Your dad has some sort of mental illness. It is unhealthy for you to continue being around your Dad. I would move to another area and stay away from him. If you must be around him then don't be unless other adults who are supportive to you are present and don't stay for long and leave the moment he starts this sort of abusive talk.
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Wow! He's even more of an asshole than your mom! No offense. I'm sorry, Jennifer. I don't know how you live with those people.
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1 Samuel 16:14 "The Spirit of God had left Saul".
1 Samuel 19:1: "Saul told his son Jonathan and all his officials that he wanted David dead."
Samuel 20:30 : "Saul lost his temper and said to Jonathan, 'You son of a b***h! You think I don't know about you and the son of Jesse? You're an embarrassment to the mother who bore you! Shame on you!' "
1 Samuel 28:7: "Saul said to his officials: "Find me a woman who can communicate with the dead."
Verse 10: "Saul swore to her, 'By Jehovah, you won't get in trouble for this' ".
Do you see the pattern?Whatever emotions you put out in the world you tend to get back. It sounds like your father has a very negative energy so he is not likely to be happy with his own life.
The root emotions of anger is fear and hurt. Maybe explore what is causing him to feel this way... It sounds like he could actually be jealous of you for some reason perhaps of your intelligence and love. Always remember though that those comments are a reflection on him and his energy not you.
I would try to ignore it and pass his some positive comments to try and help him deal with his own self esteem issues and see if that changes his energy. But at the end of there is nothing that works I would try and distance myself that way he would only be able to infect himself with his own negativity.This is really confusing, a parent wouldn't be talking to a 36yr old like this at all.
Which brings me to my next question,
Is this what someone you know talked about and you don't know how to give good advice because you never been in this situation?Very toxic and you need to cut all forms of communication forever. The Bible says honor your father and mother but do not promote your children to wrath. In this case severing ties is not a sin
Nope. He sounds like a dick, to be honest.
Simples...No that really abnormal and you should do something about it
No that's not normal that's actually heartbreaking
No way is this normal. That's abusive
thats some crazy shit
umm no its not holy shit thats terrible.
Omg get away grom him he is toxic
No. It's fucked up.
Your father need serious help.
Definitely no...
OMG thats abusive
That is verbal abuse
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