Why is too hard to make girl friends?

[Anonymous]

Girls my age leave me left out of meetings, parties etc. I can't make friends with girls my age. I'm a really beautiful girl ( brunette, green eyes) in a foreign country. It was difficult to make girl friends in my other country, but it's the same here. I feel excluded and pretty lonely. I'm 20, I usually hang out with older people, although I look younger.

[Sbgirl]

Its great to be confident in yourself, but if you're telling other people that you're a 'really beautiful girl' that may be off-putting to them. Not so much out of jealousy, but because it sounds like you are vain and think you're above everyone else. I had a friend who thought she was it, that she was super gorgeous (she wasn't and her personality made it worse), but she used to put everyone in the group down. When one was chatting up a guy she'd say that she could get him better and even called my friend ugly. You could be portraying yourself as a girl who thinks she is better than everyone else or at least better looking, and people don't want self-centred friends.

[J3nny]

Usually i avoid or ignore people if they seem full of themselves. I don’t care if they’re pretty or not. The whole “i’m a really beautiful girl” was kinda off putting. like good be confident but don’t talk like that. girls ten to get annoyed by it.

take a look at your personality. that’s the only reason i ever leave people out of things. if i don’t like them i don’t wanna see them.

[J3nny]

tend*

[Amyth20]

Don't mind me saying this but , we all are beautiful in one's own eyes. its not being the looks or how Hawt or how different body elements one has.
Sometimes it's about mixing up in the group. You maybe very beautiful, right into a marvel movies landing beauty. But that's not what everyone else looks for.
Being lonely can be verified as you are real alone, and maybe a little change in you can do wonders.
Also have the art and attitude to make people take you around. Just in case if you think they are jealous of my looks. Trust me, you wouldn't be writing it in here then.

[coolbreeze]

I think other girls player hate and are jealous of your cute looks. People can be very judgmental.

[courtney06]

I have a similar struggle and was told because I act too mature for someone in their 20s. A lot of the girls my age are too busy trying to get laid, party, more into their romantic relationship, etc. There’s always something more important than me with girls my age. They usually forget I exist. Most of the people I hang with are older than me.

[HOAAH]

Do you invite as many people as you can out? Or only wait to be asked?

[Anonymous]

Lol. The whole “I’m a really beautiful girl” is a turn off. Not because I’m a jealous person but because you sound full of yourself. It’s one thing to be confident. Another to be conceited

[Athena098]

Cause some are insecure in themselves they “don’t need competition”.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's your looks, they tend to get jealous. It has happened to me too.

[Anonymous]

Are you in a new environment?