Am I in the wrong for occasionally getting drunk in my moms home when she's an alcholic?

[Anonymous]

So my mom is definitely an alcholic. She drinks everyday and cries in her room. I've asked her countless times whats wrong but she won't tell me so I gave up. I get drunk once in a while but not everyday like she does. I went and bought some whiskey today. She walks in my room and im drunk. Not like stumbling around but my words are slurred. She said "are you drunk?". I respond saying yes. She gets mad about how I tell her she needs to quit drinking yet im drinking. I dont get so drunk that im sitting there crying though. I just chill and play videogames. Am I in the wrong?

[cryscrys1]

‘She drinks every day and cries in her room and won’t tell you what’s wrong ‘it touched me because I can tell it’s a long term pain ! She won’t share.. it means it’s too late now even if she tells you what’s wrong you can’t fix it. I hope her heart and soul finds peace soon and let her pain go sooner..!
Well ofc it’s better you don’t drink and not become an alcoholic. Be careful you don’t fall into bad habits life is too short to try to fix burned bridges. Don’t ruin your life. Wake up before it’s too late.
If you drink for fun once in awhile isn’t bad that’s fine. World is fucked up we have to numb our brain once in a while I feel you.
Stay safe 💕

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Don't blame yourself I believe you inherited this gene from your mom
and your mom may have got it from her dad or even an uncle or mother
really hard to say but I know a former neighbor who hardly holds a job
down he is like in his late 30's leaning close to 40, I bet his liver is gone
into early stages of cirrhosis of the liver but that is what happens his
mother works to get away from him but he is basically drunk 24/7
I wish you and your mother the best, my dad was an alcoholic also
a late great uncle was an alcoholic and my late maternal grand-dad
stopped when his health declined, he developed emphysema, heart,
lung problems all do to smoking Kent cigarettes and drinking but my
dad couldn't hold his booze he drink to he was sick and that sucks.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO my friend Happy Holidays :)

[horatiohornblower]

As your mom is an alcoholic. You are at very high risk of becoming an alcoholic. You're young and still have control over it. But that control will slip away with time. By then it'll be too late.

I'd advise never to drink again. Due to your greatly increased risk of alcohol abuse. You're already rationalizing. By saying you aren't as bad. But you were getting drunk in your room and playing video games. That's not good.

Also leave that house. Although you might love her. Her presence is toxic and will drag you down.

[douride2]

You shouldn't be drinking there if she is an alcoholic.

[Bennifer]

My mother's an alcoholic too.
I just stocked up her liquor cabinet so she has stuff I like.
I get hammered when I go there. LoL!

[emperor90]

Nope i always say like mother like son