Sounds like a normal thing an older brother would do. It's sad that the whole world is getting caught up in political correctness now, so sad, no one is allowed to just have fun. A boy should be allowed to be a boy, that's all and a girl, a girl. It's like we are all suppose to switch roles. Sorry, I'm not buying.
It's your body, you're the boss.
It is... but its siblings so he's just being a dick lol... in a brotherly way. Cause it probably annoys you so its fun. unless you're step sisters and brothers lol... then its a different story hahah
But just pee on his toothbrush...
I hate crap like that. Like "leave me alone asshole, is personal space so much to ask?"
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It's not fine and this is why... you told him to stop, it makes you uncomfortable. Joking or not it is not OK. My mother's family does this, it made me so uncomfortable as a child. It didn't stop there... I was completely felt up by my cousin... later as an adult, his dad (my uncle) tried to force me to kiss him on the mouth, my husband had to step in so I could get away. On my wedding day he harassed me to get some pictures of me in my underwear... my mom encouraged it. My older sister would slap my butt, which i was ok with, but not too long ago she slapped my husbands butt which made both me and him uncomfortable. My family would tell me I'm blowing things up, and I know other people think we are being too sensitive. But in reality we have been given more rights to our bodies and a voice for something that makes us feel uncomfortable. If he's not respecting your right to your body now, where does it stop? If you look up sexual abuse, unwanted butt touching falls under that category.
It'd be fine and playful if you were only exasperated (and you had a relationship that facilitated playful, no-meaning tease-type butt slaps.) However, if you responded in a serious manner, which it seems that you did, it is absolutely not okay for him to do it again. Tell him in a serious context at a time before he slaps your butt, i. e. some random-ass time (i'm punny), that it is not okay and he can't do it again.
My sisters and I playfully slap my brothers butt. My sister cat-calls him, too, just to annoy him. 😂
The women in my family do the same thing to me
My mom, my sister, my aunt, and even my god mother
So as long as it’s just an ass slap I don’t think it’s that serious
My sister slaps mine and runs
My mom grabs mine and says
“That’s my booty”
It’s just family playing around
I think it's wrong because your have expressed your adverse reaction to it and he continues to do it.
Also, you don't slap your sisters ass. That's just creepy.
If you're not okay with it, it's inappropriate even disregarding that he's your brother. You're not overreacting. Tell your parents.
It's a bit weird for sure. Ask your parents to tell him to stop?
You might want to post this question on the Virtual Teen Forums website. It's a site for teens run by teens. You can ask other teenagers this question under the Puberty For All or Puberty for Girls sections.
He’s your brother, I highly doubt it’s sexual. It sounds like he does it because you react, if you stop reacting he’ll get bored of it.
It’s probably just his way of saying he’s proud to have a sister with a sexy butt. If it’s not inappropriate for girls who are friends to do it. Why would it be inappropriate for family Who is just joking around
Uuummm so I’ll be your only real voice of reason. Your brother is obviously attracted to you sexually. Slapping your sisters ass (all the time) is not normal let alone doing it at all. You need to talk to him one last time about it and then proceed to cut him off from your life if he does it again. But he is your brother so maybe he really is just playing around. Maybe.
Feck! I voted Its fine jut ITS NOT!!! Damn fecke! I voted to fast!
As long as he doesn’t have feelings for you it’s just a joke.
I dont think that it has smth to do with sexual harassment. He is annoying. Like every brother. Its normal relationship between siblings.
it's kinda weird really you are both growth enough, maybe telling it to your parents will give you a solution.
No, but it is inappropriate to put this question in the Sexual Behavior category. What are you trying to say?
If you don’t like it, then it is inappropriate.
He should stop if it's making you uncomfortable 😊
It's weird ask him not to do next time or else give a complain to your parents
No, and definitely not repeatedly.
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