Do you want to have children someday?

No. 95% of humanity seems to be filled with complete f*cking idiots and selfish assholes, and besides all of that, my genetics will not ever be passed into a woman's egg, as my body and health is sh*t, and I'd never curse another person with my broken DNA. (Height and health, included.)
Best case scenario, I'd adopt, but I'd really want a partner for that, and well... My genes aren't "worthy" of that. But mainly, this world is filled with too many selfish, awful people and I am sick of them. Idiots on the left with their woke BS, idiots on the right with their pro-life tyranny BS... Not a smart person left in sight. How could I ever raise a child around such selfish assholes and simpletons?
I want children, but I'm medically disabled due to severe diabetes, so I don't see that as a realistic option. I think my diabetes is hereditary, and as bad of pain as I have suffered from Neuropathy, I couldn't see passing that on to children. So while having one or more children would be a dream come true to me, I don't think it's a real possibility.
That's a shame, I hope you manage to work something out.
I had my first 5 months ago & I didn't know how happy I would be & how much love I could feel. He drives me nuts when he wakes me up in the middle of the night & it really pisses me off that I'm not getting the support I need from my partner (ffs I need an hour ALONE!!!), but I love my little one. He might be the only one, we're not to enthusiastic to do the whole thing again just yet lol
Ahw, I'm sure he's really sweet when he's not driving you nuts. š
Iāve always wanted to be a mom, Iāve always LOVED babies and kids and itās been one of my dreams since I was 6. But unfortunately I donāt think I can have any biologically. So right now Iām planning on adopting when Iām ready and stable
That's such a a shame, adopting would still be nice though.
Yeah, even as a little girl I would always say āI wanna be pregnantā āI wanna have a babyā and in high school I was really dying to have one already, and it didnāt help seeing pregnant teens there either. I still have baby fever, I always have. But I got an endometrial ablation because my periods were HELL, and I tried every hormonal birth control and nothing worked and the doctors I had SUCKED and made it sound like there was no other option except to keep suffering in hell. There had to have been other options besides that and birth control. On top of that Iāve always had the worst luck with doctors. Plus I found out I wasnāt even a good candidate for that procedure to begin with either
That's very hard, I hope you manage to work something out. š
I'm sure you'll be brilliant at looking after her, good luck with making your dream come true.
You're very welcome š
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I had 1 kid With a Girl I was 12 years old she was 17 i wonāt be having another kid This one is It.
Pretty difficult to handle a kid When your 12 years old I had to read a lot and figure out how to be a dad at 12 years old but it taught me to Grow up faster than most kids which was beneficial
Wow that must have been very difficult and quite a shock for you and her.
So you were molested by a pedophile and you are justifying it?
You have mental issues and you need to seek help
Iām not justifying anything I know how to get Girls and I wanted to Fuck her so I did.
You just said it is beneficial.
She obviously took advantage of you and you are defending her because you are sick in the head.
People like that should be jailed for a long time, sick freaks
If anybody Took advantage of anybody I took advantage of her.
I saw an opportunity To fuck her and I Wasnāt gonna Pass up the opportunity to fuck her
@Horse-girl yeah It was
Children can't take advantage of adults, don't be silly
She was 17 at the time she was still considered a Teenager not an adult adult is 18 not 17
She was an adult compard to a 12 year old
@PrettypleaseDY she was an adult compared to a 12-year-old? Adult is not a comparable word; itās a technical word. 18 is usually the age of majority.
@HippieVeganJewslim doesn't matter she still took advantage of him
@PrettypleaseDY that is OK. When I had sex with my girlfriend, who is 22 years older than I, We both took advantage of each other (mutualism). If youāre not doing anything bad to the other person (parasitism), itās all fine. And @earthrealm, did You enjoy the sex? If so, thatās mutualism. Kids CAN take advantage of adults, but itās not that common. Ever hear of the pupil who probably screwed his teacher in the boysā room, and then murdered her? That was a long time ago, so you wonāt probably recall.
Yeah
@HippieVeganJewslim So you support pedophilia?
Great to know you are sick in the head.
Go seek help. Comparing adults and children is ridiculous and disturbing.
@HippieVeganJewslim just because a kid enjoys sex doesn't mean they are not being exploited or used.
It's exactly that and all of you know that, but you choose ignore that because you are perverts.
@PrettypleaseDY I aināt comparing anybody ā We are all the same. By the way, why is 18 the exact number, and not 15, 21, or 35? If @earthrealm hit puberty by 12, why canāt he have sex? Mary was 12, according to historians, when Jesus was born. Joseph was quite old, like +65. If Jesus was less than six years older than His brothers, then Joseph would also be a paedophile (I ask forgiveness from G-d), according to your logic.
I used to. Now that I matured enough, I no longer want kids or marriage or girlfriend. I am just a single guy working on himself instead of someone else. And I'm okay with that. But unfortunately my parents and grandparents are not happy about it.
I do, children are a blessing. I'm not in a position to have them now but I'll better myself so I can be a good wife and mother. That's my main concern, if I'm not good enough. a lot of the women I follow are moms, either with biological or adopted children, most of them with both.
Yes, but if I can, I don't want to carry or birth them. The thought of having my vagina obliterated, my hormones pumping to extremes, and my body super stretched out does not appeal to me.
I will probably use a surrogate, or a test tube if they exist by that time and are a well developed technology.
I definitely have a fantasy about getting impregnated, so I may just act upon that. But I really don't want to deal with the pain and bodily changes.
NO. I'm not a child person (no offense to those of you that like or wants kids). I've felt that way since I was a kid if that tells you anything. I've never had a "maternal instinct" or urge to have kids.
I much rather have a dog instead: less stress, less drama, and definitely less expensive than a kid.
My wife and I have a son and it is impossible to accurately describe how much we love the little guy! We definitely want to have more.
He's very lucky to have such loving parents, I'm sure he's very happy. š
Absolutely not. I don't like kids.. never liked them. They are way too loud and too messy for me. They demand way too much attention and energy.
Don't get me wrong I don't hate them, hate is too strong of an emotion but I do like to reserve my energy and peace.
I have known (had sex with) several women who never had kids. They were in their seventies and eighties. None of them had any regret about not having children. I must say that a woman's vagina seems to retain its teenage like pleasure even in her eighties if she never has kids.
I think having two kids would be great. That way there isn't more kids than parents, and the kids will have siblings which I think is important.
I think it's important too, it teaches them how to share and other things like that.
I did, but then I changed my mind. After taking care of my nephew and cousins, I learned that I canāt handle responsibly taking care of a child for much longer than a few hours, and it wouldnāt be right to force their mother to take care of them for the rest of the time.
if, I find a man who I would want as my life partner and the father of my kids⦠if not, then I am just as happy living with 11 kittens and puppies hahaha
I recommend a chair swing for a tree rather than the additional ārocking chairā. Just basic friendly tips.š¤
I already have 3 and currently preggo with my 4th
Already have.
had been hoping to do the same again with someone, however thatās not going to happen now.
God no. I'm reminded every week why I don't when I
-sit and eat somewhere
-use the mall bathroom
-go to the movies
-go to walmart :)
I want to have kids but not sure about biological kids, like maybe getting a surrogate or adopting or volunteering as a god mother for the possibility of having kids.
Yeah in about 5 years. In two years I'll actually focus on finding the right person and then be with her for a couple years first before having kids. That is my plan.
Iād adopt instead. There are too many kids in foster care.
That's a very nice idea.š
I donāt think so. I donāt think Iām adequate to grow up a children and in my country is very difficult to maintain one for young couples.
No, I couldn't.
It's odd, I never had the urge or was driven to have kids, and it turns out I couldn't even if I wanted to.
I don't know what the future hold, but no, I don't think I do.
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