoms were back, so he didn't use them.  The next day I asked him about it. I then told him that I saw him take them, and he said that yes he did.  Reason: His friends have asked him before, so that is why he brought them.  I told him I did not believe that and a fight ensued. I don't really love the idea of him going to Vegas, which he knows.  In January he took off for Vegas without letting me know, and I found out he was there via a Facebook post! (I used to not use FB often.)  I called him on it and he admitted that he didn’t tell me because I would get upset.  So when we were discussing this condom issue, I told him that I thought his excuse was crap, and plus he had already lied to me before.  So here is the question: Is there any way he really could have taken the condoms to Vegas in case a friend needed it?  I think the answer is “no” but want other opinions.  If he took them for himself, then I’m glad they didn’t get used, but does this mean he has likely already cheated?  I need some advice here please.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

yeah...I would have said 'How stupid do you think I am?'...and his expression or his attempt to hide his coyness would make me smirk a bit and then kind of drop the boyfriend title after that.

SDiego · Answer

I think he took them on the chance he might use them himself. Even if nothing happened physically, then emotionally at least, he has already cheated on you.

eSHkidd · Answer

Whoa don't get come to conclusions now. He just brang them for his friend... HIS DICK!

martyfellow · Answer

Well, buess what, you can't trust him not to hook up with a hooker whenever he gets the chance, and there are a lot of such chances out there!

SpArRoW2978 · Answer

Maybe he brought them incase he had to much to "drink". But I agree with you . You should confront him and ask him the truth.

EXpeRT-tEzE · Answer

well you know what they say wa happensin vegas stays in vegas no don't be upset about he's being save just in case something does happen

joraz · Answer

I have never heard of a friend asking another friend to bring condoms for him.  It sounds like crap! I wouldn't believe it.

babymama2010 · Answer

If his friends needed condoms they could get their own. It's not like they are hard to come by or expensive. He took them for his own use.

candlewax · Answer

Rule #2, don't move across country for a guy in a LDR. Doesn't always end well. This would be an example why. That's really shady.

Anonymous · Answer

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, except herpes that stays with you for life..

playa_pan · Answer

break up with him... If his buddies want condoms, they can get it at 7-11 for $8 for 3

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds like, even if he didn't cheat on u, he def was planning on it. The only time I've seen of my exs or guy friends get a condom from a buddy it was way last second. He isn;t gonna plan around his buddies bedroom activities. He just sounds like a cheater to me.

smallbrownman · Answer

1 for his friend and 1 for his other friend. guys are so embarrassed when it comes to buying condoms.

enlightenment · Answer

sorry girl...i agree with your gut.  Hopefully he didn't get laid and not use them at all!

mitsy · Answer

Sorry but how do you know he only took two? Two might have only been what came back:/

Anonymous · Answer

what a dummy, just do like every other smart guy, buy a new box on the way out !

Dines · Answer

Why couldn't his friends bring their own condoms? I think he lied.

despertar2 · Answer

dude he's going to vegas. seriously just calm the f*** down. I f he brought condoms then be happy that he thought in advance. god chicks can be totally urghghhh

Anonymous · Answer

He is cheated on you, these all condoms has it's own.

Anonymous · Answer

i went to the bar with some friends one of them was married and he brought us condoms just in cases we needed them.

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