A few nights ago I told her I wanted to sleep at home, instead of at her place, she got really sad after I said this, wouldn't talk to me really, and would just not have any opinions about anything we did. So after that night I slept at her house again, and then last night I wanted to sleep at home again. I invited her to stay but she said it would feel awkward, which I understood. So I took her to her place and went inside with her. She just layed on her bed crying and I told her it was fine and that I would be back tomorrow to hang out with her. After I left, she told me that she didn't know how much longer she could do this and that the little time that she had with me, she had to share. I told her that I want nothing more than to be with her, but that I need to be home with family sometimes too. Then she said that my desire to be home was more than my desire to be with her.
I know I'm not wrong wanting to be home sometimes. Since I'm only home for a week, my time should be split between friends, family, and her. But I'm doing more than just splitting, I spend the entire day with her but then if I want to go home she jumps at me like I'm doing the wrong thing. I don't know what to do. I feel like me spending time with my family is crime to her and its not right and the second I try to explain that its important for me to be with family too, she pulls out the "I'm the lesser of the two" card. Any advice would be great!
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