Thunderdome fight to the death.
Actually, this is why I’m a little cagey about costuming or what I will wear to something. Either because it might not work out the way I want, or because I want to change a detail.
Of course, I’d probably see it as a compliment.
Sometimes, though, I’ve had circumstances where a phrase or whatever has been originated with me, and then someone else says the same thing about them, and we start the same “tagline” or nickname. And then it becomes an issue of “do I just risk sounding like I’m stealing his thing or do I try to explain this or do I say something else unplanned and let him have the phrase?”!
I’ve had cases where I would decide I’d want to do something with my hair or with some looks, and then five guys change their look to what I was going to do (just before I do it)... and so it would look like I’m copying them when it just happened to start to be a popular look. So then I’d have to hold off and do something else. No biggie for me. I’d just try some other variation.
Can you accessorize? Can you edit the dress in some way to make it different? - don’t tell the friend about the change. Otherwise, just tell it’d be weird for you both to wear the exact same thing. Work it out. Get them to change to a coordinating color. Get different accessories. Do your hair differently. Any of those could make it different to where people might not even notice (or care).
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Rock it! Twinsies!!! Who cares! Life is too short to worry about a stupid dress you will both look cute in it so what's the big deal. I think it's worse to show up yo a party and find someone you don't know wearing the same clothes rather than a friend you can talk to about it!
You have a few options.
1. Let her wear the dress and you wear something else. This is the least confrontational response but could potentially be awkward, if she asks why you changed what you’re wearing.
2. Act like there’s some misunderstanding, like she forgot you were already wearing that dress. “Oh, I’m so glad you like that dress, but unfortunately I’m already planning to wear it to this event. You should totally get it for the next event, though. I’ll wear something else to that one.”
3. Tell her the truth. Be tactful and kind by using positive language. Let her know that you’re glad she likes your taste in clothes, and you’d have a lot of fun helping her choose her outfit, but you’ve been planning to wear that dress for a while and you really don’t want to dress exactly the same. Ask her if she’s mind picking something else, as you don’t want to be totally matching. She may be disappointed but she should understand.
Hey you know I dont like matching clothes. Is it okay if we plan a girls shoppig day you and me to pick out another beautiful dress for you instead? (Your friend doesn't sound high maitnence so your probs free to change her mind. Make sure you present it in a way of "lets try something else" not "youre ruining my day by stealing my dress wahhh" GL! :) have fun.
It's a little annoying, but I'd just wear a different dress rather than arguing with a friend over who gets to wear it.
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Who cares? Just wear the dress you want. Its like the drama on prom night when 2 women wear the same dress. No one cares except those 2 about stirring up drama.
Imagine if guys acted this way when most of them are wearing a suit and tie. It would be quite ridiculous.Just be honest with her. You don't have to be mean when you say it but tell her that you don't want to match her and that if she wants, you will help her pick out a dress that looks great on her.
Uuuuuum where do you meet friends like this. I a man. Manly man, how much do you like her. You should lay it out straight, and if it causes a katfight record it and post it online so I can see and have a giggle.
Tell her bitch ik we friends but hell no, i got it first u choose something differ or im taking my ticket back
You could always show up in a 'fancy dress' dress and see if she'll double up, still. :P
Did you talk to her? If not, why didn't you do that instead of asking this?
Why not just say "hey, before you buy that, i was planning on going in that dress, can you pick something else?"
It's just a dress...
Make sure you don't match shoes, makeup and hair and that's it.Tell her you found this outfit first and ask her to wear something else so you two can be your own person not twins
If it bothers you so much, talk to her. But keep in mind it's just a fucking dress, and she's your friend. What really matters?
tell her wtf we can't go in the same dress. buy i different one.
spill some awful stuff on her dress. by accident, of course :)
What kind of best friends u r... just wear same dress.. its cool
the best thing to do is just be honest with her, saying " i don't want you looking like me, and if you wear the same thing, im uninviting you"
Roll with it, and do something together.
Act like you guys were doing somethingfirst world problems.
just tell her she looks fat in that dress.Say no! Let her wear a different blue dress 😄
OMFG!!! get over it
Surely theyve got another colour
Wear sth different
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