Personally to you which would you prefer to achieve as an adult? And if you are a kid or teenager which one do you want when you become an adult?

[FinalFantasyBro]

I am actually more focused on getting a nice paying career over having a family of my own?

Starting your own family

Working for your dream career

[Anonymous]

Both are important but maybe career more you can't trust family thing what if he end up leaving me or dying or getting Ill or losing his job? Than who would support me and my kids?

[Apple1996]

Family for sure. I've never in my life had the desire to work. My kids and husband have always been my priority.

[Massageman]

Being a good mother IS hard work, Apple.

[Adam1978]

Neither. Both means working your full life for someone else. It's better to just live a good life, no major career is needed, family is optional. It better to enjoy a simple life then spending it chasing more money then you need to secure your life.

[MCheetah]

A - No. My genetics are pure dogsh*t. Not just in height, but everything else. I'd beat my own ass for spreading my sh*t genes to another human being.

B makes more sense for me, but honestly, I'd say C: Becoming the best version of myself that I can (within such brutal and harsh limitations).

[MCheetah]

I'd say option C :

[Pj1981]

I got married at 21 with goals and hopes for the future. I prayed I would get to 25 before a child was brought to the family because I had goals and wanted stability before a baby so my child had everything they needed. I finished school got the job I wanted and built a family while I got busy with my career. It all went perfect really. But things do change if you take it for granted.

[DizzyDesii]

Starting my own family. Its been my main goal since forever. I dont really care to work a dream career as long as the job is likeable, tolerable and pays well

[Flower7]

As a child, both of these were extremely important to me. But surprisingly, now that I'm an adult, I don't care about either of them.

[claryy]

Personally I am studying to obtain a job that I love and with a good pay, I am no interested in having a family.

[OpenWine]

population rise is so high I get depressed if I even think about the home size I need to stick children in when housing prices are up in the sky.

getting a more fulfilling job that I spend 1/3 of my day on is the right choice

[msc545]

Neither. Traveling the world would be a lot more fun

[FinalFantasyBro]

Another personal goal I really want to achieve I can't wait to travel all over the world.

[Kaneki05]

I have no desire for a family or work.
But if i have to give a good answer to this, I would rather live my life doing something i enjoy for money for the rest of my life than have a girlfriend but a shitty job. So i suppose work.

[Jltakk]

Kid - Dream career
Adult - Dream career

I've only thought of being able to support myself, but things got in the way. So its still in my sights.

[Aquariusmystery]

I want a family more, but I need a good career to be able to fund my family’s needs

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Definitely being a successful Conga Artist.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

My PRE-career had officially begun around the end of the month before November-November 4 (last year)

[exitseven]

careers come and go but your family stays forever.

[EnglishEuropean]

Don't live to work; work to live.

[doopayo]

Travel the world ✅

[Slim57]

Career