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Loaded question.
Each should have a say in that.
NEITHER should get 100% of the say.
uh no? they should have a CONVERSATION about it, and decide TOGETHER
Both of their (the husband and the wife's) opinions matter equally.
Yes and no.
That decision should be mutual and determined by both people on a collective and mature level
No. It should be, at least, a mutual decision. If it's not going to be a mutual decision, then it should be what the wife wants.
Joint, obviously, with some rules that the overpopulating (indians, egyptians, blacks etc) must not get more than one child until the clear eyed whites are 50% of the global population.
It should be an equal decision. Everything in a relationship no matter if it is a boyfriend/girlfriend, Marriage or how ever it should be mutual and equal.
Men get to decide. Hormonal birth control is unhealthy and immoral and obviously so is abortion. So its all up to the man really if he finishes inside or not.
I give women 60% and men 40% voting power.
Ladies should have more say in such issues since they the ones gona be uncomfortable for months while im still out partying
They should certainly have an equal voice on the matter because it takes two to tango.
No I do not. That subject should be mutually agreed upon.
It's hold be a discussion between husband and wife. It's a joint decision
You gotta be on the same page with those kinds of decisions. That, and money, are the two most common reasons for divorce.
Both of them should decide together as they are basically one body and soul.
Both have a say neither one has a lock on that question Work it out
You should both decide that - BEFORE you get married or decide to commit to each other.
Its a dictatorship both parties should agree and if one refuses then that just cancels the whole thing
A child is a lifetime a commitment and it is a commitment a a couple SHOULD MAKE TOGETHER neither one should get to have a unilateral decision
If she's planning on children with her husband, yes!
If not, no... But then I wonder if he'll stay.
Of course they should have a say, it's their child. Same thing for abortions. You make it together (even by accident)-you make decisions concerning it together.
The husband just can give their opinion but the decision should be from the wife. Carrying a baby is not an easy and smooth thing. Especially, when you give a birth.
They both made it so it should be a joint decision. I think the one paying the bills should definitely get a say.
@Daniela1982 well said and it seems that a lot of women forgot that the man is the head of the house but still a polite man will hear his wife's opinion, he ain't her boyfriend to make her pregnant and dump her, she's his wife and a part of him and especially of she's a housewife and got pregnant than the husband will have lots of things to do to make sure that his wife is safe, comfortable, warm and well fed
I honestly think it should be decided between both husband and wife
Even with agreements, getting pregnant can be quite a hassle for many women.
Well, of course. Just as she gets to decide whether she wants (more) children.
it should be agreed upon by the first date's end. you need to share these things in values
Husbands should equally have a significant say on it. That's called family planning.
Well if she's my wife yeah I'd say I have a side in all of that.
To be perfectly honest it is a joint decision between the couple
Absolutely bilogically men are the leaders. When you’re in a relationship with a man you are his property.
It's concerning how many men have responded with yes...
We saying yes for us to be able to decide. Not solely decide but to have a “vote” if u wanna call it that
@JohnK123 The question is about men being the only one to decide though...
In real life it's men and women both who decide together. Not only one.
What the fucking hell have I just read!
If you don't believe that the man is the head of the house, don't you believe that it's his decision too? Like you both will decide to have a baby or you think that it's only you're say?
@TonyMetal___86
No.
50/50.
Yes.
No.
You mean that you agree that the decision should be 50/50 about the baby?
@TonyMetal___86
Yes, absolutely... But I do not agree that my husband is the "head of the house", that again is totally joint 50/50 and always will be.
It seems we do agree here on the baby's 50/50 decision but we are different when it comes to who is the head of the house, i'm somewhat traditional and my future wife will be a housewife and i believe that a real man will always be the head of the house where he leads and the wife follows and i know that you aren't a believer but i am and i believe it when jesus said it...
Anyways the head of the house doesn't means that i'm the king and she's my slave 🤣🤣 no not at all, to be the head of the house is a big responsibility but i'm ready to take it, that's what a real man does!
@TonyMetal___86
As you rightfully know... We must agree to differ and leave it at that.
As always please do take care and stay safe.
That's true, you too take care and stay safe
What is this inhumanity? Some sort of making women commodities and incubators? Guys, who think so should be content being seen as an ATM.
Both gets to decide and both discuss about it. That should have been done before the commitment
If the question means "too" then those girls who say no are basically just sounding like they are entitled to their husband's dick because if they decide they want three kids while the husband only want one, he's not allowed to have a say.
Since men should be an equal party, than they should be 100% involved in those decisions.
As in we won’t fck them unless we know there’s protection. Sure.
You can't get pregnant if the husband doesn't impregnate you. Unless you cheat or rape him
It's part of being a couple they call it communications
Not, both get veto powers. Specially with their legs and their own bodies.
It’s a mutual thing but it is compatibility, meaning one shouldn’t compromise. We’re talking about life.. so should both be on the same page.
This has a lot of factors. Who works? what's recreational needs? are they in love?
no i think it should be a discussion between the both of them when they’re married.
I fyou and your wife do not have an agreement it is her body and choice
✅Yes of course they should get a chance to decide. I’m not going to let a woman stop me from getting what I want. She needs to tell me if she can’t ‘deliver.’
Yes, because it is his body. Men can control when, where, and how someone gets pregnant.
No. The wife calls the shorts. Her pussy. Her rules.
Shots*
Not if he is paying the bills.
She still does.
It should be a joint decision.
They should both decide how many kids they want
No that should be decided on by both
Should be a mutual decision
If they are accidents, does anyone decide?
Wife's opinion, rather consent is essential.
That should be a mutual decision.
Good grief no. That would be a terrible idea!
It should be a decision by both,
It should be a joint decision.
Whoever pays the bills should decide.
You’re joking yeah?
@Wade12345
Yet another one of your fucking pathetic answers. smh
@EmmaMary
"Oh No. I'm so scared of your Atheistic Feminazi attitude."
Swear some more. It makes you sound "sexy". Idjit.
@EmmaMary imagine a dude thinking your behaviour and what words you use is for their benefit. cute!! XD
Imagine thinking he needed to flex "i'm anti feminist" as a way to validate his point. ewww
I’m not a feminist will never be one or support their movements, but this is just a no. In a marriage it is talked about and you both should be on the same page. Also your reproductive system decides on if you get pregnant or not. It’s not like you can wave a wand and say let there be a baby now.
@SnakeBoop
Considering he normally has his head buried in some fucking biblical comic, I'm actually surprised that he even had time to respond.
@LetsBeHonestHere
Never a truer word written. ❤
@EmmaMary I like to think people really don’t sit there and believe things like this, but I know people like this they exist as I’ve seen them say stuff just like this in podcast’s that I watch. Being married myself I just found what he said baffling. That’s not a healthy marriage that’s not even a marriage. I would consider that he thinks he owns you and you’re his property. Like he doesn’t see you as his wife let alone human, but his possession that he controls what you do when you do it and how you do it.
@LetsBeHonestHere
i realize it should be talked about. It should be talked about before you even got married. It should be talked about every time someone changes their mind about it too.
@Wade12345
So just what the fuck has it got to do with "whoever pays the bills should decide"?
Definitely I agree it should be discussed before vows are said and even after if decisions change. Communication is key in a happy healthy marriage. So, we’re you just trolling earlier?
*were freaking autocorrect
Yes, if he's the ones getting pregnant.
I believe it should be a mutual decision
That should be a joint decision.
Both parties should agree in my opinion
Oh hell no! That's insane.