Is this single mom or dad of one of her children in the right regarding to provide or are they both wrong in their approach to the situation?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Basically the single mom is very upset because the dad of one her children only brought food for his son only and not the other 3 kids of hers.

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My personal take is I can understand the single mom being upset because she feels since all her kids are siblings, she doesn't want to see one child eating while the others aren't and being left out as that can hurt the kids mentally and emotionally.

From the man's perspective I can understand he doesn't feel the need nor obligated to spend his resources on another man kids especially in this current hyper inflation economy.

His main concern is his kid and not another man’s kids.

[Stoner710]

He’s being a good dad and feeding his child the other kids aren’t this guys kids take care of your kids guys the other fathers are shit.

she has a point that if a guy is going to be a women he must except her children if he plans on being with her. She shouldn’t have had sex outside of marriage and produced all them kids least this guy is trying

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I understand all that but I think she sees the faces of her other kids who are innocent and don't know what's going on seeing their other brother eating Macdonald's and they don't get ish.

That can lead to hurt feelings and resentment of their other brother seeing he has dad that cares for him while theirs don't and they suffer for it.

Nevertheless, realistically she can't possibly expect that young guy who probably doesn't make enough money to be feeding all those kids on a regular especially how cost has gone up.

Overall it's a messed up situation especially for the young ones to see and experience.

[Stoner710]

This is true this is why it’s important for men and women to get married before they have kids so they can raise the children together and kids don’t feel left out when one dad is trying to be responsible and the other dads aren’t I get it’s unfair and this is a hard situation the idea is to not put your self in a situation like this to begin with

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Facts.

[BillyBalls]

This scenario is why I would never get involved with a woman with kids.

A buddy of mine knocked up a woman a few years back. He pays child support for his kid.

The mother of his kid married a guy with at least one kid of his own. These two had two more kids.

So my buddy's kid lives in a household with three sets of kids with different parentage.

It is a fucked up situation.

While I am a generous person, I would hesitate to spend money on another guy's kid because the other guy may not return the favor.

[AviatorTom]

He has no responsibility to feed the other kids. Next time, he can talk to her before coming over and let her know he's bringing food for his kid so that she can grt food for the other kids so they don't feel left out.

[Avicenna]

Some other man’s kids aren’t his responsibility. No man is going to feed three other kids. He should be lauded for looking out for his kid.

[Avicenna]

But this exemplifies the entitlement mentality a lot if single moms have and why men should avoid them.

[IceCreamSandwich]

There were other ways to deal with it. That wasn't good.

[ArtemisSilver]

Maybe he should just sue for custody of his kid.