Would you find your son behavior correct? Lets say you have say 19yrd old son who has a 18yrd old girlfriend. You as a parent planned for vacation to go to your sister`s vacation house (locally) and as a parent you went with your son and your other child (a 16yrd old daughter) to spend some days at your sister house. Your sister vacation house also belong to you as is a family house per se (other relatives or family members also go when they want to go, is not restricted to your sister only) but your sister is the one living there. Your sister since is the one livign there, she has 8 cabins to rent, located right next to the main house and she is the one managing the cabins, since she lives there. The family house is close to the beach.
Two weeks ago that it was Easter week, the whole family (cousins, other aunts, you and your children) went to the family house to spend some time there vacationing and also as a family. The cabins were all booked by the family as in the family house there are no empty extra rooms for the whole family, just a few.
Anyway this is the case. I have a 48yrd old male cousin who has this 19yrd old son and a 16yrd old daughter (the one I mentioned above). My cousin had been separated from his ex for more than like 12 years. So the mother lets say is not part of my family anymore as part of family trips, just my cousin and his kids. My cousin lives with the son, the daughter lives with the mother. So this family trip was no exception, my cousin went with his kids. The son took his girlfriend to the trip and he was the only one taking his girlfriend to the trip. I have other cousins around this 19yrd cousin same age (or like2 years older the most) and neither one took their boyfriend/girlfriend cause their parents did not allow them, I mean those younger cousins have boyfriend/girlfriend but they just date them like any young person dates but they do not even live together or are
Two weeks ago that it was Easter week, the whole family (cousins, other aunts, you and your children) went to the family house to spend some time there vacationing and also as a family. The cabins were all booked by the family as in the family house there are no empty extra rooms for the whole family, just a few.
Anyway this is the case. I have a 48yrd old male cousin who has this 19yrd old son and a 16yrd old daughter (the one I mentioned above). My cousin had been separated from his ex for more than like 12 years. So the mother lets say is not part of my family anymore as part of family trips, just my cousin and his kids. My cousin lives with the son, the daughter lives with the mother. So this family trip was no exception, my cousin went with his kids. The son took his girlfriend to the trip and he was the only one taking his girlfriend to the trip. I have other cousins around this 19yrd cousin same age (or like2 years older the most) and neither one took their boyfriend/girlfriend cause their parents did not allow them, I mean those younger cousins have boyfriend/girlfriend but they just date them like any young person dates but they do not even live together or are
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serious couple the younger cousins still live with their respective parents and the kids in this case respected what their parents said and this trip anyway was most a whole family trip. The cousin whose son took his girlfriend, had always been mischievous and always get away with it and he told his dad if his girlfriend could not go to the family trip he was not going. Anyway the girlfriend went with the guy. I thought that my male cousin was going to sleep with his son in one room
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and his daughter with the girlfriend (men with men, women with women). but no, the boy slept with his girlfriend in one room, one bed and the father with his daughter. For me that was disrespectful for the whole family on vacation, they are not even married or live together as a couple. Not only that but the son`s father paid all the vacation expenses to his son boyfriend!!! Dumb!!
