Do you get on better with your mom or your dad?

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lumos · Accepted Answer

I get along with both on the same level, but I do have more in common with my mom so I feel like we have more to talk about and we can relate to each other more. But I love them both equally.

Carbon-12 · Accepted Answer

I get along with both. I don't think I could choose one over the other.

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

Love both my parents and they are great people. Hang out more with my Dad as we watch sports together and are buddies.

Liam_Hayden · Accepted Answer

I got along great with both. The two finest people I ever knew.

Tommy2017 · Answer

When I was kid all I wanted so much was to be close to my parents; but no matter how hard I tried they always distanced themselves away from me be physically or emotionally and no matter how hard I tried or what I did they never listen to me.
So when I got to boarding school in high school I realized it was pointless, me looking for their love or closeness because they would never give it to me, because they would always see me as the youngest of their four children; the clueless one, and the unintelligent one, so I stopped looking for it from them.
Now years later, now that we are very distant, now before they are trying to be close.
Truthfully even if they are to die right now, I doubt I would even share a tear.
Lol. So twisted and fucked up, I know.

Justin_Forthekill · Answer

I get on better with my mom, though I still get on well with my dad. I have a feeling it's because my sister was always the energetic one, so my dad was always having to race ahead of us to keep up with her, while I was the quiet one who liked to pick up funny sticks and look at cracks in the pavement, so I usually hung back with my mum.

Anonymous · Answer

My dad. We're very much alike personality wise & have a good rapport.

I have an okay rapport with my mother but I'd almost say she's bipolar for how we can be getting along fine & 5 minutes, 30 minutes or an hour later she's trying to cause an argument for what is oftentimes absolutely no good reason (a generational behaviour, goes back to her great-grandmother at the least).

SpacedCharr · Answer

Mother is an overly emotional, backstabbing narcissist who is literally delusional. She has the emotional maturity of a toddler.

Dad is a much better person, but he's trapped in that abusive relationship. He's the one I choose to take after.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

I would say both equally, though in the past it alternated between the two. As a teenager and up until around 21, I could only get along with one at a time. Now, I get along great with both and am so glad!

Paris13 · Answer

It used to Be Both but then One Day, Dad Changed when Obama was president and then Trump, No Chump... Then i twas Me and Mom but one Day, well, She Died. Now Dad is Mad and Sad and well, Not Close hardly at All, He is no Ball.:((xx

LoU_Hades · Answer

With both. My mom is rational and a little bit disillusioned about people, but she is good adviser for business. My dad is rather a philosopher, someone good to talk with.

InfobotsMom · Answer

With my mom is like, let's pretend that we're emotionally connected. With my dad it's like, well, I guess we could shake hands or something? 🤔

Glorious_Gay_Dragon · Answer

Definitely my mom. She was the more understanding one between them when i came out a few years ago. Though my dad came around as well i think he still feels uncertain and apprehensive about my future. The possibility of bringing home a fiance is probably the stuff of nightmares still at this point.

jillybeanns · Answer

It’s pretty equal, but if I had to say probably my dad. I think he has a softer spot for me. 😊

CarpetDenim · Answer

My dad considering I haven’t seen my mom since I was like two.

Dolemite510 · Answer

My dad passed away a few years ago but when he was alive he was very abusive and violent at times so we never got along to say the least. I get along better with my mom she’s much more civil but I wouldn’t say our relationship is great by any means either.

Jjpayne · Answer

With my mom. My dad and me did get along while he was still alive but me and my mom had simlar values and while my dad had good ones he had a number of no so good ones too...

TallAnon · Answer

I get on well with both of them, my dad is a bit more chill, which is nice, but that just shows my mom is more concerned.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

My mother. I never really had a great relationship with my father. I kind of wish I did, but it just wasn't meant to be. Our personalities often conflict with one another.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Mom is always there for me but we have clashed occasionally. Dad is just so supportive & understanding.

SydneySentinel · Answer

I was closer with my mom until she died. My dad and I get along but we are very similar so we often clash.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Dad... he's accepting of my financial education and likes good quality stuff not to mention he doesn't complain about money and is willing to borrow from me (I offer to)

Anonymous · Answer

My dad for sure. I mean my mom and I get along fine but my dad is just a better person and has always been a better parent.

TahoeHiker · Answer

I was very fortunate to have two very cool and loving parents.
But to take a quote from the 1984 movie THE BREAKFAST CLUB. "If we always got along with our parents, there would be no reason to leave home"

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