Is my brother a pervert?

[LadyInRed0109]

Hi, just call me ela, i'm 21 y/o, i have a brother named al, 38 y/o. The first time I felt awkward about him is when I reach 18, the night of my debut, he is one of my 18 roses, when he's turn to dance with me, he is touching my butt while we are dancing and it feels uncomfortable. In many years I am with him, he do something unusual unlike before. Sometimes, he accidentally (or maybe intended) touches my breast, sometimes when I'm done taking a shower, I saw him browsing on his phone but he is blocking my way out near the bathroom. And lately, he told me we are going in a vacation, then he told me also to book a hotel room, only the two of us, I told him to take our mom with us but he insist not to. I don't know what to do. The fact about my brother is he don't have a child neither a wife nor a girlfriend ever since. I think that is one reason he is like that, but I don't know. I feel scared, uncomfortable, awkward and nervous whenever he is near me. Please help me.

[Anonymous]

Yeah those are weird things to happen. He needs a girlfriend. I can see why you have those feeling towards him.
I don't know what to tell you other then telling him he need to find a girlfriend. Maybe carry a taser or pepper spray. That sounds kinda over kill and messed up to hit your brother with that stuff, but if he tries anything you have to defend yourself.

[LadyInRed0109]

My brother gets angry when we talk about getting him a girlfriend. I don't know why.

[Opinion Owner]

I kinda get the same way when my sister or mom bring up the whole girlfriend thing too. I also try and dodge the question. It's not just a him thing. Maybe try and suggest to him to get a tinder. It kinda works finding women.

[LadyInRed0109]

Ok i'll try. I will just find the timing to talk about it. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

No problem. Stay safe too. Those are some weird things to do to a sibling. I have a sister too and could not imagine doing that to her. Just to weird for me.

[ThePundertaker]

He’s a pervert. Seriously who grabs their sisters butt? Also breasts? Don’t go away with him. You really should confront him

[LadyInRed0109]

He's my brother, I don't want him to be like that. I don't know what to say to him.

[ThePundertaker]

Take him to McDonald’s or something then tell him you think it’s creepy that her own brother is acting this way. Then discuss again in private later. It will give him some time to rethink his actions so he could better explain himself.

[Anonymous]

Yes he’s perverted. My brother does similar things to me except I’m 17 and he’s in his 30s as well. I just deal with t.

[LadyInRed0109]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know I just pretend like he doesn’t do it

[Opinion Owner]

My brother also wanted to take me on vacation

[LadyInRed0109]

What did you say to him about the vacation?

[Opinion Owner]

He was gonna take a girl too. My brother has no problem finding a girlfriend at all.

[LadyInRed0109]

I hope my brother gets a girlfriend too.

[daipham]

Yeah he a perverted just don't let him do it too you more

[LadyInRed0109]

yes i will

[daipham]

Ok be careful

[LadyInRed0109]

Thanks.

[daipham]

No problem happy to help ya

[JuniorLocs]

Help yourself you got mouth speak up

[LadyInRed0109]

I don't know what to say to him. What if he will misunderstand me? and what if he say that there is no malice he does towards me?

[Chaoseverywhere]

Tell your parents?

[LadyInRed0109]

We only have our mom. My mom is old, she will not believe me.

[Nandor]

I dont know