No. 95% of humanity seems to be filled with complete f*cking idiots and selfish assholes, and besides all of that, my genetics will not ever be passed into a woman's egg, as my body and health is sh*t, and I'd never curse another person with my broken DNA. (Height and health, included.)
Best case scenario, I'd adopt, but I'd really want a partner for that, and well... My genes aren't "worthy" of that. But mainly, this world is filled with too many selfish, awful people and I am sick of them. Idiots on the left with their woke BS, idiots on the right with their pro-life tyranny BS... Not a smart person left in sight. How could I ever raise a child around such selfish assholes and simpletons?
Most Helpful Opinions
I want children, but I'm medically disabled due to severe diabetes, so I don't see that as a realistic option. I think my diabetes is hereditary, and as bad of pain as I have suffered from Neuropathy, I couldn't see passing that on to children. So while having one or more children would be a dream come true to me, I don't think it's a real possibility.
I had my first 5 months ago & I didn't know how happy I would be & how much love I could feel. He drives me nuts when he wakes me up in the middle of the night & it really pisses me off that I'm not getting the support I need from my partner (ffs I need an hour ALONE!!!), but I love my little one. He might be the only one, we're not to enthusiastic to do the whole thing again just yet lol
Iāve always wanted to be a mom, Iāve always LOVED babies and kids and itās been one of my dreams since I was 6. But unfortunately I donāt think I can have any biologically. So right now Iām planning on adopting when Iām ready and stable
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
60Opinion
I had 1 kid With a Girl I was 12 years old she was 17 i wonāt be having another kid This one is It.
Pretty difficult to handle a kid When your 12 years old I had to read a lot and figure out how to be a dad at 12 years old but it taught me to Grow up faster than most kids which was beneficialI used to. Now that I matured enough, I no longer want kids or marriage or girlfriend. I am just a single guy working on himself instead of someone else. And I'm okay with that. But unfortunately my parents and grandparents are not happy about it.
I do, children are a blessing. I'm not in a position to have them now but I'll better myself so I can be a good wife and mother. That's my main concern, if I'm not good enough. a lot of the women I follow are moms, either with biological or adopted children, most of them with both.
Yes, but if I can, I don't want to carry or birth them. The thought of having my vagina obliterated, my hormones pumping to extremes, and my body super stretched out does not appeal to me.
I will probably use a surrogate, or a test tube if they exist by that time and are a well developed technology.
I definitely have a fantasy about getting impregnated, so I may just act upon that. But I really don't want to deal with the pain and bodily changes.
NO. I'm not a child person (no offense to those of you that like or wants kids). I've felt that way since I was a kid if that tells you anything. I've never had a "maternal instinct" or urge to have kids.
I much rather have a dog instead: less stress, less drama, and definitely less expensive than a kid.
- u
My wife and I have a son and it is impossible to accurately describe how much we love the little guy! We definitely want to have more.
Absolutely not. I don't like kids.. never liked them. They are way too loud and too messy for me. They demand way too much attention and energy.
Don't get me wrong I don't hate them, hate is too strong of an emotion but I do like to reserve my energy and peace.I have known (had sex with) several women who never had kids. They were in their seventies and eighties. None of them had any regret about not having children. I must say that a woman's vagina seems to retain its teenage like pleasure even in her eighties if she never has kids.
I think having two kids would be great. That way there isn't more kids than parents, and the kids will have siblings which I think is important.
I did, but then I changed my mind. After taking care of my nephew and cousins, I learned that I canāt handle responsibly taking care of a child for much longer than a few hours, and it wouldnāt be right to force their mother to take care of them for the rest of the time.
- s
if, I find a man who I would want as my life partner and the father of my kidsā¦ if not, then I am just as happy living with 11 kittens and puppies hahaha
I already have 3 and currently preggo with my 4th
Already have.
had been hoping to do the same again with someone, however thatās not going to happen now.
God no. I'm reminded every week why I don't when I
-sit and eat somewhere
-use the mall bathroom
-go to the movies
-go to walmart :)I want to have kids but not sure about biological kids, like maybe getting a surrogate or adopting or volunteering as a god mother for the possibility of having kids.
Yeah in about 5 years. In two years I'll actually focus on finding the right person and then be with her for a couple years first before having kids. That is my plan.
Iād adopt instead. There are too many kids in foster care.
I donāt think so. I donāt think Iām adequate to grow up a children and in my country is very difficult to maintain one for young couples.
This is a question that breaks my heart, yes i do but can never have any of my own, and I dont feel adoption is ok for me or fair to any child in my life. this makes me very sad
I don't know what the future hold, but no, I don't think I do.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!