Do you want to have children someday?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

No. 95% of humanity seems to be filled with complete f*cking idiots and selfish assholes, and besides all of that, my genetics will not ever be passed into a woman's egg, as my body and health is sh*t, and I'd never curse another person with my broken DNA. (Height and health, included.)

Best case scenario, I'd adopt, but I'd really want a partner for that, and well... My genes aren't "worthy" of that. But mainly, this world is filled with too many selfish, awful people and I am sick of them. Idiots on the left with their woke BS, idiots on the right with their pro-life tyranny BS... Not a smart person left in sight. How could I ever raise a child around such selfish assholes and simpletons?

Wade12345 · Accepted Answer

I want children, but I'm medically disabled due to severe diabetes, so I don't see that as a realistic option. I think my diabetes is hereditary, and as bad of pain as I have suffered from Neuropathy, I couldn't see passing that on to children. So while having one or more children would be a dream come true to me, I don't think it's a real possibility.

Dazed0N0Confused · Accepted Answer

I had my first 5 months ago & I didn't know how happy I would be & how much love I could feel. He drives me nuts when he wakes me up in the middle of the night & it really pisses me off that I'm not getting the support I need from my partner (ffs I need an hour ALONE!!!), but I love my little one. He might be the only one, we're not to enthusiastic to do the whole thing again just yet lol

Mess96 · Accepted Answer

I’ve always wanted to be a mom, I’ve always LOVED babies and kids and it’s been one of my dreams since I was 6. But unfortunately I don’t think I can have any biologically. So right now I’m planning on adopting when I’m ready and stable

EarthRealm · Answer

I had 1 kid With a Girl I was 12 years old she was 17 i won’t be having another kid This one is It.
Pretty difficult to handle a kid When your 12 years old I had to read a lot and figure out how to be a dad at 12 years old but it taught me to Grow up faster than most kids which was beneficial

NewsReader · Answer

I used to. Now that I matured enough, I no longer want kids or marriage or girlfriend. I am just a single guy working on himself instead of someone else. And I'm okay with that. But unfortunately my parents and grandparents are not happy about it.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

I do, children are a blessing. I'm not in a position to have them now but I'll better myself so I can be a good wife and mother. That's my main concern, if I'm not good enough. a lot of the women I follow are moms, either with biological or adopted children, most of them with both.

youngmix · Answer

Yes, but if I can, I don't want to carry or birth them. The thought of having my vagina obliterated, my hormones pumping to extremes, and my body super stretched out does not appeal to me.

I will probably use a surrogate, or a test tube if they exist by that time and are a well developed technology.

I definitely have a fantasy about getting impregnated, so I may just act upon that. But I really don't want to deal with the pain and bodily changes.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

NO. I'm not a child person (no offense to those of you that like or wants kids). I've felt that way since I was a kid if that tells you anything. I've never had a "maternal instinct" or urge to have kids.

I much rather have a dog instead: less stress, less drama, and definitely less expensive than a kid.

BCRanger10 · Answer

My wife and I have a son and it is impossible to accurately describe how much we love the little guy! We definitely want to have more.

YollyM · Answer

Absolutely not. I don't like kids.. never liked them. They are way too loud and too messy for me. They demand way too much attention and energy.
Don't get me wrong I don't hate them, hate is too strong of an emotion but I do like to reserve my energy and peace.

ethanallen · Answer

I have known (had sex with) several women who never had kids. They were in their seventies and eighties. None of them had any regret about not having children. I must say that a woman's vagina seems to retain its teenage like pleasure even in her eighties if she never has kids.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I did, but then I changed my mind. After taking care of my nephew and cousins, I learned that I can’t handle responsibly taking care of a child for much longer than a few hours, and it wouldn’t be right to force their mother to take care of them for the rest of the time.

NZGirl07 · Answer

I think having two kids would be great. That way there isn't more kids than parents, and the kids will have siblings which I think is important.

Blackcupcake · Answer

if, I find a man who I would want as my life partner and the father of my kids… if not, then I am just as happy living with 11 kittens and puppies hahaha

Apple1996 · Answer

I already have 3 and currently preggo with my 4th

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Already have. had been hoping to do the same again with someone, however that’s not going to happen now.

Sour-rose · Answer

God no. I'm reminded every week why I don't when I  -sit and eat somewhere -use the mall bathroom -go to the movies -go to walmart :)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I want to have kids but not sure about biological kids, like maybe getting a surrogate or adopting or volunteering as a god mother for the possibility of having kids.

HighValue · Answer

Yeah in about 5 years. In two years I'll actually focus on finding the right person and then be with her for a couple years first before having kids. That is my plan.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I’d adopt instead. There are too many kids in foster care.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I don’t think so. I don’t think I’m adequate to grow up a children and in my country is very difficult to maintain one for young couples.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

This is a question that breaks my heart, yes i do but can never have any of my own, and I dont feel adoption is ok for me or fair to any child in my life. this makes me very sad

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I don't know what the future hold, but no, I don't think I do.

Fireguy17 · Answer

No, I couldn't. It's odd, I never had the urge or was driven to have kids, and it turns out I couldn't even if I wanted to.

MTC29 · Answer

Kids? no thanks. My niece (who I simply adore) and my nephew are enough.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I have two and would love to have more. I'm polyam and currently looking for a second gal. Caring for little ones is a joy.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Nope. I don’t want to be paying for college in my eighties.

exitseven · Answer

I already had them Now I want to have grandchildren

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I never planned them. They just turned up :) I was prepared.

Bubbles16 · Answer

I don't think so because I've heard giving birth is really painful and its pretty easy for me to feel in pain

Yeetboi__ · Answer

Yes, if I'm married, completely the biological father, and the mother doesn't have any prior children.

RedThread · Answer

Maybe someday. We shall see what the card's hold.

VistasV2 · Answer

A lot of children, I’ve always wanted to be a father and husband

TheFlak38 · Answer

I want children. What dont want is a mother for my children.

AsaKyo · Answer

Not really, but if I get married to the person I really love, I might reconsider

Wise4myage · Answer

Sure, I can see that happening but not for quite a while.

Paul09 · Answer

When I was younger I kinda did. But quickly changed my mind to no. Not for me. Way too much work. And this world is upside down.

Staximus · Answer

I'm still on the fence about it but I better fucking hurry up if I'm going to have any

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

I only want children because women have breasts... Oh Ohs

fred_durst · Answer

i am 110% confirmed infertile , which is good news

NishantPu · Answer

Yeah why not. I want to pass these genes to humanity 🤣 😂

KatherineJ · Answer

We have an adopted daughter. ❤️

Anonymous · Answer

Next step for us is grand children. But not for 10 or 20 years, I'd guess.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm in my late 40's. At this point probably not.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't want to get fat and stretched out. Plus, kids are really gross. But, I'm relatively open to the idea.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Want? No Have to? Yes Only child-Male

wittymilf · Answer

Nope… but tell my 3 daughters that 😂😂

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, thankfully I no longer can.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I want be a dad someday

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes I do, but I am running out of time. ☹️

Slartybartfast · Answer

I did, but obviously it's not going to happen.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd LOVE to!! I just don't have any womb!

humanearth · Answer

I had 9 kids

sheikalana · Answer

Of course. Is one of my dreams in life.

SiberFox · Answer

Yes, I would like to.

Lonestarryzky · Answer

Yes, maybe one.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

In the right time and with the right woman, sure

fonduegirl · Answer

Nope. You?

boobliker · Answer

got 3 but only 1 talks to me now...

TonightYouu · Answer

No but it’s a little too late for that 😂

Preprefrontalis · Answer

No it is terrifying lol

Iron_Man · Answer

I did it’s not probably gonna have him

JohnK123 · Answer

Yeah someday ofc

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